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I am not really surprised

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Submitted by Deirdre (Canada) (Canada), Nov 9, 2018 at 19:34

Lorna, I am really sorry to read about your cancer and you will be in my prayers. I really hope that you can focus on you and your health. I can't put this any other way except to say that you married a rat 100%. He is lying to you about everything especially about his parents. All he wants is a visa for him and his family. I don't really want to rain on your parade about your choice as you have mentioned that it is something that you had to do for you so, so be it.

A couple people on here mentioned about not starting the visa process when you return home and I strongly agree that you really should hold off on that, he will not know as gaining permanent residence is a process anyways. Just take some time and think about everything especially the fact that the marriage hasn't been consummated yet (huge red flag)

I see that this is something you had to do but it doesn't mean that you shouldn't protect yourself and your assets to make sure he can't take anything from you. Finally, at least you will know one way or another about him and his lies. I am so sorry for all of this and there is so much I want to tell you but I am at a loss for words right now. Just please take care of yourself

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