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scammers dont think you have a soulReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by observer (United States), Aug 21, 2016 at 15:05 hi. I've been reading lots of posts here and all I can say is: no matter what, muslim coptic maronite buddhist, what people in rich countries (though they themselves may not even be rich) dont realize is that a scammers dont consider you have a soul. how? for example... brazil before 1995. it was hard as hell to travel abroad, consumism was not yet part of out culture and even ppl with good income families used to go to the usa to work as MAIDS or NANNYS and everybody found that awesomely CHIC. "omg she got a microwave, and from the city's dumping ground, ooooh it looks brand new, it's cheaper for americans to buy a new one than to fix it so you can find many nice stuff at the dumping ground she lives in miami ooh etc". REALLY. I knew one of these many ppl. They always sent things to brazil to their families, from electronics to plush toys and when they visited they brought a lot of stuff too. it was like winning the lottery... hmm not yet. winning the lottery was having these young women who never touched a broom here (but cleaned other ppls bathrooms there) getting themselves married to some less than average guy or old man, hoping to get a greencard. We heard frequently that they got married. And everybody talked openly "it's because of the greencard", "aaaahhhhh". Being a child and listening to that was a shock for I believed marriage should involve ppl getting together out of something more than selfish interests. but that's how it was. it was never commented if the guy felt he was being scammed, his feelings werent taken in consideration. they thought like "if he is marrying a brazilian instead of a woman of his culture he is probably aware it is all about greencard and wont mind when she steps out". Now I see here independent beautiful intelligent women and men being scammed by ppl who are WAY WORSE than brazilians from the 80's and 90's (cause now it still exists among poorer classes i think but upper classes can travel abroad and have a consumist life without parasiting a foreigner). These ppl now are not brazilian. their culture is a lot worse (dont care if someone will call me racist), and i say this cause i ironically was a scam victim too, or should i say almost.... from the part of a muslim from the other side of the world as well, for whom i would just be probably a visa supplier, a sex supplier, or a better life supplier. ppl who live in difficult situation, i mean buying chocolate and biscuits once a semester and keeping it in the freezer not to spoil and eat it litle by little while anyone of us can buy one of this everyday at any grocery store, will do ANYTHING they can to escape the MATERIALLY limited lifestyle they have, they dont actually care about any of you they just focus on "better life for ME", materially speaking. its all about what thet can get. sick. none of you are 'honey', you are 'visa'. sorry, their lives may be materially difficult but judging for what i see here life in rich countries is, deep inside, emotionally empty. how can you think a person from such different conditions is gonna think like you or feel the same you do? dont look at them as more sincere, purer, more serious or anything just because they come from the 3rd world or some other culture. dont feel guilty for being the white wealthy american/european who will sound racist if you feel suspicious of them and their easy sympathy or if you warn others about it. They are not only visa scammers. their culture and religion teaches them from birth to feel rancour of you (especially from the women who they regard as cheap material no matter the bombshell you are) and the advantadges you have. they dream about populating the world and take from you what they actually consider theirs by some 'divine grace'. they think you dont deserve it. serious marriage = with someone from your culture, same country, not more than 10 years older for men, sharing similar lifestories, plans, opinions whatever, knowing well before officializing, family involved, think if you have legal problems especially concerning kids its a lot less difficult to work it out. marriage is not an exotic dish. Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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