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Lorna save yourself and stand up for your fellow countrymen

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Submitted by Chelsea, Oct 9, 2018 at 17:56

Your purpose is to protect those who are close to you, not to endanger them. This is where you have to make a decision to be strong and NOT endanger your loved ones. Think. I know it is hard, however when it came to endangering my people, because of trust issues, manipulative and mind games. I had to break through my pain and think about my loved ones. Did I really need to be so selfish and confused to think I needed this so much that I would actually endanger my family, friends and people in my own country??

I pulled all my strength on that. I stopped him and I felt I was going against my heart, but the facts were facts and I could not bring a stranger to my homeland and even become a national security risk.

Look around at your people, your neighbors, your family. Don't put them or your country at risk. Love them. Life will go on I promise. The only way is to get away from his manipulation.

Facts over feelings Lorna always. This is how they are spreading their ideology...through gullible vulnerable women like us. Be strong enough to say NO.

Walk away with your head held high, knowing that you have not endangered your homeland, that you have protected those you know and love. Walk away with your dignity and you sanity. You are not crazy because you are still able to think this could be wrong. That is enough to know that it is.

When I look at my people in my country now, I am thankful I did not subject them to this.

If you are barren, forget it. Even if you go to his country and stay....you will not last long. Women are only good to bear children and take care of the men. They especially want boys. Women are nothing to them.

You have an opportunity to be proud of saying NO. Because you are protecting your loved ones and your country. This is not all about you and it certainly is NOT all about him.

You will be proud inside of protecting the country you know and love. Much more than you know.

Go through the motions and detox with no contact. If he is not in your life....I promise you, that you will not die. You will have to go through healing....but on the other side you will have more strength than you ever knew you had. You will have your dignity and respect. And you will never settle for less again.

This is your chance to be a hero .... inside you and for the love of others and your country.

Take this opportunity. They are not your friend, just the opposite.

Walk away with your dignity and self-respect, knowing inside that you have saved not only yourself, but people around you. Make us proud Lorna. You can do this.

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