YOU ARE NOT ALONE LORNA

Submitted by Jessica (canada) (United States), Sep 6, 2018 at 05:29

I havent been on for a few weeks and tonight i came to the forum to my surprise wow lots of posts being posted. . i still havent read all of them yet but i only read a few especially the post from Lorna. your post really touched me. .Dont feel bad about your relationship with this coward. you have stepped on shit now its time to scrape it off your shoes. i cant believe what im reading. how dare he called you ugly and he doesnt love you. any man say this to a woman is not a man. while you are crying and hes laughing. to me he sounds like a kid who doesnt know the meaning of love. he is very well playing with your emotion.

This reminded me with my first mena man i did mentioned to all you ladies in the past. hes name is Fouad i was with him for 2 months and every night he video cam me and ask for inappropriate pictures and love bombed me and asked me to send him 500 dollar so he can buy a laptop so we can video chat. then he asked me to buy his brother's boxing gloves because he was taking boxing lesson. and he really think i love him and demanded me to send him this money. NO WAY. A WOMAN NEVER PAY FOR LOVE. then he said im a bad woman and dont know what love is. and i said to him hes a bad man only a useless man would ask a woman for money. I told him he should be ashame of himself. then i blocked him off.

until i met mohnamed its our 4th years now together and he never ask me anything and he never say sweet words to me. i was sick 2 weeks ago and he kept calling me. im not trying to brag my relationship on here i know for so many years alot of ladies on here dont believe my relationship is good. for 4 years now Mohamed still treated me like gold and he never ask me to send him anything. i went to morocco last year and he bought stuffs for me and my girls he paid everything for me including my plane ticket. next year i will go again for my second time. he bargained for me in the souk while i was there and i do find that people are very nice in his city even tough the living standard cannot compare to canada.

last 2 weeks was Eid Mubarak and he went to Rabat to his uncle place for 4 days during these big holiday they ate alot of lambs. and he video me and his cousin how they cut the lamb and how it cooked. it was a whole lamb. hes a technician and this summer he made pretty good income these few weeks alot of air conditioners needs to be fixed and refridgerators and he ask me what i like because its our 4th year anniversary he wanted so much to send something to me. he ask me do i want necklace or bracelets or any jewelries he will send it to me. i say its ok you can buy it to me again next year when im in morocco dont need to send it to me i have every thing in canada.

Fouad have multiple facebook accounts and lots of European girls and american girls. but Mohamed only have one facebook and he never on it he hates social media and hes facebook account you cannot send him friend request. last time Sheila and Chelsea think mohamed send them a friend request. im so sure its not him. has to be some other Mohamed. lots of mohamed everywhere lol. he never accept anyone in the past there are so many girls added him before and he screen shot the pictures for me to see and he never accept them. that was 3 years ago.. now i have access to his facebook. he had 80 followers in his facebook and they are all girls from france and spain and some are in the usa. i know hes very rare just like Luhx's husband. totally not a sewer rats. he never say sugar coated words to me because he knew i never falls for that. the only phrase he ever say to me for 4 years is " i love you baby" or called me "my love" thats all. and we still talk 2 to 3 times a day. he used to have a badoo account over 10 years ago and he never on it too. someone did posted his badoo accounts months ago and he even forgot the password its been over 10 years. Real mena man would do anything for thier woman its their culture. he told me all the time.

Lorna forget about this idiot hes not even worth your time. he just want a visa to U.K. and want to use you as a bridge to get over there. but not all mena man want to get out of their country. my mohamed want me to live in Morocco once we get marry. he said canada is too cold for him hey talking about minus 35 in winter already give him the chill. i told you hes so different from the rest of the mena guy that every one is talking in here. they all sounds like my ex Fouad sewer rats. not Mohamed for sure. he is so commited to his work and family. he love his family to pieces in france. lets put it this way Lorna some people come to your life as blessings, others come in your life as lessons. so this kurdish guy come to your life as lessons. im sure next time a guy will come to your life as blessings.

i been so blessed with 2 wonderful men in my life. my ex husband (my girls father) he's a wonderful father to my girls and was wonderful to me in the past. just like mena men Asian men paid for everything . i dont have to pay a dime while i was married to him. what i earn in my work is my money alone. my saving. and i been to so many place in my life. we just came back from a cruise Harmony of the Sea to south america to Puerto Rico, St. Marteen, san Juan and Haiti. my girls are having a blasts. next summer we plan to join a cruise to Alaska this time. been to the Hawaiin cruise and bahamas cruise before. Mohamed let me do whatever i want as long as im happy. i just have 2 piercing recently. one on my nose the other on my lip and he likes it so much plus i also have few tattoos. i also going to the gym everyday for 2 hours and i have lost 25 pounds in the past 3 months. im good in my normal weight now 131 lbs feel much lighter now and much more energetic . im feeling great and happy. life should be happy not miserable.

it will take some time just block him off Lorna. whenever he create a new facebook remember to block block block. go to a movie, go to karaoke, go to the gym, to to clubbing or pamper yourself with new manicure and pedicure life is wonderful you really dont need someone make your life miserable. trust me i promise you will get over him in no time. so sorry what had happened to you but i wish you all the best.

and one movie i really want to go see is Crazy rich Asian. my sister and my daughters already seen it. it hit number one box office 2 weeks in a row and its worth watching it.. alot of people dont really know how Rich Asian are. the title of the movie speaks for itself. if you have time to see this movie Lorna you will realize men are not important money is. with money you can do anything in this world.

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