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My experience with the Moroccan Man

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Submitted by Relieved " X " (Jordan), Apr 28, 2012 at 08:19

I decided to write my story to celebrate one year of freedom and happiness following a four year relationship with a scamming con-man !!

During a months tour in Morocco (2007) I met what would seem to be "charming Moroccan man " , a waiter in a well known rooftop terrace bar in Essaouira (Morocco), walking me to my hotel and requested my tel number , offering me assistance ıe general information , translation etc , from that day the text messages started , pls meet me in cafe , how God had brought me into his life ,we were specially chosen to be together , he even travelled to Agadir and Marrakech during that month just to meet me on his Sunday off from work , brought me some handcrafted gifts.. so , so charming ! finally pleading for me to pls return to Morocco as we were so meant to be together which I dıd several tımes within the following six month period , I stayed approx a month at a time with him in not too glamorous back street apartments as you cannot stay in a reputable hotel with a local man if you are not married to him

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He talked about marriage immediately as he advised ıt would be necessary if we wanted to be together in Morocco , he made it quite clear that he didn't really want to leave his country and as salaries were so little we would need to have our own business ıe small hotel or restaurant etc if we wanted to have good life style , so we viewed many properties etc for commercial and residential purposes....but you would think if someone was offering a "business partnership " that they would have substantial amount of money to contribute , but not in this case !!!

I agreed to look into the prospect of marriage and that meant I should be introduced to the family(I was now termed as his chosen one ) , family seemed to be very nice , his mother never failed to mention marriage and on one occasion thrust a dress into my hands .. he advised me she wanted me to wear this on our wedding day and that I should be considering to do it very soon !!! He bought rings when I was not with him "gold one for me , with his initials heavily engraved on the surface to show who owned this woman and a silver band for himself ( it would seem that I had now become the fiance )

At this point I searched the web for information on marrying a Moroccan and LUCKILY found this site ,began to read in amazement how many similarities there were to my already current situation. marriage was immediately put on HOLD for me, I had been married before so was not in any rush to do it again J but I was pretty intrigued and wanted to see what would transpire

Our relationship continued and during that time my company expanded into the the Middle East , so I was living mostly in Turkey(Istanbul) but travelling extensively for business , staying at company accommodations in Egypt, Jordan and Morocco , first 1 year he remained in Morocco , communicating daily by internet & phone , I visited Morocco frequently, finally he gave up his job to live & travel with me , it was a rocky relationship at the beginning as we were so very different by nationality , culture , religion and age…we certainly had our problems especially when I found my new PC loaded with sickening pornography…as Blueisis already commented on her post " they practice what they learn by viewing this material "' unfortunately !!!!

During this four year period , I paıd for all his travel , food , clothes , English lessons (to enable him to communıcate with our guests when we set up our hotel or restaurant etc) renting cars in Morocco so he could learn to drive ( of course he had an accident which lead to me paying police, lawyers fees etc ) buying gifts for the family every time he went back to Morocco was termed necessary as they thought he was actually earning money ( lies) so he also asked for money to give his family, this is tradition in the Moroccan family whether you are working or not !! take note !!

We took frequent vacations together in Morocco & South Turkey where I rented Villas etc .. luxury life that never cost him a penny… but he never really appreciated this or even enjoyed it so much as his goals set wasn't to just enjoy the present luxury life , he had to fulfill his family's dreams of him becoming the successfully married businessman , he even discussed the prospect of having a business in Southern Turkey to make sure all possible options were offered ..

May 2011 we returned to Morocco together , there was a distant silence between us on that trip … I went to Casablanca for business purpose and he went to Essaouira to his family , he took a short vacation to his favourite small village " Imssouan " with his younger brother(even though he has no money) , he still contacted daily over the next coming week and actually asked if I could pay for the hotel they were staying with my credit card , unbelievable !!! …I declined of course :)

Then came the phone call I had been waiting , he was upset , said he didn't want that we split but his family and friends demanded he finish with me and find someone who would marry him and provide the stable future , I agreed that we should finish for the obvious reasons being that I really did know why he was with me now and as the relationship had been a scam anyway , but I totally resented that the family and friends were making that decision , again it made me very aware of what power the family had over him and that is really worth considering as family and friends come first before the wives. I also would never live in Morocco as luckily I had been able to spend significant periods there in Essaouira , Casablanca ,Mohammadia & Tangier over thıs four year period and had gained very good insight into the culture , religion , the lifestyle of the people , the tasks we faced as a company while working with the locals, the language etc , , I generally found it a very difficult country and culture for many different reasons . I witnessed the dangers and he himself had got into fight on one occasion protecting me from cheap insults

Long story short , It was over and I never contacted him again unless to try and retrieve my Lap top , I.Pad & Phone but he would call me , crying that he loved me and could not be without me why I didn't call him .. he said his family would let us continue the relationship without the marriage if they could see something more positive for his future ie home or commercial property being bought , he pleaded and begged with me to consider more , he was willing to make compromises and would accept a few thousand Euros to make a small business(sandwich bar in his favourite small village ) , this would make everyone happy and we could still be together , blaming his family and friends for making decisions that he had to stand by but this was so unbelievable what I was hearing that I actually opened the speaker on my phone and let my British colleague listen , she had worked in Morocco for 12 years and was not the least bit surprised J

Being the " X " was very ınteresting !! yes , a few weeks later he called me (surprise, surprise ) to ask me if I was sure I didn't want him anymore as there was one woman who was interested in him (Scottish Woman also) and that he was sure she would give him the stability he wanted in his life (this meaning marriage and his own business ) he told me she likes Morocco very much(she was speaking French better than him) she was very rich and would be able to fund his business , so there was chance she could be the one to fulfill his dream ,and he had to mention that she did not mind living in the dıngy back street apartments(that I complained about) :) , he went on to say she is not beautiful but that didn't matter as it's a deal , he said " those women just want love as they cant find it in their own country , so we tell them we love them , and they give us a better stable life in return .. he said Moroccans are not fussy about what the woman looks like or her age etc !!!! of course he is correct, there marriages are usually arranged by their families ( as was done for his older brother ) !! but to hear this so bluntly from him made it so clear that is exactly what those predators think when they are targeting us

His relationship with this woman progressed and he updated me on all activities , he took her to all the same places that we went to at the beginning( capturing all the possible romantic settings & sunsets etc ) using anything his country had to offer to help make the whole package look attractive and hope it sold well , he laughed and said this was his set plan for all new GF's..

The communication regarding the new GF went on for a few months and I told him that he was being very disrespectful to her by contacting me daily and I advised him that I almost felt guilty to be part of it and I threatened to tell her

BUT In his defence he told me that most of the western women leave themselves open to this as they meet and marry Moroccan men so easily (I was an exception apparently ) , laughing while giving me examples of some recent marriages he had attended , " one example" where the couple met while she was arriving by bus he was just handing out flyers , she only knew him for a few days during her whole vacation but turned back to UK got her papers and married him few weeks later what can I say ???

In the last year I have followed the new GF's blogs, she writes publicly about all her visits to Morocco ,experiences of shopping in the souks , eating out etc praises him for his ability to negotiate prices with the locals( like he did for me) and just like me she visited Essaouira many times to be with him, she is now proposing to spend lots more time there later this year with the hope of starting business J so he is correct , she did do all that for him and "very easily too as it seems " in most recent contact he told me he has no job , just enjoying his water sports and learning Spanish language (most probably so he can communicate with his customers when his new business takes off ) (does this sound familiar ) ??

He regularly compares himself to all his other scamming friends , and is so jealous of the ones who have previously married foreigners and spent some time working in foreign countries , as they have returned to Morocco now with much more money enabling them to invest ın their own business , build nice homes (but be noted they have come back alone, no foreign wife ) !!!! most probably will marry one of their own and as they are much better off financially they can be accepted to marry within a better class family if you don't have money the womens family will not accept you as"'he personally experienced this previously when he asked to marry his sweetheart who he had met in university and was refused by her family as he did not have enough money to support her I truly think that is the main reason he decided to target foreigners for marriage , business and money as he found out he couldn't marry the woman he truly loved because of money .. this is what happens in countries such as Morocco

Lucky to have lived in this country for work I was able to get very good insight into the local culture , got talking to the locals (some of his friends also ) and was interested most of all how they view foreigners(westerners) etc I have had many conversations(some heated) with locals as they view us as rich, spoiled people , we are totally resented by them , so beware ,if they want you in their life its because they want to get some of your wealth, they don't see scamming people into marriage with their lies to be a sin as they truly think such wealth should be shared equally amongst us , and they are only trying to take whats rightfully theirs , their told me their God does not see any wrong doing as they will provide more for their families and give to the poor !!!!

I could write so much more detail about the relationship with this man , the experiences I have had living and working in the countries mentioned above but I really only wanted to share the basic facts

I am so glad to see that new people are continuing to find this site , reading the posts can hopefully prevent them from making huge and meaningful mistakes in their life or in some cases receiving valuable support after the realization that they have been cheated and scammed by the Arab (Muslim men ) , for whatever the reasons ie Fınance , Visa's, Green cards , sex etc but at least knowing they are not alone brings comfort and support as it did to me

If anyone is considering a relationship or marriage to an Arab (Muslim) and wants any advice (read the posts on this site ) people have taken the time to write them for a reason

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Signed off by One very relieved and happy " X "

J

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5You sounds so unstable lexi [21 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 00:10256990
8Lina,This is exactly my thoughts! [61 words]Lana(USA)Jan 19, 2020 01:03256990
6Exactly, Chelsea! [52 words]Lana(USA)Jan 19, 2020 01:08256990
2I want to know more about Kurdish men [81 words]TraceyJan 19, 2020 05:34256990
3Rant reply [24 words]JowaJan 19, 2020 15:19256990
2WOW [52 words]LexxiJan 19, 2020 15:24256990
6Love it [41 words]LinaJan 19, 2020 15:37256990
8She went there [22 words]LinaJan 19, 2020 15:42256990
7Insecure [48 words]LinaJan 19, 2020 15:50256990
2Lana is of Shakespeare [43 words]JowaJan 19, 2020 16:18256990
5Hi Tracey [281 words]LinaJan 19, 2020 16:18256990
4Deena [162 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 18:58256990
3Spot on sounds like LEXI and other muslim are jealous of us [49 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 19:25256990
3JOWA yoi are really jealous of westerners [170 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 21:28256990
3Again nobody is jealous and everyone on here is chill .yoi are so unstable [62 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 21:46256990
2Yes Lana they are all twisted and the culture is twisted [69 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 21:56256990
7True! [252 words]Lana(USA)Jan 19, 2020 23:51256990
11OH,POOR JOWA [43 words]Lana(USA)Jan 19, 2020 23:59256990
7Somebody is having a good time here [7 words]RobertJan 20, 2020 11:35256990
2"As Good As It Gets" [91 words]NataliaJan 20, 2020 12:02256990
5Euro still a currency, lol [139 words]ShömiJan 20, 2020 14:16256990
1Hi Lina [397 words]TraceyJan 20, 2020 15:14256990
1You fail to answer Pershant's post [14 words]jessica (canada)Jan 20, 2020 15:19256990
2Yes Robert very unstable mental troll [11 words]jessica (canada)Jan 20, 2020 15:29256990
1Report him Nikki [57 words]jessica (canada)Jan 20, 2020 15:37256990
7Go to your daddy,kid! Ask if he allows you to be on this forum at all [74 words]Lana(USA)Jan 20, 2020 23:29256990
2NIKKI [137 words]Polly (USA)Jan 21, 2020 10:51256990
1Lana [94 words]JowaJan 21, 2020 13:27256990
1Shomi you have bigger problems then [85 words]JowaJan 21, 2020 14:40256990
8Some true some not [338 words]Jordana Ghannam RatebJan 21, 2020 22:07256990
4Re: Kurdish man [363 words]LinaJan 22, 2020 05:20256990
3Jordana [237 words]Lana(USA)Jan 22, 2020 14:11256990
1Lana - just OMG [188 words]NataliaJan 22, 2020 15:10256990
2Learn to read first,Jowa)))) [115 words]Mon Muslim,never be!!!!Jan 22, 2020 15:26256990
I agree with you [360 words]TraceyJan 22, 2020 17:38256990
2Gut feeling [261 words]LinaJan 23, 2020 04:32256990
To Tracey [27 words]Hope UKJan 23, 2020 12:19256990
1Very convincing [69 words]TraceyJan 23, 2020 14:36256990
3To Tracey [177 words]Hope UKJan 23, 2020 15:27256990
So confusing [223 words]TraceyJan 23, 2020 17:50256990
3Sorry, Do not Give Up [306 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 24, 2020 13:12256990
2Bride price [307 words]LinaJan 24, 2020 18:43256990
2Dowry [215 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 25, 2020 00:54256990
That's what I expected [226 words]TraceyJan 25, 2020 14:17256990
1To Tracey [279 words]Hope UKJan 26, 2020 08:07256990
3To Tracey [511 words]Hope UKJan 26, 2020 18:27256990
1Red flag [122 words]LinaJan 27, 2020 08:12256990
2Sickening [243 words]TraceyJan 28, 2020 05:23256990
6Let Me Be VERY Clear [271 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 28, 2020 13:01256990
2Let Me Be VERY Clear [271 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 28, 2020 21:11256990
5To Tracey Re: Kurdish Man [587 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 28, 2020 21:54256990
1He seems to be so suspicious [194 words]JessicaJan 29, 2020 21:40256990
1Yes Tracey I think he's playing with your head [111 words]JessicaJan 29, 2020 21:58256990
1Egyptian man [646 words]Nadya BrittoFeb 18, 2020 10:40256990
5Miss me with this..... [74 words]LinaJan 1, 2020 15:49256988
16It's A New Year [187 words]Siobhan #1Dec 31, 2019 16:50256970
8Back on topic [158 words]LinaJan 1, 2020 16:04256970
8Helpful or not seem like the person is gone [306 words]JessicaJan 2, 2020 22:54256970
6why is your thinking like this [47 words]LexiJan 16, 2020 11:52256970
5FOR LEXI [164 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 19:20256970
7Sharia dictates this outcome [89 words]PrashantJan 18, 2020 13:52256970
18Marriage and kids are not optional when dating a Muslim [96 words]JaimeDec 30, 2019 05:42256953
12Jessica ignore this person causing chaos [81 words]From a FriendDec 29, 2019 11:06256936
15Yes I should stop feeding the mental trolls [157 words]JessicaDec 29, 2019 17:40256936
Isn't this forum about supporting other women? [43 words]NDec 31, 2019 17:06256936
9She doesn't need help as she claims [81 words]JessicaJan 1, 2020 19:55256936
6What? [38 words]DidiJan 15, 2020 11:09256936
3Im not bullying anyone [67 words]jessica (canada)Jan 16, 2020 18:33256936
2You can't choose the country that shows up when you comment here Jessica [4 words]DidiJan 17, 2020 13:52256936
9Jessica is not bullying [104 words]Polly (USA)Jan 19, 2020 00:01256936
3THANK YOU POLLY NICE TO SEE YOU BACK AGAIN [105 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 23:45256936
1You sounds ignorance Didi [82 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 23:52256936
1Why you can't trust the internet [150 words]ShömiJan 20, 2020 17:31256936
1Wrong again Shomi. [141 words]NataliaJan 21, 2020 13:40256936
13What happen to this forum ? [108 words]SheilaDec 29, 2019 10:46256935
5Not exactly [64 words]AlgDec 31, 2019 17:01256935
11Later... [47 words]NataliaDec 28, 2019 18:30256928
9INCLUDING YOU YOO [6 words]JessicaDec 29, 2019 16:17256928
3Looking at your old post [64 words]jessica (canada)Dec 30, 2019 12:37256928
8Jessica [41 words]AnnieDec 31, 2019 16:55256928
6About the caps Annie [40 words]JessicaJan 2, 2020 21:25256928
20As I see it - [105 words]NarniaDec 28, 2019 14:21256924
10Left him after 3 years his PATHETIC fool posting [24 words]deeanaDec 26, 2019 09:25256870
18Lessons learned,indeed! [322 words]Lana (USA)Dec 27, 2019 07:48256870
8keep laughing until.... [29 words]carmenDec 26, 2019 09:00256867
5What? [43 words]DidiJan 15, 2020 11:14256867
18No illusion NEVER LOOKED back [45 words]tracyDec 26, 2019 04:52256864
3posting here [23 words]BrittanyDec 26, 2019 04:20256863
10True about medical...false about FBI [124 words]RobertDec 26, 2019 16:57256863
15When Faced with Logic, The Women Here Run [88 words]NataliaDec 24, 2019 14:54256763
8I have answer you with logic comments and your irrational posts [139 words]JessicaDec 26, 2019 21:34256763
19What about you [217 words]ShadowDec 27, 2019 19:13256763
7You are so right NATALIE'S BEEN USED [121 words]JessicaDec 29, 2019 16:26256763
13Agree to No Arguing but Not Having Kids can be a Good Thing [198 words]JaimeDec 30, 2019 05:37256763
9Marriage and kids [142 words]ShadowDec 30, 2019 13:54256763
4I see nothing wrong with not married and not having kids, Jaime [181 words]jessica (canada)Jan 6, 2020 17:55256763
3birth control is not always the pill and that is not the way to get a MENA anyway [92 words]LexiJan 12, 2020 12:27256763
8LOL [112 words]NataliaJan 17, 2020 14:46256763
2Words of Wisdom [1 words]NataliaJan 17, 2020 14:47256763
28Muslim culture explained [203 words]Jo WaDec 23, 2019 15:14256743
17SO [1 words]RobertDec 24, 2019 16:17256743

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