To Cold Feet---Facebook, Jordanian man

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Sep 18, 2010 at 22:16

Hello Cold Feet

If your man intentionally excludes you from a social networking site yet expects a relationship with you, then something is most definately wrong and his intentions towards you are less than noble.

You said in a later post that was "a while ago" and that he "is not on-line that much anymore".

All you are doing here is making excuses for his behavior, and when you make excuses for a man's behavior, he thinks he can get away with stuff.

Also him blaming everything on you---that's another red flag and it's manipulative. When I was dating on-line, whenever I called out scammers or questioned them they got very defensive and accused me of being rude ect.

Cold feet, I understand that this has been a difficult road for you and I commend you for being open-minded about the realities of the situation you are in. But this relationship is not real to him. The only reason he would keep information about himself on-line confidential like that is because he has something to hide, and 9 out 10 times that something is other women.

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