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Problem is they can use Islam to delude rightly

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in response to reader comment: Salaam Alaikum!

Submitted by A very concerned reader, Jan 21, 2021 at 14:39

Thank you, Ajda for your polite reply. I admit I was in anger when writing mine. Please, apologise if I have offended you somehow, but believe me, I have my reasons and the knowledge to write what I did.

I don't need you to explain to me what Islam teaches you both men and women. I have studied it more than many of the Muslim by birth that I have known. I know all about respect, women protection, lower your gaze-cover your body rules for male and female, respectively, and so on.

However, I know when a Muslim can skip those rules for his benefit. Not only do I know what the Quoran says but also the Hadeeths because I have read them all. I have watched videos from respectable scholars and I have read a good number of articles and texts. So, my sister, I know what I'm talking about.

Truth is that the Muslim men discussed on this board know well what they're doing, and they excuse themselves with the Islamic umbrella because there's justification for almost all their sins committed against Western woman or the western countries as well. Haven't you read Elizabeth's post about faking asylum to get a visa, even declaring themselves ex-muslims to get out of their countries? This is a very cause of concern for me and many of us.

You must be familiarised with the term taqqiyah if you're Shia. But the concept is equally used on their advantage from sunni Muslims. There's a gap for lying if it's for defending your religion, saving your life when in your enemy's hands or to get a benefit from a kafir that it is believed to be a Muslim's right, historically or not.

You must also be familiarised with muta marriage and misyar, for the sunni Muslim. These men can marry their western lover because it is completely permisible in Islam. They use these women faking love when the reality is to get companionship when they are abroad, sex, more Muslim descendents and more than likely, A VISA. When the job is done, they leave their new family that they have created under the misyar shelter. They go home to marry their arranged girls or come back to bring their family, because more often than not, they're already married. So yes! Some of them marry the western girl to leave her years later, devastated. And as they even revert to Islam, how could they imagine they would be abandoned?

So, let's leave aside for a moment the women having affairs on the Internet who are dealing without knowing it with scammers using the Internet as a zinna playground. Focus again on the +30 divorced with children women. How on earth they manage to make believe those women who revert after falling for them that their love is real? Moreover, explain to me how they're able to disguise their ulterior motives under love to reach such extremes by using your Lord's word? How is possible that a peaceful religion oblige women to relinquish their children if they want to get marry again? Explain to all the readers if you're not in a male-centered world where women's will, feelings, power and inner-self is so much minimised. I know what you would reply because I know what you've been told: children from another men can't be raised as good Muslims. They bring dishonour to the Muslim's name and family, he can't give them his surname because it's forbidden according to the Quoran, etc. Shame, shame, shame is the word.

So yes, some of us do understand your culture very well. The point is we can't understand how is possible a so called man uses even his religion to deceive very good and smart women. Because these ones who change their religion are equally used. For me this is something that goes beyond all sanity. And it is horrible act. But even they leave them, I guess they can rest in peace because they have converted one infidel on their way to success. Am I right? Hijad. I told you before.

I know you must think that the rest of the women who have been used by Muslim men on the Internet are very libertine, let me tell you that I have learnt that these men are incredibly persuasive and even the most naive girl could fall for the video/photo showing thing. They use threats, manipulation tactics, stalking and many more that you won't believe to make them get naked for them. And not only western women do this! This happen in many Islamic countries! Their women are not more pure than westerners are! They have apps to skip the censorship, they know how to change the IP addresses... they're ahead from us and are savvy technologies users! So not only "stupid" western women show their body. Muslimahs too. Do not forget please the surgery to rebuild the hymen which is a growing business nowadays in many Islamic countries.

So you see, Ajda, that my purpose on here is to educate women who don't have this knowledge that certainly, it's not easy to learn. Many of us had a romantic vision of Islam, we were educated to embrace all religions and love all human beings regardless of their background. We are not allowed to lie for our benefit, specially if we know we are going to hurt another human being who by the way, is in love with us.

I know everyone will follow their religion in their own manner. But you cannot deny that Islam approves all these practices for the sake of spreading Islam and for the good of the Muslim fellows. And unfortunately, women are the ones who most suffer the consequences.

I can post on here the quoranic ayyas and surahs to demonstrate and support what I'm talking about. In fact, everyone can do it as the holy scriptures and haddiths are ready available for everyone to read on the Internet. So use wisely to learn!

May the peace be with you, sister, and thanks for your reply.

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