FOR EVERYBODY!!!!!!!!!!! RESPOND TO THIS!!!!!!!!!!!

Submitted by MUNAM (United States), Dec 23, 2009 at 03:56

i am utterly astonished at reading people's stories over here. How in the HELL................... JUST HOW IN THE HELL CAN YOU GUYS FALL FOR GUYS WHO LIVE ACROSS THE OCEAN!!!!!!!!.............................JUST HOW!!!!!!!. You don't need high level of intelligence to recognize the red flags. It is quite obvious that if he is asking for money then he IS after YOUR MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!. What is amazing is that you fall for them right away online too!!!!! .......... WHAT IS THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!....... GOSH!!!!!!!!!!. Ok, so you guys go for a vacation someday, and some random guy sweet talks to you blah blah blah, and i understand that that sort of stuff is appealing to you and you think they really love you, and who knows they might genuinely be in love with you. But when he is asking for money and asks you to marry him right away , you really don't need a genius mind to realize that he is a scam. but you guys STILL send them money and astonishingly marry them to bring them over here!!!!!..... I AM JUST AMAZED AT THAT. I really do not mean to hurt anyone's feelings and nor offend anyone, but i am just amazed at stupidity of people over here....... how can anyone be so stupid!!!!.

Let me tell you this, when you marry him and bring him over here, he is going to contrive of plans to divorce you, and of course, that is after he gets his citizenship. Oh, and i forgot to mentions the age gap, yeah, another MAJOR red flag is that you are way older than him, and trust me no younger guy would marry a woman whos is 7+ years older than him. I am young and i would never marry a woman who is THAT many years older than me, NEVER!!!. So, again, after so many crystal clear signs, you women still give into their ways......i really don't understand that, i really dont............ just how is that possible!!!!!!!!. After he asks you of unsusual favours, it should become clear to you women that he is faking every bit of the world he says to you, "i am in love with you, blah, blah, blah", WAKE UP!!!!!!!, he is faking it!!!!!!.

AND BY THE WAY I AM A PAKISTANI-AMERICAN

My question to all of you women is, are you guys college graduates???????, PLEASE ANSWER THIS!!!!!

and if you are what kind of degree did you have?

How is your relationship history with guys over here, good, bad, what????

If your history is quite bad and ur having a hard time dating and ur singe, then your need for emotional and sensual pleasures fullfillment dramatically increases and any guy who will give you that will seem to you like your true love, etc.., and of course, the guys overseas uses these tools to lure you into their traps

Lastly what kind of jobs do you guys have???

I have asked these questions, so that i can read and assess your mindset

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