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Male-centered religion, narcissistic traits that attract women at first sight and religion spread

Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men
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Submitted by Numina (Norway), Nov 11, 2020 at 14:34

Hello Lina,

Thanks for your response. Yes. You're right and here's why. Islam is a male-centered religion which defines women as inferior to men, to start with. Because of their maternal instinct, their empathy and their emotional responses, Muslim men seem them like the weaker gender. This makes them unable to make well informed decisions, lead the finances of a house and even prone to cheat on their husbands. Yes, I know. That's why women have to be inside the house confined, and never go outside if it's not escorted by male relative.

In fact, Lina, these men are very insecure, need constant attention as well as reducing the chances that their women may see a better man than them.

As you have mentioned, they use love to mask their agenda. Not in vain, spreading Islam has been promoted to be done by 2 ways: by the sword or by love jihad. The latter is like a silent killer, and thanks to the number of women that they're seducing, the number of Muslims is far from being stopped. And they know it.

These women are empathic, have been told to be tolerant, respectful, caring, anti-bias, generous as well as helpful to those who have less than them. Besides, the women they're targeting have been hurt in previous relationships/marriages. Many have suffered already abuse by their partners, and they have lost their hopes in western men who seem not to tune with their feelings. These men sense this because all makes them more vulnerable to believe in the whole charade.

And along came the Muslim men, preaching words of love, equality messages, empowerment propaganda to women to make them believe that in Islam, they're pearls to be treated with utmost care. As I mentioned in previous posts, Muslim men also claim to want a strong family, based on a strong bond with their spouses, they want kids ASAP when women sometimes have to beg their western partners to start forming a family. This is the perfect recipe to convert kafirs, Lina.

However, little did these women know that they were targeted, means to an end, whether it is to gain legal residency or spreading their religion. Sometimes both at the same time. Of course, the honeymoon phase lasts very little. And soon, the emotional and verbal abuse starts, and it escalates quickly to financial and in the most dangerous and undesirable cases, physical abuse. And trust me, it does happen often. Women need to know too that according to the Quoran, men can hit their wives to discipline them and make them obey. Islam is many things but not a peaceful religion. Violence crosses many surahs and hadiths. And yes it's sad, but as Elizabeth narrated, they support the defense of their religion and prophet by any means. They dislike greatly western values and lifestyle. But they're eager to make a living in there and bring their relatives along with them.

Their macho ego and fake self-security are other traits which attract western women. But all is false. They're narcissistic who need to dominate their women by the hook or by the crook, and need badly to be worshipped by their women. They control all. From what they eat to how they must dress and to whom they can talk or not. This is the freedom and the love they offer to their women.

Ali Sina, ex Muslim, has great articles and books about the narcissism in Muslim man and its origin as well as advice to women in the marriage subject. He always says that if women don't leave the relationship, they should think of the possible children they may have who should have a choice in regards to religion. Had many women read their website before entering into a relationship with one of this sneaky Princes Charmer, they would have run in the other direction. But this is a long plot for a whole new post :)

Stay safe, my dear Lina.

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