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Submitted by Sheila, Oct 10, 2018 at 14:41

Lorna I'm thinking you posted the email failed to send before we actually talked. I hope you didn't go. I hope you watched that video I was telling you about. Lorna , I don't think anyone is saying you're stupid. No you're not. You're educated but educated people can be severely brainwashed by a scammer. I don't know for sure about the UK but in the US it's difficult for people to get prescriptions for antidepressants , benzodiazepines, etc. Many family physicians want you to see drs who specialize in these meds. Starting this year in the US psychiatrists have been limiting these meds. I think it's due to all the OD's. Such as opioids for example. Also drs do not get bonuses anymore for prescribing these meds here in the US. Really meds only help if you're able to help yourself. Meds can't do it all. I know you said you're not on any and I was saying that if the UK is like the US now this is probably why.

I think you can pull out of this. It will take time, fighting hard for yourself, and keeping him blocked out of your life. He's hurt you so much already. Marriage is difficult for people who have much in common meaning culture, religion etc. It's really taking a chance with someone like this. Divorce is a feeling of death for most. Really you shouldn't want to see if he's a good man because I've never talk to him but I'm 99.5 % sure what his intentions are. Is it worth to go and marry him to find out. Knowing how he has already treated you in many ways and that there's a very strong possibility he's using you. If someone who has dealt with a Mena man can know what they are and can be like. Someone who really hasn't or maybe they are basing it on one who was born in the west and is very westernize. You can base that on someone who is a born bread MENA! I hope you have read about BEZNESS too.

Many on here have posted caring comments to you. I hope you do see you are loved in our family here on the forum. Sometimes things sound worse typed out than hearing the words said. I think many are trying to be sure their point has gotten through to you. Please email me and let me know how you are. Post it on here for the others too because they do care.

I hope you blocked him. Lorna you deserve so much better than this. There's an amazing plan for you but it won't happen until you're ready. Get over this guy so you can have the life that will truly bring you the most happiness. Take it from someone who has been there and knows. We love you Lorna! xoxoxo

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