reply to Dora

Submitted by becreative (United Kingdom), Nov 8, 2009 at 13:37

Hi Dora - thankyou for posting to give the ladies on here an insight to what adjustments you have faced. As you are aware most of the ladies on here are adjusting in different ways , some are still involved with guys others are trying to get some sort of peace and justification. How they control your emotional behaviour from a distance its just something i am trying to get my head round. I have been doing research lately so been very occupied - i have been researching muslims and westerners in more depth and margarets posts have inspired me to read more.
Islam watch and a a lot of the islamic web sites and also Eyptian law need to be read if you are thinking of spending your life with an Egyptian muslim.
Although fascinating subjects - some of the reading is very disturbing. I dont think half the women know anything about this side of it until they get in a little deeper within a relationship.

Control is something you have to address and stick to your guns- easy said then done im sure.
WE are human beings, we have emotions these are tapped into , very gently at first, but then through a very persuasive nature you get reeled in.
i hope that women now from reading these sites are getting help and are becoming more aware of what these guys are capable of. You can enjoy a holiday, a romance but be careful.

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