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Michelle

Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men
in response to reader comment: I feel your pain Lorna

Submitted by Lorna, Sep 4, 2018 at 16:50

I'm still here , but I don't want to be but I know I can't die because of him ! I'm sorry for your pain it's just so hard !
Today he emailed me and told me he had another woman , she had messaged him before and loved him ; he said she's not my type, you are but she sent me 500 dollars she past the test !
I'm crying ..he said there was a test and I didn't pass it !
He said she is from Michigan USA and she's ugly but she has loved me a long time now! I wanted you but you didn't pass my test ! She sent the 500 dollars immediately..you did not come here to marry me !
I was so shocked first that he emailed me ..second that he told me that ! Once again I felt I had been punched in the stomach!
I cried all day again , I can't remember when I last ate ! Michelle do we ever get our lives back again ! I was a happy driven career woman also I'm a feminist ! That makes you laugh , a feminist with s Muslim man ?? One by one he systematically took my barriers down ,I was groomed I know I was and I suspect most of us on here were! Was I vulnerable? Yes my mum had recently died but who knew he could do this to me !
On Instagram he would tell me to take a picture down if it offended him or if I didn't go to sleep when he wanted me to ! But I loved him and believed every word from his mouth ! I'm quite well off with good job so he really got stuck into me I can see that now ! I'm sorry if this is all a Bit of a rant I've taken a medication to calm to help me as I was truly suicidal ! I'm losing so much weight and I still wish I would die but Michelle you gave me hope and offered a hug when that is all I need right now !
I hooe you feel better day by day until he is only a distant bad memory for you !
I would love to email you and see if together we could heal but I'm not sure we are allowed to do that ! The woman he is with ..I feel sorry for her and wish I could help her but what can I do ???
Please every person that comes on here take the advice they lie they cheat ..they are beyond cruel..they suck the lives out of us in a bid to get our way of life ..they have no morals and Islam has an answer for everything ! His god was proud of him he said ! That about sums up the Kurdish Muslim man about town !!! Thank you for listening and helping me ..I wish you well my friend and wish I could talk with you ! Your words touched me ..thanks !

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