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My experience with the Moroccan Man

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Submitted by Relieved " X " (Jordan), Apr 28, 2012 at 08:19

I decided to write my story to celebrate one year of freedom and happiness following a four year relationship with a scamming con-man !!

During a months tour in Morocco (2007) I met what would seem to be "charming Moroccan man " , a waiter in a well known rooftop terrace bar in Essaouira (Morocco), walking me to my hotel and requested my tel number , offering me assistance ıe general information , translation etc , from that day the text messages started , pls meet me in cafe , how God had brought me into his life ,we were specially chosen to be together , he even travelled to Agadir and Marrakech during that month just to meet me on his Sunday off from work , brought me some handcrafted gifts.. so , so charming ! finally pleading for me to pls return to Morocco as we were so meant to be together which I dıd several tımes within the following six month period , I stayed approx a month at a time with him in not too glamorous back street apartments as you cannot stay in a reputable hotel with a local man if you are not married to him

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He talked about marriage immediately as he advised ıt would be necessary if we wanted to be together in Morocco , he made it quite clear that he didn't really want to leave his country and as salaries were so little we would need to have our own business ıe small hotel or restaurant etc if we wanted to have good life style , so we viewed many properties etc for commercial and residential purposes....but you would think if someone was offering a "business partnership " that they would have substantial amount of money to contribute , but not in this case !!!

I agreed to look into the prospect of marriage and that meant I should be introduced to the family(I was now termed as his chosen one ) , family seemed to be very nice , his mother never failed to mention marriage and on one occasion thrust a dress into my hands .. he advised me she wanted me to wear this on our wedding day and that I should be considering to do it very soon !!! He bought rings when I was not with him "gold one for me , with his initials heavily engraved on the surface to show who owned this woman and a silver band for himself ( it would seem that I had now become the fiance )

At this point I searched the web for information on marrying a Moroccan and LUCKILY found this site ,began to read in amazement how many similarities there were to my already current situation. marriage was immediately put on HOLD for me, I had been married before so was not in any rush to do it again J but I was pretty intrigued and wanted to see what would transpire

Our relationship continued and during that time my company expanded into the the Middle East , so I was living mostly in Turkey(Istanbul) but travelling extensively for business , staying at company accommodations in Egypt, Jordan and Morocco , first 1 year he remained in Morocco , communicating daily by internet & phone , I visited Morocco frequently, finally he gave up his job to live & travel with me , it was a rocky relationship at the beginning as we were so very different by nationality , culture , religion and age…we certainly had our problems especially when I found my new PC loaded with sickening pornography…as Blueisis already commented on her post " they practice what they learn by viewing this material "' unfortunately !!!!

During this four year period , I paıd for all his travel , food , clothes , English lessons (to enable him to communıcate with our guests when we set up our hotel or restaurant etc) renting cars in Morocco so he could learn to drive ( of course he had an accident which lead to me paying police, lawyers fees etc ) buying gifts for the family every time he went back to Morocco was termed necessary as they thought he was actually earning money ( lies) so he also asked for money to give his family, this is tradition in the Moroccan family whether you are working or not !! take note !!

We took frequent vacations together in Morocco & South Turkey where I rented Villas etc .. luxury life that never cost him a penny… but he never really appreciated this or even enjoyed it so much as his goals set wasn't to just enjoy the present luxury life , he had to fulfill his family's dreams of him becoming the successfully married businessman , he even discussed the prospect of having a business in Southern Turkey to make sure all possible options were offered ..

May 2011 we returned to Morocco together , there was a distant silence between us on that trip … I went to Casablanca for business purpose and he went to Essaouira to his family , he took a short vacation to his favourite small village " Imssouan " with his younger brother(even though he has no money) , he still contacted daily over the next coming week and actually asked if I could pay for the hotel they were staying with my credit card , unbelievable !!! …I declined of course :)

Then came the phone call I had been waiting , he was upset , said he didn't want that we split but his family and friends demanded he finish with me and find someone who would marry him and provide the stable future , I agreed that we should finish for the obvious reasons being that I really did know why he was with me now and as the relationship had been a scam anyway , but I totally resented that the family and friends were making that decision , again it made me very aware of what power the family had over him and that is really worth considering as family and friends come first before the wives. I also would never live in Morocco as luckily I had been able to spend significant periods there in Essaouira , Casablanca ,Mohammadia & Tangier over thıs four year period and had gained very good insight into the culture , religion , the lifestyle of the people , the tasks we faced as a company while working with the locals, the language etc , , I generally found it a very difficult country and culture for many different reasons . I witnessed the dangers and he himself had got into fight on one occasion protecting me from cheap insults

Long story short , It was over and I never contacted him again unless to try and retrieve my Lap top , I.Pad & Phone but he would call me , crying that he loved me and could not be without me why I didn't call him .. he said his family would let us continue the relationship without the marriage if they could see something more positive for his future ie home or commercial property being bought , he pleaded and begged with me to consider more , he was willing to make compromises and would accept a few thousand Euros to make a small business(sandwich bar in his favourite small village ) , this would make everyone happy and we could still be together , blaming his family and friends for making decisions that he had to stand by but this was so unbelievable what I was hearing that I actually opened the speaker on my phone and let my British colleague listen , she had worked in Morocco for 12 years and was not the least bit surprised J

Being the " X " was very ınteresting !! yes , a few weeks later he called me (surprise, surprise ) to ask me if I was sure I didn't want him anymore as there was one woman who was interested in him (Scottish Woman also) and that he was sure she would give him the stability he wanted in his life (this meaning marriage and his own business ) he told me she likes Morocco very much(she was speaking French better than him) she was very rich and would be able to fund his business , so there was chance she could be the one to fulfill his dream ,and he had to mention that she did not mind living in the dıngy back street apartments(that I complained about) :) , he went on to say she is not beautiful but that didn't matter as it's a deal , he said " those women just want love as they cant find it in their own country , so we tell them we love them , and they give us a better stable life in return .. he said Moroccans are not fussy about what the woman looks like or her age etc !!!! of course he is correct, there marriages are usually arranged by their families ( as was done for his older brother ) !! but to hear this so bluntly from him made it so clear that is exactly what those predators think when they are targeting us

His relationship with this woman progressed and he updated me on all activities , he took her to all the same places that we went to at the beginning( capturing all the possible romantic settings & sunsets etc ) using anything his country had to offer to help make the whole package look attractive and hope it sold well , he laughed and said this was his set plan for all new GF's..

The communication regarding the new GF went on for a few months and I told him that he was being very disrespectful to her by contacting me daily and I advised him that I almost felt guilty to be part of it and I threatened to tell her

BUT In his defence he told me that most of the western women leave themselves open to this as they meet and marry Moroccan men so easily (I was an exception apparently ) , laughing while giving me examples of some recent marriages he had attended , " one example" where the couple met while she was arriving by bus he was just handing out flyers , she only knew him for a few days during her whole vacation but turned back to UK got her papers and married him few weeks later what can I say ???

In the last year I have followed the new GF's blogs, she writes publicly about all her visits to Morocco ,experiences of shopping in the souks , eating out etc praises him for his ability to negotiate prices with the locals( like he did for me) and just like me she visited Essaouira many times to be with him, she is now proposing to spend lots more time there later this year with the hope of starting business J so he is correct , she did do all that for him and "very easily too as it seems " in most recent contact he told me he has no job , just enjoying his water sports and learning Spanish language (most probably so he can communicate with his customers when his new business takes off ) (does this sound familiar ) ??

He regularly compares himself to all his other scamming friends , and is so jealous of the ones who have previously married foreigners and spent some time working in foreign countries , as they have returned to Morocco now with much more money enabling them to invest ın their own business , build nice homes (but be noted they have come back alone, no foreign wife ) !!!! most probably will marry one of their own and as they are much better off financially they can be accepted to marry within a better class family if you don't have money the womens family will not accept you as"'he personally experienced this previously when he asked to marry his sweetheart who he had met in university and was refused by her family as he did not have enough money to support her I truly think that is the main reason he decided to target foreigners for marriage , business and money as he found out he couldn't marry the woman he truly loved because of money .. this is what happens in countries such as Morocco

Lucky to have lived in this country for work I was able to get very good insight into the local culture , got talking to the locals (some of his friends also ) and was interested most of all how they view foreigners(westerners) etc I have had many conversations(some heated) with locals as they view us as rich, spoiled people , we are totally resented by them , so beware ,if they want you in their life its because they want to get some of your wealth, they don't see scamming people into marriage with their lies to be a sin as they truly think such wealth should be shared equally amongst us , and they are only trying to take whats rightfully theirs , their told me their God does not see any wrong doing as they will provide more for their families and give to the poor !!!!

I could write so much more detail about the relationship with this man , the experiences I have had living and working in the countries mentioned above but I really only wanted to share the basic facts

I am so glad to see that new people are continuing to find this site , reading the posts can hopefully prevent them from making huge and meaningful mistakes in their life or in some cases receiving valuable support after the realization that they have been cheated and scammed by the Arab (Muslim men ) , for whatever the reasons ie Fınance , Visa's, Green cards , sex etc but at least knowing they are not alone brings comfort and support as it did to me

If anyone is considering a relationship or marriage to an Arab (Muslim) and wants any advice (read the posts on this site ) people have taken the time to write them for a reason

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Signed off by One very relieved and happy " X "

J


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19Reply to Jay on Moroccan Man [84 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiAug 2, 2019 14:49252191
17HE TURNED OUT TO BE AN ASSHOLE, LIKE MOST. [501 words]JayAug 2, 2019 16:14252191
8Typical scammer [147 words]Lana(USA)Aug 2, 2019 18:21252191
6Lucky escape [17 words]LinaAug 3, 2019 21:40252191
14Welcome Jay [271 words]SiobhanAug 4, 2019 20:16252191
7Sorry Jay [72 words]SiobhanAug 4, 2019 20:26252191
7Jay dropped the rat, Lana [38 words]SiobhanAug 4, 2019 20:32252191
7Siobhan [74 words]Lana(USA)Aug 5, 2019 23:14252191
8Great news Jay [150 words]SheilaAug 8, 2019 10:07252191
2Good for you Jay [85 words]jessica (canada)Aug 28, 2019 19:33252191
5The Prince of Egypt [159 words]LilluJul 30, 2019 08:22252082
21Emotional manipulation of the vulnerable. [381 words]ChelseaJul 30, 2019 15:54252082
2Stuck in the same boat [66 words]JennetteAug 1, 2019 01:34252082
1The Prince of Egypt [101 words]LilluAug 1, 2019 16:48252082
8The Prince of Egypt [50 words]LillyAug 1, 2019 16:54252082
8Love online?I strongly doubt it. [183 words]Lana(USA)Aug 1, 2019 21:46252082
12Met on Facebook, Said I Love You After Few Days [58 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiAug 2, 2019 14:39252082
8Waste of Time [24 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiAug 2, 2019 14:42252082
16Lillu [259 words]Lana(USA)Aug 6, 2019 10:59252082
4Confused about intentions of Jordan man [333 words]MacAug 13, 2019 11:32252082
10Oh Dear :( [150 words]RobinAug 13, 2019 15:26252082
11He has a wife [73 words]AylaAug 13, 2019 18:31252082
12Welcome to the forum [524 words]ChelseaAug 13, 2019 19:27252082
13Not only online dating (thank you Luigi for your amazing job helping us good-hearted women to find the truth) [179 words]KeiraAug 13, 2019 23:10252082
1Confused about intentions of Jordan man [333 words]MacAug 14, 2019 04:12252082
9No need for background check [182 words]ShömiAug 15, 2019 18:02252082
11Mac [305 words]KeiraAug 16, 2019 07:43252082
6SO SORRY... [17 words]LeticiaAug 20, 2019 16:18252082
2Shomi, Thank you! Still looking into the death of his wife. Sure wished I knew someone in Jordan who could find out 4 me. He said they don't put names on tombstones. [255 words]MacSep 10, 2019 04:02252082
17Time & Persistence [953 words]Full of WonderJul 30, 2019 02:34252072
2Advice needed [932 words]LaniAug 1, 2019 05:02252072
12Oh,dear!!! Run while you can!!! [156 words]Lana(USA)Aug 1, 2019 22:01252072
10Response to Lani on Advice, British Woman, Moroccan Man, Marriage, Immigration [315 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiAug 2, 2019 14:36252072
4Drop him like a hot rock [54 words]LinaAug 3, 2019 21:51252072
18Jessica [40 words]AllieJul 28, 2019 20:32252024
27ALLIE [47 words]jessica (canada)Aug 31, 2019 12:32252024
6Allie 2 [49 words]JessicaSep 3, 2019 00:03252024
8Flashing lights [32 words]AmalJun 6, 2019 09:25250473
2True [9 words]jessica (canada)Jun 26, 2019 19:41250473
9HELP! Engaged to a Moroccan [1929 words]DIDIMay 27, 2019 00:02250279
26Violence, Poverty and Islam, Oh My! [356 words]DaveMay 28, 2019 14:16250279
18Run away and fast !!! [89 words]JujuMay 29, 2019 00:37250279
23Oh dear Didi [309 words]SiobhanMay 29, 2019 08:25250279
18Abusive Moroccan man [217 words]LinaMay 30, 2019 06:37250279
27You need to disappear and lay low. You are in danger. [369 words]ChelseaMay 30, 2019 12:04250279
1HELP! Engaged to a Moroccan [412 words]DidiMay 30, 2019 14:53250279
26Didi, please read my posts ... [237 words]RobinMay 30, 2019 16:26250279
12It's still suspicious [215 words]RobinMay 31, 2019 14:33250279
21They all do [316 words]LinaMay 31, 2019 20:52250279
1For Didi [89 words]AsiyahJun 1, 2019 06:06250279
2HELP! Engaged to a Moroccan [204 words]DIDIJun 1, 2019 20:58250279
12Robin [59 words]SiobhanJun 2, 2019 03:18250279
16Didi [228 words]SiobhanJun 2, 2019 04:02250279
13Wow, my muzzie does not do this. [251 words]Americanmarried2muslimJun 3, 2019 11:40250279
17Our dear Asiyah is back! I wonder why! And wife beating! [76 words]dhimmi no moreJun 3, 2019 14:13250279
7To Didi [356 words]RobinJun 3, 2019 15:04250279
7Siobhan ... [47 words]RobinJun 3, 2019 15:07250279
16To DiDi [118 words]HopeJun 3, 2019 16:05250279
995 percent wrong about married to mena [39 words]AnnesseJun 5, 2019 06:26250279
6More questions for the "genius" our dear Asiyah and other sordid matters [181 words]dhimmi no moreJun 6, 2019 08:44250279
6Dear readers: Are these words of wisdom? Or is this more gobbledygook nonsense from our dear Asiyah? [60 words]dhimmi no moreJun 6, 2019 09:14250279
11Leave NOW! [151 words]SheilaJun 6, 2019 10:06250279
15Sheila, sadly not ... [323 words]RobinJun 6, 2019 14:03250279
14RUN!! [188 words]MollyJun 7, 2019 08:51250279
8Do not marry him [12 words]truthfulJun 8, 2019 10:23250279
8He moved out... [670 words]DIDIJun 9, 2019 08:59250279
13advice [93 words]rachidiJun 9, 2019 09:05250279
1Woman beaten and scammed by Egyptians [1 words]LinaJun 10, 2019 11:12250279
10I know it's hard ... [263 words]RobinJun 10, 2019 13:59250279
8To Rachidi [185 words]RobinJun 10, 2019 14:15250279
12To DiDi [318 words]HopeJun 10, 2019 14:36250279
7no problem [53 words]rachidiJun 10, 2019 20:02250279
17OMW back to the US [255 words]DIDIJun 11, 2019 07:12250279
7Best wishes, Didi [133 words]RobinJun 11, 2019 16:54250279
15A reminder from nearly 8 years ago [211 words]anon1Jun 12, 2019 11:24250279
2To Rachidi [30 words]RobinJun 12, 2019 11:33250279
8hello [42 words]rachidiJun 12, 2019 18:41250279
5Didi [300 words]BeccaJun 12, 2019 20:04250279
4Don't worry about Didi [79 words]RobinJun 13, 2019 15:48250279
4Our dear Asiyah wrote "Islam is great"! Prove it our dear Asiyah! [46 words]dhimmi no moreJun 15, 2019 07:51250279
10Why Islam is NOT great [201 words]PrashantJun 15, 2019 22:46250279
13I would like to inform you Dhimmi no more [295 words]AsiyahJun 17, 2019 08:51250279
8Our dear Asiyah told us that Islam is great! So my question is why is Islam great? [89 words]dhimmi no moreJun 17, 2019 14:28250279
10Our dear Asiyah prove to us kuffar that Islam is great! You wrote it you cannot take it back! [68 words]dhimmi no moreJun 17, 2019 14:34250279
8Our dear Asiyah: How come you don't live in Afghanistan, Pakistan or KSA? [70 words]dhimmi no moreJun 17, 2019 14:41250279
5Robin: Scam from the Start? [28 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiJun 18, 2019 00:25250279
4Americanmarried: Big Differences [51 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiJun 18, 2019 00:30250279
5Response to Didi's story: Moroccan, Muslim, Pregnant, Morocco [198 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiJun 18, 2019 01:03250279
7Our dear Asiyah and Sheikh googletranslate صلى الله عليه وسلم and more questions [110 words]dhimmi no moreJun 18, 2019 08:47250279
3Thanks, Luigi [117 words]RobinJun 18, 2019 16:41250279
8Our dear Asiyah: Where is your evidence that "Islam is great"? I'm waiting [229 words]dhimmi no moreJun 18, 2019 18:38250279
4STOP now enough is enough dhimmi no more [435 words]JessicaJun 19, 2019 04:03250279
7Our dear Asiyah says that he is not in this forum for "proselitism" what ever that is! [163 words]dhimmi no moreJun 19, 2019 10:37250279
5Our dear Jessica: Stay out of it! [125 words]dhimmi no moreJun 19, 2019 14:05250279
5Hi Robin [79 words]JeffJun 19, 2019 17:18250279
5Dear Robin [48 words]SiobhanJun 19, 2019 18:19250279
22Oh Jessica [371 words]SiobhanJun 19, 2019 19:29250279

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