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Submitted by Standfree (United States), Jun 2, 2014 at 04:45

I have read and reread so many of these post for over a year now. It's taken that long to get back from Egypt to my own country. It took a lot of planning some big cash exchange and some awesome people I will forever be grateful to. My decent into a life of hell started 13 years ago. I love my husband to this day, everyday is a struggle but I'm free, I'm finding me again.

It started great, I wouldn't have to change religions he said, we wouldn't force our children to be muslim he said,. He's not like that he said, he didn't want to come to live in the USA he said. He would never beat me he said. I could do everything and dress how I wanted in Egyptian he said.

Wow, all that changed. The beatings didn't start until recently. But the mental torture was deep. I wish sometimes he would have just beat me physical scars can go away, mental abuse that's hard. His family loves me, his mom she's my heart, and probably a big part of why I stayed for so long.

I hear your stories and feel your pain. For years I watched as naive young, old, middle aged woman from all backgrounds came to Egypt wide eyed in love and determined to prove everyone wrong. I was shocked and disgusted at the ways they were treated. Most of the woman I meet were no less then the 3rd or 4th ones to come to Egypt to visit the same friends of my husband.

You know, if you do not meet his mom, family, but especially his mom. It's not real, Egyptians love their mom's, adore their mom's. So if you don't, there's a problem. True blue Egyptians do not date, they do not take you out and about alone, there is always someone with you. If he does question this.

There is no such thing as a "modern muslim" if they respect you and love you this won't happen. Egyptian men are proud men, they will not ask for money from you especially if your not married. It won't happen, if it does take heed. You and your children become his property, you and your children once married are considered muslim and if you didn't read the fine print, you agreed to all of it. If you decide to become muslim, we all know regardless of what you say the majority of the reason, the real reason is because you were marrying a muslim.

If you do change religions, my advice is to read the Qur'an front to back first, because you agree to all of it whether you read it or not. That's just how it is. And trust me, it will be thrown in your face that you knew that's how it is. Oh, and don't try the" you said I wouldn't have" argument with him. I will give you his answer now it will most likely be "it's not me that says you have too, it's Allah" and guess what you agreed to it. whether you think so or not that's just how it is. It makes me laugh when I read woman say not in my home I wear the pants, ha, that may be true until he says so. And yes if he wants to divorce you it's that simple he says your divorced its done even if your in another country. And if you refuse he will just leave and remarry and good luck getting any support. If your lucky enough to get the kids. If this all happens in Egypt, unless you are lucky have someone in another country with money and connections to help you out, your kids go to him everything goes to him. Yes, most lie they do not take responsibility for their actions they will take you down so low you start to believe the horrible things he will say to you.

They will go, and keep coming back like a bad dream. Just when you think you can finally breath again, bam out of the blue he will contact you. So you have blocked delete change numbers whatever make a clean cut end. Just cut it off. If you feel you have to find out and continue, God be with you. Sometimes you don't need to see what you already know. I didn't meet my husband on the internet, so I can't know that attraction, but I have seen many women meet many women that have met my husband's friends online.

And to echo a lot of people on here, you're not the only one he is talking to. Most do not have internet connections in the home, so they are chatting to you from the internet cafe. And all those pic you send, everyone there is seeing them. That's a fact.

If he's lucky to have a job he's only making a few hundred dollars a month. If he has a car it's probably a family car if he has one at all. The flat you live in, either you will buy it, or its not his. If you have to pay rent, you will be working. And good luck finding a job.

If you move to your country, well you will be the main support, he will want to go to school more likely so yes he will stay with you until he's done even if he gets his visa. Some woman say, he knows I don't have money that doesn't matter, you will need to work hard to provide for him. If you are older then him, this is touchy and by no means am I being rude, I'm just stating what I have seen, no matter what he tells you it's not ok. If you are older and can't have kids, if he says that's ok he is flat out alising to you. Egyptian mom's want their children to have children if you can't, and he's with you, red flag he won't disappoint his mom. No matter what he says. I would question his beliefs if a muslim man ever said he didn't want children. Oh, and if you already have kids and he says that's enough they will be mine. Lie, oh don't get me wrong he will love them, but they can never be his he can't adopt. The children carry his full name and have to be his to do that.

If you think for one minute that you're safe cause he has your photo on th or posted everywhere and all his friends know you. He could still be married, and if you're sending money his wife doesn't care she gaining her kids are too. I have seen a man chatting with some poor woman online while his wife was right next to him.you have to understand, different culture, different understandings.

You might be asking, did my husband talk to other woman or cheat on me. I used to pray he would, I even tried to be him and hook up with some chick on line. But unfortunately, he was the jealous type he didn't ever leave me alone, he was with me 24/7 we worked together until the business went down with all the problems there. Then he decided I would sell my home in the USA, cash out my 401K and give it to him, because I was stupid and didn't know how to handle money. Ha right … but anyways I don't know if he did or when he could have. He was verbally abusive mentally, then in the late physical abuse.

Listen, no one can tell you if you love someone or not, but there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with an idea of someone.

Is it hard to leave oh my, yes yes it is. To come off a high of what you felt as true live, it will hurt. I cried all day everyday, I felt I couldn't breath. My reality of what was my life was gone I was scared, afraid for my life, the safety of my girls. I couldn't sleep, I ached for his voice, ached for him. I became so weak I called him. His words to me, "come back baby I'm your husband, I love you, miss you so much."

Had he stopped with those words I may have gone back, but the words that followed, woke me up eyes wide open. He continued on with, "I forgive you, I'm patient at you, I know you're sick in the mind, only a sick woman would ruin her life by leaving. Come back and we will get you help." My whole body became ice, I knew at that moment, I can never return to him or Egypt he will have me committed, and take our children. I still have bad days, sad days, lonely days. But it gets easier, one-day I realized I hadn't cried, I realized I hadn't wanted to die. It's a struggle . But trust me it's nothing compared to the he'll you will live if you stay.

I haven't said everything, and I skipped around, but If you wish to talk, I'm here contact me at standfree2014@gmail.com. I'm here, I've lived it. I survived.


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4Going to algeria [53 words]Sassy girlJul 24, 2018 21:38243322
2Single lady coming to Algeria in August to meet Muslim [276 words]JACKIE SASSOJul 25, 2018 13:51243322
Reply to Going to Algeria from USA/NY [267 words]JackieJul 25, 2018 13:59243322
1Single lady coming to Algeria in August to meet Muslim [5 words]JackieJul 25, 2018 14:06243322
9Set your own plan [199 words]NatashaJul 25, 2018 20:51243322
15Very dangerous. Psychologically our minds fill in the blanks. [477 words]ChelseaJul 25, 2018 22:42243322
10You don't owe him anything [104 words]ChelseaJul 25, 2018 22:51243322
10Response to Coming to Algeria [383 words]JackieJul 26, 2018 10:45243322
10You are in cognitive dissonance [409 words]ChelseaJul 26, 2018 15:28243322
10Dear Jacki,guard your heart! [391 words]Lana(USA)Jul 26, 2018 17:25243322
13Jackie I am really concerned [736 words]ChelseaJul 26, 2018 20:24243322
7: hello Jacki and welcome [143 words]Flo-ri-daJul 26, 2018 22:02243322
2VISA APPROVED TO GO TO ALGERIA 8/2018 [877 words]JackieJul 27, 2018 14:40243322
6To Jackie [108 words]LinaJul 27, 2018 18:31243322
11Jackie: You are Being Scammed. [295 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiJul 27, 2018 19:01243322
9Exactly, Chelsea !!! [216 words]Lana(USA)Jul 27, 2018 19:39243322
10To Jackie who is going to Algiers to marry a guy with a fresh job and multiple face book accounts [90 words]PrashantJul 27, 2018 23:37243322
5Really??? How much more lies are you going to swallow. [33 words]ChelseaJul 28, 2018 19:08243322
11Dear Jackie [191 words]SiobhanJul 29, 2018 18:20243322
9Hi Chelsea [36 words]SiobhanJul 29, 2018 18:28243322
2Coming to Algeria in August [113 words]JackieJul 30, 2018 13:07243322
1VISA APPROVED TO GO TO ALGERIA 8/2018 [228 words]JackieJul 30, 2018 13:29243322
Single lady coming to Algeria in August to meet Muslim [185 words]JackieJul 30, 2018 13:43243322
Coming to Algeria in August [162 words]JackieJul 30, 2018 13:57243322
1VISA APPROVED TO GO TO ALGERIA 8/2018 [147 words]JackieJul 30, 2018 14:05243322
7for Jackie - don't go to Algeria [332 words]NatalieJul 31, 2018 03:46243322
2Response to Coming to Algeria [273 words]JACKIE SASSOJul 31, 2018 14:38243322
10Danger [72 words]LinaJul 31, 2018 15:15243322
10I hear ya [254 words]Deirdre (Canada)Jul 31, 2018 18:20243322
7Hey back at cha Soibhan [138 words]ChelseaJul 31, 2018 22:45243322
14You won't have the same rights you are used to here [299 words]ChelseaJul 31, 2018 23:14243322
2VISA APPROVED TO GO TO ALGERIA 8/2018 [275 words]JACKIE SASSOAug 1, 2018 17:23243322
12Please don't go Jackie! [610 words]SheilaAug 2, 2018 23:38243322
8It's the same pattern Jackie [396 words]SheilaAug 3, 2018 01:20243322
5Coming to Algeria [287 words]JackieAug 3, 2018 14:15243322
9Emotional Suicide Jackie [231 words]DeirdreAug 3, 2018 15:47243322
4Agree Luigi [230 words]SheilaAug 3, 2018 15:47243322
18This is what many Mena Men do! [472 words]SheilaAug 3, 2018 16:34243322
6Jackie, don't do it.... [123 words]LeslieAug 3, 2018 23:47243322
10I was Jackie at one time.......... [193 words]LeslieAug 4, 2018 00:02243322
5Trust yourself [11 words]LeslieAug 4, 2018 00:05243322
6They're all right... [113 words]LeslieAug 4, 2018 00:11243322
12Luigi is correct Jackie [285 words]LeslieAug 4, 2018 00:55243322
11End this Now - Don't Go [315 words]HopeAug 10, 2018 17:11243322
7Visa approved to go to Algeria 8/18 [269 words]JackieAug 13, 2018 15:25243322
6Very dangerous [150 words]JackieAug 13, 2018 18:33243322
7I'm very sorry Jackie [142 words]SheilaAug 13, 2018 19:32243322
2SO GLAD YOU DIDNT GO JACKIE [400 words]Jessica (canada)Aug 14, 2018 05:11243322
1SO GLAD YOU DID NOT GO [104 words]JackieAug 14, 2018 15:32243322
10Thank God [326 words]HopeAug 14, 2018 16:25243322
3Hang in there Jackie [86 words]Deirdre (Canada)Aug 14, 2018 19:57243322
Very dangerous [155 words]JackieAug 15, 2018 09:30243322
2Wow oh wow Jackie [300 words]JessicaAug 16, 2018 03:26243322
5Single Lady Not going to Africa [184 words]JackieAug 16, 2018 17:30243322
4This is what they do [410 words]DeirdreAug 16, 2018 19:26243322
1That is horrible Jackie [86 words]JessicaAug 16, 2018 23:01243322
6Relieved ... good for you! [107 words]ChelseaAug 17, 2018 12:50243322
7They think we deserve it [181 words]LinaAug 18, 2018 20:50243322
4Visa approved to go to Algeria 8/18 [265 words]JackieAug 20, 2018 12:45243322
1Very Dangerous [286 words]JackieAug 20, 2018 15:09243322
6I'm glad you are being strong Jackie [127 words]SheilaAug 22, 2018 12:53243322
9I know how you feel...please consider this [585 words]ChelseaAug 22, 2018 14:18243322
7Very Dangerous [680 words]JACKIE SASSOAug 22, 2018 18:11243322

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