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Very nice reflection, M Tovey: time comes when the only thing you see is the Muslim man

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Submitted by A very concerned reader, Feb 25, 2021 at 01:35

M Tovey,

I have liked your post very much. Your analogy of conquering societies with conquering persons (in here, women) to gain as much dominance as possible. In here, the gain is double: dominance of the land through the dominance of the women. It's all about controlling everything and everyone, and when it comes to women, the rewards are numerous in this case. As you very well mention, in the West, they feel that they have carte blanche to satisfy those fantasies that they cannot get done at home where they need to play their role and nail it. Here, no one is watching. It seems that not even their Allah... although we have seen that even their deity approves all the evil if it contributes to spreading Islam.

It's very sad that they rip out people's hearts on their way without even caring about women's feelings. No remorse. All worth for their purpose. But I truly believe that those lives are empty. Something greater is missing. The taste of polygamy is poison for the soul. The inner reward is equal to nothing. As nothing they will take with them to their so-called Hereafter. What a wasting. Living a whole life without experience true love and without even being able to recognise feelings looks to me like a completely waste of time. Seeking only pleasurable experiences which lack real intimacy and connection at all levels with another human being is for me a total loss. It's dangerous. It's an addiction. Furthermore, it's a sickness.

Loving someone has to entail compromise and sacrifice. Things need to be balanced. Today for me, but tomorrow for you. Two people well aligned in regards to their motivations in life as well as their values. That's why Non Muslim women and Muslim men relationships are doomed to fail and break apart at some point. I have never met two persons so different to each other. But they're good to mimic you at the beginning to trap you. That's the danger and the curse. Once they get the woman, the facade is gone. And then, the only thing you see is the Muslim man.

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