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Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men
in response to reader comment: United by one, divided by zero ;)

Submitted by Jordana Ghannam-Ahmed (United States), Jan 25, 2020 at 00:19

Salaam Shomi, thank you for the shout out and welcome :) I actually wrote out a fairly lengthy response earlier this afternoon and then just as I went to submit it, my phone died, and 30 secs later when I plugged it in and opened my internet window, of COURSE I lost the entire contents of my original post (*face plant*). Lol but anyways I've just put the littles to bed and now have time to re-respond. And yes, you are correct I did quite a bit of posting here in years prior; my last pregnancy was taxing, our home construction seemed like it would never end, and my older kids started sports and I returned to work outside the home FT, but FINALLY things have slowed to a normal Tempo giving me some down time to catch up on things :) (plus I've been at home relegated to bed and very light duties much of the last week or so with a diagnosis of internal shingles virus, so i very quickly grew tired of watching TV and the usual outlets, so I'm glad to be back and see what's good on the Daniel pipes "DNT Marry an Egyptian" forum (that what my husband calls it lol). But you're correct also that I was raised primarily in Minneapolis USA, my family is from Damascus syria and were granted political asylum in USA in 1984, I have four brothers, my dad is Sunni Muslims my mom is syrian orthodox Christian (interfaith marriages are VERY commonplace in Syria, and even in Egypt and the west bank where I would be engaged/married/live and where some of my dad's side of the family would later live. It's perfectly acceptable for Muslim men to marry a Jewish or Christian woman, both islamically speaking and socially/culturally. Despite what many people believe, Religion matters far less there than it does in the USA it anywhere in the secular west. If a Muslim man tells you that he cannot marry a non Muslim, or that his family will not permit or whatever, this is bull$@?! Okay? If he tells you that you just convert before marriage or pressures conversion as part of the terms of the relationship or for any reason, you can and should disqualify him for that alone. My brother is a PhD in Islamic theology and jurisprudence and is also an Imam, he is also conservative, comparatively speaking and he will confirm that this is total nonsense and is simply not true. No islamically correct and morally upright self respecting Muslim-man or woman-wuld ever try to "convert" someone or use conversion as a deal-breaker or non negotiable requirement for a relationship or marriage. This is against the Quran and against Islam that anyone should enter the faith not of their own free will and having been called to it. That should be true of any religion imo. Anyways just an FYI about that). I am a physicians assistant (PA) by profession, a mother of 4, and a wife-my husband is Egyptian, and practices law. I would say by and large I tend to agree with most who post cautionary advise on here; with the only exception being in regards to perhaps a very prejudicial or islamophobic way of thinking and mindset. Of course coming from western women of diverse but secular backgrounds and with little experience with Muslims or Islamic culture other than what you read of it in the news (which is nearly all bad press, islamist extremism and miscreants have hijacked our religion and given us a terrible image problem to overcome), this is not entirely surprising. I try to share my thoughts and the reality that truly not all MENA men are a certain kind of way, just like all western women aren't morally bankrupt and promiscuous, and Islam is not a restrictive or repressive faith that subjugates women, but rather, neither the Bible or the Quran teaches or permits these things in any way shape or form and much of what is purportedly found in the Quran (if you go off what the media says) is patently false but people believe it because they've way to dispute it; they've never read the Quran, they probably even don't know anyone personally who has! The reality is, those kind of ignorant and backwards beliefs and behavior towards women or anyone who doesn't subscribe to a very rigid and hypocritical version of a religion and the people who practice them are found in ALL religions across the board, the type of things and behavior from men discussed on thisbforum are not exclusive to Islam and could be just as easily perpetrated by a Christian as it's based in the culture and upbringing and not a religion. Even in the west there is our own version of that, like we see for example with the FDLS Mormon sects who practice polygamy and child marriage and sexual abuse among other things. Many Christian denominations have their insular little pockets of extreme and false practices in the USA which I won't get into in detail as it's neither here nor there. Also I want women to know though that there is a high probability that their MENA love interest is a low rent opportunist and they are endemic in the middle East, Egypt being a particularly hot spot for this phenomena. (especially given the means and method By which they will most likely have met this guy, which is typically online, initiated by the guy, sometimes unsolicited and other times via a dating platform, progresses quickly, and doesn't allow either party to truly see the whole picture of the other person: who they are, their current socioeconomic status and that of their upbringing, their education and awareness level, their interests, sense of humor, friends and dynamic of close relationships and family, their religious and social beliefs and conduct, goals for the future and expectations, even their appearance! Also when you "meet" someone under the pretense of dating right off the bat, there is the risk and reality of attracting some bad fish into the net who seek to exploit even the smallest vulnerabilities.) And anyone could be victim to it; being young and attractive isn't necessarily a defense against it. A woman might be the victim of previous abuse of any/all types, she might be recently divorced or on the rebound from a long term or very meaningful relationship that she didn't expect to end, she may have children and find dating to be challenging, she may be overweight or self conscious of her appearance and looks, she may be dealing with low self worth and feel unworthy of a high standard and expectations from a man-those things make it easier for them to do their thing and work these women over but they aren't like a textbook prerequisite. Like I said, just like not all MENA men are a Mohamed or an Azan, not every woman is a Danielle or Nicole either. It's just those ones make the best TV and fit the stereotypical mold. I've been contacted on my personal email from several girls over the years asking for advice and personally discuss their relationship or potential relationship with MENA men-some American girls, others European, and I was glad they felt comfortable and trusted me enough to share with me the details of their situation and that perhaps I could shed some light on it for them. Of course in every case I've had tell them the inevitable: he's a bad Apple, throw him away. But aside from that I tried to explain to them exactly WHY he is a bad Apple, and to see all his actions and behavior for what it really is, from the eyes of someone more skilled in understanding them and from their culture. I advise them, look, he may SAY this or that, and talk a good game, but he's failed like every basic tenet of decency in his own culture and he's taking his s$?!!@ game over to foreign girls and hitting the jackpot because y'all aren't holding dude to the same standard, your blinded by infatuation and hold him to the same standard as a western guy, and thats like comparing apples to oranges, if anything ever was. They couldn't conduct themselves that way towards a girl in their own country, no decent respectable forward thinking progressive girl would have him! Bc we see them coming a mile away. I've actually met and remained good friend with and a mentor to a young girl I met on here, several years back, she, of course, was in great denial and very much in love in an unhealthy and unreciprocated way, and is quite young (Im 34; she in her very early 20s) and she did not follow my advise and words of wisdom, and, unsurprisingly, things went exactly as I'd warned her, and he'd turns out to be nothing short of a grade A douche&$@. And now she's lost several years of her life, physical intimacy, money, time, etc. That coidkve been better spent doing almost anything at all. And she's a gorgeous girl-i mean, she could have her pick in her own country, shed be a catch to damn near anyone, all my American guy friends think she's the finest honey lol and her MENA guy? He wasnt even average looking by American OR middle eastern standards lol. I would've thought with how poor his personality and conduct was, he'd have to be the sexiest man alive to compensate, but it just goes to show, they don't all fit a particular stereotype or idea of who and what a shady opportunistic catfish love scam abusive different culture couple might look like or who they might be. I really hope she can become confidant and secure in being alone and really find herself and then be ready when the right guy enters her life to love him but to never forget to love herself first. That's what I would hope for anyone, and I would advise to any ladies second guessing their relationship on here. I when you're asking yourself if your relationship has an inequality in the balance of power and may not be authentic, I think the answer is in the question-you already know the answer. Now I'll never bash my culture as a whole or my husbands culture because of course, there ARE good ones, and I seem to have married a great one after all. But this "thing" this $!@? That MENA guys do, the THIRST is real my friends; it's real and it's well known and discussed in the MENA social culture. In Egypt it's sooooo well known and so prolific that it's embarrassing and shameful to all the normal Egyptians out there just trynna get a date or trynna NOT be a sheisty con artist. This type of thing is NOT openly accepted or tolerated among ANY of my family or friends in Cairo or Damascus. If a guy so much as smelled of such activities, he'd be ridiculed and shamed. It would never be openly admitted to or made known to anyone who wasn't most definitely of the same low moral code and complicit in the activity of scamming/using/playing/abusing/leading on/lying/etc to these women. Meaning that you don't see guys from decent families disapproving of such things typically going out and perpetrating them; it is as unacceptable to them as to their family and they'd be disowned and get the stuffing kicked out of them for acting so uncouth. Now lower class families may have one standard for whom is acceptable for their son, but also be limitlessly opportunistic and greedy and therefore willing to aid and abet their son/brother/friend/cousin in their game, if there is a potential to benefit them. Family is very much immeshed together and if one is struggling everyone struggles with them and in Egypt in particular the financial situation is such that families demand such unrealistic dowrys and marriage terms that in turn many families cannot afford to marry their sons and to cicumvent that issue among other potential benefits, they can marry a foreign girl, a western girl to whom the Egyptian pound means little more than Monopoly money and who doesn't understand the ins and outs of a typical marriage contract and obligations due to her and rights belonging to her. That's another thing, among so many more. There is really so much I can say about it that I haven't the ability to cover it all in one post, but truly it is gross and I can't say enough to exercise extreme caution and do not become an achievement to some green card hungrey sexually repressed and immature uneducated and unpromising Egyptian tourist industry worker (that's another stereotype lol btw right there but also one that has firm origins in reality). That's all for now :)

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4Smart people [70 words]AmandaFeb 6, 2020 02:20257678
8Jordana thank you [74 words]Ella AustraliaFeb 9, 2020 17:03257678
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13Took a break from reading the comments [47 words]AlenaFeb 3, 2020 09:35257603
15Incorrect information of the Quran [320 words]A true believerJan 25, 2020 09:06257454
15Correct [142 words]NataliaJan 26, 2020 16:19257454
16Correct [376 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 27, 2020 01:37257454
26Ok. I am done. This forum is now a pro Muslim site. [72 words]Nip it in the budJan 27, 2020 16:25257454
14Response to "Nipped" [136 words]NataliaJan 28, 2020 14:13257454
19??? [149 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 28, 2020 18:16257454
9I said that all along for so many years [119 words]JessicaJan 29, 2020 20:48257454
17So in other words... [63 words]DidiJan 31, 2020 14:07257454
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12Who are you? [82 words]PollyFeb 4, 2020 16:57257454
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10Response [110 words]NataliaFeb 3, 2020 17:59257407
5Bashing [142 words]ShadowFeb 4, 2020 16:15257407
4And What is Wrong w/ That? [120 words]NataliaFeb 5, 2020 13:49257407
9You don't get it [104 words]ShadowFeb 6, 2020 16:37257407
6Typo [134 words]NataliaFeb 7, 2020 18:22257407
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5Shadow ignore this nuisance [219 words]JessicaFeb 12, 2020 20:56257407
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7Dr.Pipes!Let's go back on track! [130 words]Lana(USA)Jan 22, 2020 18:33257392
7The Forum, Daniel Pipes [138 words]Flo-Ri-DaJan 22, 2020 19:23257392
13In response to Daniel Pipes [65 words]Someone else annoyed with the fightingJan 23, 2020 12:54257392
8I think the forum is back to normal now and welcome back Jordana [184 words]JessicaJan 24, 2020 21:54257392
6Peace to all!!!! [464 words]Lana(USA)Jan 26, 2020 16:35257392
3Thanks and hello Jessica [20 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 27, 2020 01:39257392
5I'm still here Jordana [163 words]JessicaJan 29, 2020 22:38257392
3Agree [24 words]jessica (canada)Feb 1, 2020 14:15257392
1WHAT GOES ON HERE IS NOT OF ALLAH!!!!!! [90 words]LexiJan 22, 2020 11:02257375
17Oh Really???? [106 words]Not Muslim,never will be!!!Jan 22, 2020 13:46257375
10ok then Lexi, if this forum is not of "ALLAH"...you better leave [9 words]ChelseaJan 22, 2020 14:03257375
1No [16 words]LexiJan 22, 2020 14:10257375
1No [74 words]LexxiJan 22, 2020 14:15257375
11*Typo [40 words]Not Muslim,never will be!!!Jan 22, 2020 14:19257375
11but yet, you have no problem with your husband having 4 wives and concubines? [2 words]ChelseaJan 22, 2020 14:40257375
2No Again [25 words]LexiJan 22, 2020 14:47257375
11So what is your point?Are you here to convert all of us here????Keep dreaming!!!! [134 words]Not Muslim,never be!!!!Jan 22, 2020 15:05257375
8To quote [59 words]ShadowJan 22, 2020 15:07257375
15Sodemy & Muslims [24 words]AlenaJan 22, 2020 15:18257375
8Lexi..Lexxi [70 words]ShadowJan 22, 2020 15:41257375
12But alot of muslim girls does have sex before marriage [89 words]jessica (canada)Jan 22, 2020 15:48257375
6SO WAKE UP LEXI [27 words]jessica (canada)Jan 22, 2020 15:59257375
7MUSLIM MEN [52 words]jessica (canada)Jan 22, 2020 16:03257375
2I live in US [26 words]NataliaJan 23, 2020 12:11257375
8Not wrong but... [103 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 24, 2020 12:31257375
3Talk talk talk [31 words]ValerieJan 22, 2020 01:26257371
5Nice tried Valeria set up another name not Diana/Amy/Susan this time [27 words]jessica (canada)Jan 22, 2020 19:49257371
7To the Mentally Unstable Person Who Pressed the "Dislike" Button on my "Back and Responding to..." Comment Over 400 Times [20 words]NataliaJan 21, 2020 13:45257356
10TRUTH [99 words]NataliaJan 20, 2020 17:27257333
7Thats right Chelsea well said [81 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 18:05257333
14Allow me to tell you a story [457 words]ShömiJan 18, 2020 09:26257233
4This is Nikki's post. i think she typed it in another forum not this one [363 words]jessica (canada)Jan 20, 2020 15:39257233
101Back and Responding to the Sensible Observations as well as the Non-sense [366 words]NataliaJan 17, 2020 11:26257202
20you are crazy [1 words]RobertJan 17, 2020 13:47257202
18About the women Natalia [22 words]JessicaJan 18, 2020 01:54257202
7And You Are Irrational [44 words]NataliaJan 19, 2020 14:59257202
11Yes they are all unstable and mental [298 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 23:30257202
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11Trolls [145 words]ChelseaJan 21, 2020 12:01257202
9Still Perpetuating the Stereotype of the Over Emotional, Irrational Female [184 words]NataliaJan 21, 2020 13:19257202
7Excuse me....did I call your name out in this post? [10 words]ChelseaJan 21, 2020 13:35257202
6All the dislikes [27 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 18:10257202
5Yes Natalie have very severe mental sickness [283 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 21:43257202
3Chelsea like I said poor lonely soul [19 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 21:47257202
4Salaam Alaikum [61 words]Jordana Ghannam RatebJan 21, 2020 21:55257202
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4Idiot Thinking [31 words]NataliaJan 22, 2020 14:18257202
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12Natalia [255 words]RobertJan 23, 2020 01:43257202
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6Yes Robert [78 words]Polly (USA)Feb 8, 2020 23:48257202
3Polly Response [210 words]NataliaFeb 10, 2020 12:26257202
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9oh really these women are so unstable Susan including you [65 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 16:02257196
10Did I bullied anyone LOL [53 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 22:20257196
5I dare the troll will make up another name [196 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 01:27257196
13No Jessica, you did not bully anyone, you just tellin it like it is [108 words]ChelseaJan 21, 2020 11:41257196
4Well said Chelsea [277 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 21:23257196
6SUSAN/AMY/DIANA VERY UNSTABLE WITH MULTIPLE PERSONALITIES MENTAL ILLNESS [26 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 21:54257196
4Jessica you're obsessed with someone [117 words]DianaJan 16, 2020 18:04257195
12Hahahaha Nice Tried Diana [153 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 16:19257195
7Regarding "MOVING" [27 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 16:21257195
20Amy/Diana/Susan the same person [74 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 18:41257195
8By the way [11 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 19:07257195
15Jessica ,you're right!!!LADIES,LETS STICK TO THE PUROSE AND TOPIC OF THE FORUM !!! [87 words]Lana(USA)Jan 19, 2020 17:13257195
8Yes Lana all these trolls are one person [41 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 18:26257195
6I'm a "Troll" - That's Why My Comments Have the Most "Likes" Right? [38 words]NataliaJan 20, 2020 08:18257195
7Hahaha your comments has most dislikes [42 words]JessicaJan 20, 2020 13:53257195
2Sorry phone typo again [20 words]jessica (canada)Jan 20, 2020 18:21257195
2Your posts have most dislike Natalie [30 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 18:16257195
5What has this forum come to? [100 words]Jordana Ghannam-Ahmed (Egypt)Jan 22, 2020 05:39257195
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7Just a movie nothing more [28 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 16:08257191
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5Veer Zaara [74 words]LinaJan 19, 2020 15:25257191
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23The NEED to protect your "honor" [204 words]Lana(USA)Jan 20, 2020 09:56257191
3Veer Zaara [94 words]JowaJan 20, 2020 11:55257191
3Haha spot on Lana and they are do jealous of us. [107 words]JessicaJan 20, 2020 14:02257191
3you know alot about our culture it seems [104 words]Lexi-con of virtueJan 20, 2020 17:19257191
4MOVING [67 words]amyJan 13, 2020 03:13257135
12OH POOR AMY [174 words]jessica (canada)Jan 13, 2020 19:52257135
12AMY/NATALIE [107 words]JessicaJan 13, 2020 23:35257135
8Confused [23 words]LinaJan 14, 2020 17:35257135
2Typo on phone [21 words]JessicaJan 14, 2020 17:55257135
10Confused as well... [125 words]Lana (USA)Jan 15, 2020 15:11257135
7OK so [9 words]DeeJan 16, 2020 13:42257135
6I believed they are the same person Lina [30 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 16:06257135
10Be back soon [371 words]LinaJan 17, 2020 17:17257135
7TYPO [207 words]Lana(USA)Jan 17, 2020 18:41257135
11As for the trolls [200 words]LinaJan 17, 2020 19:46257135
6Yes IT'S THE SAME PERSON [87 words]JessicaJan 18, 2020 02:01257135
2Right Over Your Head [175 words]NataliaJan 19, 2020 15:09257135
3Lana [83 words]NataliaJan 19, 2020 15:12257135
3Lina [157 words]NataliaJan 19, 2020 15:17257135
11Replies to Lana [61 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 18:45257135
4Hypocritical Comment [47 words]NataliaJan 20, 2020 12:52257135
4LEARN HOW TO READ AGAIN NATALIE ITS NOT LANA'S POST [60 words]jessica (canada)Jan 20, 2020 18:00257135
16Women's rights [390 words]LinaJan 1, 2020 16:12256990
11You're So Right, Lina [333 words]RobinJan 3, 2020 20:57256990
14Hard to get [292 words]LinaJan 9, 2020 18:01256990
12Bravo,Lina! [336 words]Lana(USA)Jan 10, 2020 01:55256990
3Trying my hardest for my daughter and twin grandsons [248 words]SandraJan 10, 2020 13:32256990
10The first mistake [233 words]LinaJan 11, 2020 20:47256990
6I am glad you stood up to him [223 words]ChelseaJan 11, 2020 21:49256990
76women here bash MENA men but seem to want to be a part of our culture [97 words]LexiJan 12, 2020 15:13256990
16Dear Lexi [158 words]LinaJan 13, 2020 15:08256990
14LEXI READ THE TITLE OF THIS FORUM [174 words]JessicaJan 13, 2020 23:22256990
11How so [32 words]ShömiJan 14, 2020 06:14256990
10THIS my thoughts exactly [188 words]JowaJan 14, 2020 16:32256990
9Stalker [94 words]JannaJan 15, 2020 04:34256990
9I'm all the way good [265 words]LinaJan 15, 2020 15:29256990
16Wrong assumption,Lexi [324 words]Lana(USA)Jan 15, 2020 16:36256990
12as I sit here...my ex mena man is STILL begging me to skype him after 5 years [128 words]ChelseaJan 15, 2020 16:54256990
5Don't file your marriage at a US courthouse and there will be no record [79 words]ChelseaJan 15, 2020 16:58256990
5€ women [17 words]ShömiJan 15, 2020 17:45256990
8Oh really Jowa [280 words]JessicaJan 15, 2020 22:42256990
11The whole package [41 words]JessicaJan 15, 2020 22:48256990
8I am here beccause I am Muslim of course this is [124 words]LexiJan 16, 2020 11:25256990
9Lina [46 words]LexiJan 16, 2020 13:44256990
7you sound very jealous [11 words]lexiJan 16, 2020 13:45256990
10Yes because [6 words]DeeJan 16, 2020 13:49256990
13Hello Lexi [632 words]ChelseaJan 16, 2020 14:32256990
1Dear virtuous Lexi [221 words]LinaJan 16, 2020 15:19256990
12Hahaha he will beg like a dog [122 words]jessica (canada)Jan 16, 2020 17:31256990
1Euro is a culture too [8 words]JowaJan 17, 2020 13:54256990
7Jealous? No. Pity-YES! [257 words]Lana(USA)Jan 17, 2020 15:03256990
5NO one is jealous [12 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 19:22256990
9Good comment Lina [97 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 19:29256990
9Lina's thought [13 words]Ella AustraliaJan 18, 2020 01:18256990
jessica [24 words]deeanaJan 18, 2020 10:15256990
4Jealous? No. Pity-YES! [257 words]Lana(USA)Jan 18, 2020 13:41256990
12Disgraceful self-righteous message [233 words]PrashantJan 18, 2020 13:45256990
12So,what are you doing in non Muslim forum,Lexi???? [196 words]Lana(USA)Jan 18, 2020 13:55256990
10I am so sorry [212 words]nikkiJan 18, 2020 17:48256990
4You sounds so unstable lexi [21 words]JessicaJan 18, 2020 19:11256990
13Lexi! [217 words]NIKKIJan 18, 2020 23:37256990
5You sounds so unstable lexi [21 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 00:10256990
8Lina,This is exactly my thoughts! [61 words]Lana(USA)Jan 19, 2020 01:03256990
6Exactly, Chelsea! [52 words]Lana(USA)Jan 19, 2020 01:08256990
2I want to know more about Kurdish men [81 words]TraceyJan 19, 2020 05:34256990
3Rant reply [24 words]JowaJan 19, 2020 15:19256990
2WOW [52 words]LexxiJan 19, 2020 15:24256990
6Love it [41 words]LinaJan 19, 2020 15:37256990
8She went there [22 words]LinaJan 19, 2020 15:42256990
7Insecure [48 words]LinaJan 19, 2020 15:50256990
2Lana is of Shakespeare [43 words]JowaJan 19, 2020 16:18256990
5Hi Tracey [281 words]LinaJan 19, 2020 16:18256990
4Deena [162 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 18:58256990
3Spot on sounds like LEXI and other muslim are jealous of us [49 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 19:25256990
3JOWA yoi are really jealous of westerners [170 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 21:28256990
3Again nobody is jealous and everyone on here is chill .yoi are so unstable [62 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 21:46256990
2Yes Lana they are all twisted and the culture is twisted [69 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 21:56256990
7True! [252 words]Lana(USA)Jan 19, 2020 23:51256990
11OH,POOR JOWA [43 words]Lana(USA)Jan 19, 2020 23:59256990
7Somebody is having a good time here [7 words]RobertJan 20, 2020 11:35256990
2"As Good As It Gets" [91 words]NataliaJan 20, 2020 12:02256990
5Euro still a currency, lol [139 words]ShömiJan 20, 2020 14:16256990
1Hi Lina [397 words]TraceyJan 20, 2020 15:14256990
1You fail to answer Pershant's post [14 words]jessica (canada)Jan 20, 2020 15:19256990
2Yes Robert very unstable mental troll [11 words]jessica (canada)Jan 20, 2020 15:29256990
1Report him Nikki [57 words]jessica (canada)Jan 20, 2020 15:37256990
7Go to your daddy,kid! Ask if he allows you to be on this forum at all [74 words]Lana(USA)Jan 20, 2020 23:29256990
2NIKKI [137 words]Polly (USA)Jan 21, 2020 10:51256990
1Lana [94 words]JowaJan 21, 2020 13:27256990
1Shomi you have bigger problems then [85 words]JowaJan 21, 2020 14:40256990
8Some true some not [338 words]Jordana Ghannam RatebJan 21, 2020 22:07256990
4Re: Kurdish man [363 words]LinaJan 22, 2020 05:20256990
3Jordana [237 words]Lana(USA)Jan 22, 2020 14:11256990
1Lana - just OMG [188 words]NataliaJan 22, 2020 15:10256990
2Learn to read first,Jowa)))) [115 words]Mon Muslim,never be!!!!Jan 22, 2020 15:26256990
I agree with you [360 words]TraceyJan 22, 2020 17:38256990
2Gut feeling [261 words]LinaJan 23, 2020 04:32256990
To Tracey [27 words]Hope UKJan 23, 2020 12:19256990
1Very convincing [69 words]TraceyJan 23, 2020 14:36256990
3To Tracey [177 words]Hope UKJan 23, 2020 15:27256990
So confusing [223 words]TraceyJan 23, 2020 17:50256990
3Sorry, Do not Give Up [306 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 24, 2020 13:12256990
2Bride price [307 words]LinaJan 24, 2020 18:43256990
2Dowry [215 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 25, 2020 00:54256990
That's what I expected [226 words]TraceyJan 25, 2020 14:17256990
1To Tracey [279 words]Hope UKJan 26, 2020 08:07256990
3To Tracey [511 words]Hope UKJan 26, 2020 18:27256990
1Red flag [122 words]LinaJan 27, 2020 08:12256990
2Sickening [243 words]TraceyJan 28, 2020 05:23256990
6Let Me Be VERY Clear [271 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 28, 2020 13:01256990
2Let Me Be VERY Clear [271 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 28, 2020 21:11256990
5To Tracey Re: Kurdish Man [587 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 28, 2020 21:54256990
1He seems to be so suspicious [194 words]JessicaJan 29, 2020 21:40256990
1Yes Tracey I think he's playing with your head [111 words]JessicaJan 29, 2020 21:58256990
5Miss me with this..... [74 words]LinaJan 1, 2020 15:49256988
16It's A New Year [187 words]Siobhan #1Dec 31, 2019 16:50256970
8Back on topic [158 words]LinaJan 1, 2020 16:04256970
8Helpful or not seem like the person is gone [306 words]JessicaJan 2, 2020 22:54256970
6why is your thinking like this [47 words]LexiJan 16, 2020 11:52256970
5FOR LEXI [164 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 19:20256970
7Sharia dictates this outcome [89 words]PrashantJan 18, 2020 13:52256970
18Marriage and kids are not optional when dating a Muslim [96 words]JaimeDec 30, 2019 05:42256953
12Jessica ignore this person causing chaos [81 words]From a FriendDec 29, 2019 11:06256936
15Yes I should stop feeding the mental trolls [157 words]JessicaDec 29, 2019 17:40256936
Isn't this forum about supporting other women? [43 words]NDec 31, 2019 17:06256936
9She doesn't need help as she claims [81 words]JessicaJan 1, 2020 19:55256936
6What? [38 words]DidiJan 15, 2020 11:09256936
3Im not bullying anyone [67 words]jessica (canada)Jan 16, 2020 18:33256936
2You can't choose the country that shows up when you comment here Jessica [4 words]DidiJan 17, 2020 13:52256936
9Jessica is not bullying [104 words]Polly (USA)Jan 19, 2020 00:01256936
3THANK YOU POLLY NICE TO SEE YOU BACK AGAIN [105 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 23:45256936
1You sounds ignorance Didi [82 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 23:52256936
1Why you can't trust the internet [150 words]ShömiJan 20, 2020 17:31256936
1Wrong again Shomi. [141 words]NataliaJan 21, 2020 13:40256936
13What happen to this forum ? [108 words]SheilaDec 29, 2019 10:46256935
5Not exactly [64 words]AlgDec 31, 2019 17:01256935
11Later... [47 words]NataliaDec 28, 2019 18:30256928
9INCLUDING YOU YOO [6 words]JessicaDec 29, 2019 16:17256928
3Looking at your old post [64 words]jessica (canada)Dec 30, 2019 12:37256928
8Jessica [41 words]AnnieDec 31, 2019 16:55256928
6About the caps Annie [40 words]JessicaJan 2, 2020 21:25256928
20As I see it - [105 words]NarniaDec 28, 2019 14:21256924
10Left him after 3 years his PATHETIC fool posting [24 words]deeanaDec 26, 2019 09:25256870
18Lessons learned,indeed! [322 words]Lana (USA)Dec 27, 2019 07:48256870
8keep laughing until.... [29 words]carmenDec 26, 2019 09:00256867
5What? [43 words]DidiJan 15, 2020 11:14256867
18No illusion NEVER LOOKED back [45 words]tracyDec 26, 2019 04:52256864
3posting here [23 words]BrittanyDec 26, 2019 04:20256863
10True about medical...false about FBI [124 words]RobertDec 26, 2019 16:57256863
15When Faced with Logic, The Women Here Run [88 words]NataliaDec 24, 2019 14:54256763
8I have answer you with logic comments and your irrational posts [139 words]JessicaDec 26, 2019 21:34256763
19What about you [217 words]ShadowDec 27, 2019 19:13256763
7You are so right NATALIE'S BEEN USED [121 words]JessicaDec 29, 2019 16:26256763
13Agree to No Arguing but Not Having Kids can be a Good Thing [198 words]JaimeDec 30, 2019 05:37256763
9Marriage and kids [142 words]ShadowDec 30, 2019 13:54256763
4I see nothing wrong with not married and not having kids, Jaime [181 words]jessica (canada)Jan 6, 2020 17:55256763
3birth control is not always the pill and that is not the way to get a MENA anyway [92 words]LexiJan 12, 2020 12:27256763
8LOL [112 words]NataliaJan 17, 2020 14:46256763
2Words of Wisdom [1 words]NataliaJan 17, 2020 14:47256763
28Muslim culture explained [203 words]Jo WaDec 23, 2019 15:14256743
17SO [1 words]RobertDec 24, 2019 16:17256743
51Thats what you call respect??? [479 words]Non-muslim,never will be!!!Dec 25, 2019 16:05256743
10HAHA GOT THAT ONE RIGHT [71 words]JessicaDec 26, 2019 16:04256743
10Exactly..what we saw in the shopping mall today [261 words]JessicaDec 26, 2019 21:19256743
10shame [63 words]gagedonDec 28, 2019 09:44256743
7Yes I agree gagedon [112 words]JessicaDec 29, 2019 17:23256743

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