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Submitted by JACKIE SASSO (United States), Aug 22, 2018 at 18:11

Chelsea:

I so needed to hear this, I really admit I was so very confused. I am so very angry. I am so very sad. I had so much pity for him and knew at 3:30 am when he would chat how beat down he was and needed something or someone to lead him down the right path; and unfortunately, I thought it was me. I really truly felt I could save his soul. Now, I know I cannot. I also thought if he would just look at me in the eyes, I would know the truth. Now, I know I cannot. I am strong, kind, giving and trusting independent woman who would have given him everything just to not see his dark eyes and how he suffered. WOW just re-reading that sentence proves now to me how much I was in denial. YIKES!

As of now, I will be forever scared and will always look over my shoulder everywhere I ever go! I thank GOD everyday for this site and grateful that I am able to continue to be free and live my life as such unlike he. Now, I realize he never had a soul to save. He never had pity on me or any type of emotional connection to me. It honestly took only blocking him for me to clearly see this. The last time I had interaction with him was two days ago and he demanded my passwords to my social media account. He text me his passwords in hoping I would comply, but I just ignored him. He stated he was homeless as his family will no longer trust what he says and when he speaks they just walk away. He tried yet again for the pity party by stating he lost everything because of me; however, I reminded him how he hated his life. I suggested he should pray to God that he lead him down a righteous path.

I have not heard a word as I was expected to be landing in Paris right now and Algiers tomorrow. The last thing he text was his telephone number which was the phone number. This is the telephone number who called me and it creeped me out that this was not his voice! He stated again if I want him back, he will be waiting for me at the airport and to call when I arrive so I can earn back his trust and his family's trust.

Only until NOW, after reading your response do I understand after his text pleading with me to still come and if I did comply to meet with him, I would have most likely been a subject of shame killing as well! OMG.

How can anyone be so fake and take from me over and over and yet have no remorse in hurting or killing me without a blink of an eye? I could have never even imagined he would hurt me as he needed the VISA if it were true? I actually began thinking, if he got rid of me, he could then have just replaced my picture on my VISA and Passport with this wife and come back to America without any need for me.

I have not opened my social media except one day and I have not missed a thing other than him attempting to create fake profiles that I may friend request. He even had someone call me from Algeria and it was not his voice and I saved it because it sounded like someone from Nigeria or perhaps his "BOSS" who was making arrangements to kidnap me in Paris or Algiers at the airport. For real and only after blocking him do I see what you are all saying. I will be forever grateful, but I am still in shock and relieved all at the same time.

If anyone ever has any doubt in their mind, their gut or their heart....if it feels wrong no matter what it is .... please listen to yourself and DO NOT DO IT!

Forever grateful, Jackie :)

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