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Submitted by Towhomitmayconcern (United States), Feb 22, 2010 at 16:27

Again 6 months is too short of time to assume he is just this great guy, especially since most of the accounts are first hand experiences on this. That is why there is so much negativity. I knew the man I was with for over 4 years and the first two were bliss. He was the kindest and sweetest until he thought he consumed my heart. Then he seemed to turn into the devil. He blamed me for all the bad, made me cry all the time, made me feel like I never measured up or I could do any right. He was lying to me but always accusing me of lying. Yeah, the first two years were bliss, he treated me so sweet, so kind. Who would have thought? One thing he always said: "Women always screw everything up..well after the first two years of being with him."

Sorry to burst your bubble but most of these men tend to not be as kind as they seem to let up. He may be better if he was born here...who knows? I wish you well. One thing that is iffy is that you had been married before or you have a kid already. The thing is, most of these men really want a virgin even if they say they don't and they will lie out the wazzoo to get what they want, either money, sex or material things. Just protect your finances, don't let him effect your baby negative and don't risk any of your life if you have any kind of doubts. In the end it just won't be worth it.

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