Submitted by Alexa (Brazil), Apr 30, 2019 at 04:38
Hello Friend.
I regretfully had the displeasure of meeting an Egyptian man here in Uruguay.
He had taken me to a restaurant and he had been more than a gentleman. He is attractive guy and he, to my bad luck, also "liked" me.
As I often dined in that same restaurant, there was an approach and he was very seductive to flirt with me.They are good actors when they want to achieve something. Cynics, liars. They play dirty in the name of Allah! - "Exalted and Glorified Be" - as is proved later.
At first they are very sweet, put you up, make you feel so special, adored by them. Just at first.
He spent all his time exalting his own character. Because he prayed five times a day and had a lot of peace in his heart. And he did it in such a seductive way that no average person would be able to assume that this kind of thing does not deserve credit.
Well, He has become abusive from the first time "we are alone". Because he did not want to know if I wanted to have sex with him or not. He just totally changed, it became him and only him and I was just an object that said scared "calm down! Do not go so quickly..."
I felt afraid of him. I swear. I was gentle because I saw that he had become someone else, with no empathy for me.
After that I moved away from him, I avoided him for a while. Until he came back on my way and resurfaced as someone regretted to have been "misunderstood", etc.
!!!! WATCH OUT! !!!!! They are like najas hidden in the desert. Slowly curling around your legs, looking your eyes just to blind you. !!!!!
Well, He became sweet, gentle again, but he was obsessed with me, I mean,
because I deviated from his attack. Because I proved to be a "too rebel" woman.
Possessive, his jealousy was morbid. I could not even ask the hours for a man randomly. He was publicly humiliating me in some way like to blow the smoke from that f***ing narghile in my face.
I thought "I will not want to be treated like a DOG anymore"
They are vipers! hypnotizes you, I do not know how. Suddenly you are like a dog on a leash, in an isolated place, away from the group in which he is fraternizing. And he only realizes this when someone in the group, who does not really know him, says to you "hey, why you're sitting there far away? join us here!" So he keeps his posture friendly to keep his good image before others.
To humiliate you, when he feels confronted, he will violate secrecy that you confided to him while he was your "friend." Something he knows hurts you.
Fortunately, a countryman of his appeared and when he was not around he told me "he is married". Yes. kids, wife, constituted family.
But the damn had told me that he had no children. And he told me that he had once been married, but no longer. Too bad I did not take this insane religion called Islam seriously, because if I had known I would know that he would not be divorced. No ex-girlfriends too.
There is no way out for the woman after getting involved with them. They treat them like theirs forever.
And because I "repudiated" him for being a bastard, he still wants to undo the humiliation of having been sent away.
I wonder what's worse: being his betrayed wife at home
or
me
her forced lover in a fraudulent relationship
?
He does not give up, because to please "Allah" and be "blessed", as Mohammed advises, as a man, he has the obligation to subject the woman to the place below him.
He scares me!!!
It is neither mentally nor morally healthy. Stay away from Islam! Run! It's not religious intolerance! Just leave us alone
away from you!!!! DANGER! They destroy women's lives.
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