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Submitted by Standfree (United States), Jun 2, 2014 at 04:45

I have read and reread so many of these post for over a year now. It's taken that long to get back from Egypt to my own country. It took a lot of planning some big cash exchange and some awesome people I will forever be grateful to. My decent into a life of hell started 13 years ago. I love my husband to this day, everyday is a struggle but I'm free, I'm finding me again.

It started great, I wouldn't have to change religions he said, we wouldn't force our children to be muslim he said,. He's not like that he said, he didn't want to come to live in the USA he said. He would never beat me he said. I could do everything and dress how I wanted in Egyptian he said.

Wow, all that changed. The beatings didn't start until recently. But the mental torture was deep. I wish sometimes he would have just beat me physical scars can go away, mental abuse that's hard. His family loves me, his mom she's my heart, and probably a big part of why I stayed for so long.

I hear your stories and feel your pain. For years I watched as naive young, old, middle aged woman from all backgrounds came to Egypt wide eyed in love and determined to prove everyone wrong. I was shocked and disgusted at the ways they were treated. Most of the woman I meet were no less then the 3rd or 4th ones to come to Egypt to visit the same friends of my husband.

You know, if you do not meet his mom, family, but especially his mom. It's not real, Egyptians love their mom's, adore their mom's. So if you don't, there's a problem. True blue Egyptians do not date, they do not take you out and about alone, there is always someone with you. If he does question this.

There is no such thing as a "modern muslim" if they respect you and love you this won't happen. Egyptian men are proud men, they will not ask for money from you especially if your not married. It won't happen, if it does take heed. You and your children become his property, you and your children once married are considered muslim and if you didn't read the fine print, you agreed to all of it. If you decide to become muslim, we all know regardless of what you say the majority of the reason, the real reason is because you were marrying a muslim.

If you do change religions, my advice is to read the Qur'an front to back first, because you agree to all of it whether you read it or not. That's just how it is. And trust me, it will be thrown in your face that you knew that's how it is. Oh, and don't try the" you said I wouldn't have" argument with him. I will give you his answer now it will most likely be "it's not me that says you have too, it's Allah" and guess what you agreed to it. whether you think so or not that's just how it is. It makes me laugh when I read woman say not in my home I wear the pants, ha, that may be true until he says so. And yes if he wants to divorce you it's that simple he says your divorced its done even if your in another country. And if you refuse he will just leave and remarry and good luck getting any support. If your lucky enough to get the kids. If this all happens in Egypt, unless you are lucky have someone in another country with money and connections to help you out, your kids go to him everything goes to him. Yes, most lie they do not take responsibility for their actions they will take you down so low you start to believe the horrible things he will say to you.

They will go, and keep coming back like a bad dream. Just when you think you can finally breath again, bam out of the blue he will contact you. So you have blocked delete change numbers whatever make a clean cut end. Just cut it off. If you feel you have to find out and continue, God be with you. Sometimes you don't need to see what you already know. I didn't meet my husband on the internet, so I can't know that attraction, but I have seen many women meet many women that have met my husband's friends online.

And to echo a lot of people on here, you're not the only one he is talking to. Most do not have internet connections in the home, so they are chatting to you from the internet cafe. And all those pic you send, everyone there is seeing them. That's a fact.

If he's lucky to have a job he's only making a few hundred dollars a month. If he has a car it's probably a family car if he has one at all. The flat you live in, either you will buy it, or its not his. If you have to pay rent, you will be working. And good luck finding a job.

If you move to your country, well you will be the main support, he will want to go to school more likely so yes he will stay with you until he's done even if he gets his visa. Some woman say, he knows I don't have money that doesn't matter, you will need to work hard to provide for him. If you are older then him, this is touchy and by no means am I being rude, I'm just stating what I have seen, no matter what he tells you it's not ok. If you are older and can't have kids, if he says that's ok he is flat out alising to you. Egyptian mom's want their children to have children if you can't, and he's with you, red flag he won't disappoint his mom. No matter what he says. I would question his beliefs if a muslim man ever said he didn't want children. Oh, and if you already have kids and he says that's enough they will be mine. Lie, oh don't get me wrong he will love them, but they can never be his he can't adopt. The children carry his full name and have to be his to do that.

If you think for one minute that you're safe cause he has your photo on th or posted everywhere and all his friends know you. He could still be married, and if you're sending money his wife doesn't care she gaining her kids are too. I have seen a man chatting with some poor woman online while his wife was right next to him.you have to understand, different culture, different understandings.

You might be asking, did my husband talk to other woman or cheat on me. I used to pray he would, I even tried to be him and hook up with some chick on line. But unfortunately, he was the jealous type he didn't ever leave me alone, he was with me 24/7 we worked together until the business went down with all the problems there. Then he decided I would sell my home in the USA, cash out my 401K and give it to him, because I was stupid and didn't know how to handle money. Ha right … but anyways I don't know if he did or when he could have. He was verbally abusive mentally, then in the late physical abuse.

Listen, no one can tell you if you love someone or not, but there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with an idea of someone.

Is it hard to leave oh my, yes yes it is. To come off a high of what you felt as true live, it will hurt. I cried all day everyday, I felt I couldn't breath. My reality of what was my life was gone I was scared, afraid for my life, the safety of my girls. I couldn't sleep, I ached for his voice, ached for him. I became so weak I called him. His words to me, "come back baby I'm your husband, I love you, miss you so much."

Had he stopped with those words I may have gone back, but the words that followed, woke me up eyes wide open. He continued on with, "I forgive you, I'm patient at you, I know you're sick in the mind, only a sick woman would ruin her life by leaving. Come back and we will get you help." My whole body became ice, I knew at that moment, I can never return to him or Egypt he will have me committed, and take our children. I still have bad days, sad days, lonely days. But it gets easier, one-day I realized I hadn't cried, I realized I hadn't wanted to die. It's a struggle . But trust me it's nothing compared to the he'll you will live if you stay.

I haven't said everything, and I skipped around, but If you wish to talk, I'm here contact me at standfree2014@gmail.com. I'm here, I've lived it. I survived.

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13Agree to No Arguing but Not Having Kids can be a Good Thing [198 words]JaimeDec 30, 2019 05:37256763
9Marriage and kids [142 words]ShadowDec 30, 2019 13:54256763
4I see nothing wrong with not married and not having kids, Jaime [181 words]jessica (canada)Jan 6, 2020 17:55256763
3birth control is not always the pill and that is not the way to get a MENA anyway [92 words]LexiJan 12, 2020 12:27256763
7LOL [112 words]NataliaJan 17, 2020 14:46256763
2Words of Wisdom [1 words]NataliaJan 17, 2020 14:47256763
27Muslim culture explained [203 words]Jo WaDec 23, 2019 15:14256743
17SO [1 words]RobertDec 24, 2019 16:17256743
51Thats what you call respect??? [479 words]Non-muslim,never will be!!!Dec 25, 2019 16:05256743
10HAHA GOT THAT ONE RIGHT [71 words]JessicaDec 26, 2019 16:04256743
10Exactly..what we saw in the shopping mall today [261 words]JessicaDec 26, 2019 21:19256743
9shame [63 words]gagedonDec 28, 2019 09:44256743
7Yes I agree gagedon [112 words]JessicaDec 29, 2019 17:23256743
1So [6 words]JowaJan 17, 2020 14:02256743
63Jessica/Natalie (Canada) (Same Person) - Straight Talk Luigi's Comment on Your Situation, Your Reply to Him, My Thoughts on Your Situation & My Final Response to You [475 words]NataliaDec 22, 2019 17:46256727
7NATALIE MENTAL HELP. YES YOU ARE SERVERLY MENTALLLY ILL [436 words]jessica (canada)Dec 23, 2019 18:25256727
2WHO IS THEOTHER NATALIE/ SHE WAS HERE WAY BEFORE YOU AND I FIRST I THOUGHT ITS YOU [116 words]jessica (canada)Dec 23, 2019 18:32256727
4IRATIONAL THINKING [88 words]jessica (canada)Dec 23, 2019 18:42256727
3I FINALLY KNOW WHICH POST YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT ..POSTED ON DEC 21. [81 words]JessicaDec 24, 2019 00:10256727
27Jessica...do not respond...let this go... [261 words]from your forum friendsDec 24, 2019 00:30256727
6YOU JUST CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH AND BREING USED [238 words]JessicaDec 24, 2019 00:43256727
6Scrolling through the noise [40 words]ShömiDec 24, 2019 03:55256727
2What Do You Care [1 words]NataliaDec 24, 2019 14:11256727
3Passive Aggressive Reply to Jessica, But Under My Comment :) [503 words]NataliaDec 24, 2019 14:28256727
10THANK YOU SO MUCH MY FORUM FRIEND [164 words]JessicaDec 24, 2019 17:05256727
4Shomi/Scrolling through Noise [175 words]NataliaDec 25, 2019 04:57256727
22Jessica,it is pointless to argue with her.Waste of time!!! [438 words]FriendsDec 25, 2019 15:29256727
2Read this posts again you know yoi are suffered mental illness and low self esteem [31 words]JessicaDec 26, 2019 16:08256727
7To the MENTAL PERSON [331 words]JessicaDec 26, 2019 21:56256727
57And If Suggesting Mental Health Counseling is Such a Bad Idea - [102 words]NataliaDec 21, 2019 05:38256712
31Chelsea - Fascinating Stories on This Forum & I Wish You All Well - But Denial & Hypocrisy Rampant Among Many Users Here [144 words]NataliaDec 20, 2019 20:12256705
62Lana - Fascinating Stories on This Forum & I Wish You All Well - But Denial & Hypocrisy Rampant Among Many Users Here [227 words]NataliaDec 20, 2019 19:59256704
60UH-OH! Somebody learned of how to "Cut and Paste" here,LOL!!! [117 words]RAYDec 22, 2019 23:29256704
10RAY REPLY [302 words]NataliaDec 23, 2019 14:27256704
5YES NATALIE SUFFERED EXTREME MENTAL ILLNESS RAY [214 words]jessica (canada)Dec 23, 2019 19:05256704
5WHO HAVE THE TIME ONLY A POOR LONELY SOUL [76 words]JessicaDec 24, 2019 00:20256704
45Robin - Fascinating Stories on This Forum & I Wish You All Well - But Denial & Hypocrisy Rampant Among Many Users Here [242 words]NataliaDec 20, 2019 19:49256703
2I Hope This Helps Someone [23 words]RobinDec 20, 2019 10:47256691
15The ideal woman [366 words]LinaDec 20, 2019 19:37256691
20Muslim Indonesian culture [424 words]Jo WaDec 23, 2019 14:47256691
9Seasons greetings [42 words]LinaDec 23, 2019 17:20256691
4Agree Lina [152 words]SheilaDec 29, 2019 13:47256691
8Chelsea [311 words]NataliaDec 19, 2019 17:15256677
8NATALIE..THIS IS YOUR ANSWER AGAIN [169 words]JessicaDec 21, 2019 01:39256677
9JESSICA [403 words]NataliaDec 19, 2019 17:02256674
6LEAR HOW TO READ NATALIE. GO BACK TO SCHOOL [207 words]jessica (canada)Dec 20, 2019 18:38256674
3REPLIES TO NATALIE [196 words]jessica (canada)Dec 20, 2019 19:05256674
5Falsely assumption Natalie troll [230 words]JessicaDec 21, 2019 01:25256674
22OH NATALIE [380 words]jessica (canada)Dec 21, 2019 13:21256674
7GO BACK TO YOUR FIRST AND SECOND POSTS NATALIE [207 words]jessica (canada)Dec 21, 2019 13:36256674
5I WILL ANSWER YOU AGAIN NATALIE [158 words]jessica (canada)Dec 21, 2019 14:07256674
6Lana [314 words]NataliaDec 19, 2019 17:01256673
15Hey Guys [184 words]RobinDec 18, 2019 16:47256651
6Nice Try Robin But - [55 words]NataliaDec 19, 2019 17:22256651
7I learned a lot from Robert and you are right. [21 words]ChelseaDec 19, 2019 17:32256651
5REPLIES 2 [340 words]NATALIADec 18, 2019 16:44256650
2YOU STILL DIDNT ANSWER ME. [170 words]jessica (canada)Dec 19, 2019 18:27256650
5REPLIES [403 words]NATALIADec 18, 2019 03:06256640
9Arguing with insane person- is going down to her level! [272 words]Lana (USA)Dec 19, 2019 06:20256640
10I'm going to answer you [263 words]JessicaDec 19, 2019 08:21256640
11Petty cat fights [24 words]AnnieDec 20, 2019 08:17256640
6EXACTLY ANNIE [75 words]jessica (canada)Dec 20, 2019 18:12256640
6ALL OF YOU [429 words]NataliaDec 17, 2019 16:14256619
12Arguing with insane person-is like spitting against the wind! [55 words]RAYDec 18, 2019 17:07256619
3LEARN HOW TO READ AGAIN NATALIE TROLL [69 words]jessica (canada)Dec 18, 2019 18:53256619
11I changed my mind about leaving because you are so entertaining [338 words]ChelseaDec 18, 2019 19:33256619
4Ad Hominem Attack [92 words]NataliaDec 19, 2019 20:16256619
2OH NATALIE [63 words]jessica (canada)Dec 20, 2019 18:30256619
7Pakistani man [407 words]MariDec 16, 2019 11:36256584
14Best to leave that [219 words]ChelseaDec 16, 2019 16:46256584
4Pakistani men [116 words]LinaDec 17, 2019 17:57256584
4Pakistan [31 words]Jo WaDec 18, 2019 16:10256584
6Lies [198 words]MariDec 27, 2019 21:27256584

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