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Exactly...where there is smoke there is fire and ELI

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Submitted by Chelsea, Sep 9, 2019 at 17:44

Not the fire you want to play with. I recently found out that Homeland Security is changing the interview questions. Their BEZNESS is not going to work so well in a month or two. They are always in a hurry because they knew that our current administration was going to change things.

Anyone who has any doubts need look no further. If you are having doubts...then your gut is telling you to cut your losses and get the heck outta there. These guys I saw over there in Arab land stick together and learn how to do this to get out of their country.

I will use myself as an example. YES the family was in on it. The custom for them is to be honorable and respectful in their marriage choice...most of the time it is arranged. They pay a dowry. Gold, property or other tribal things. Also my Mr Once Was had his plan down to a T. All those pictures I did not know were being taken. I was in a wedding dress I did not want to wear. I was in full makeup...too much. I did not understand why all these pictures. I should have had a say in that. I am pretty private. But looking back at the pictures I saw the pattern of getting them all ready for the "interview". They were just what the counselors were going to want to see. Also he would bring to mind any memories we had or telling me look how happy I was with him. Grooming me with emotional triggers. Thank God it did not work.

All the time he was working HIS PLAN...I was working on educating myself and making myself see the truth. Yes I was happy when I was with him, but I was not happy going through the immigration process. THAT IS SOMETHING I DID NOT SIGN UP FOR. I think now...DANG....I would have had to get him health insurance and everything. Those kind of expenses wake you up real quick. They have no idea what it cost to live in our country. Yes they have poverty but their expenses are low. a candy bar here is $1.39. A candy bar there is 10 cents. Rent including power is $80 per month. Here at the lower end is seven to eight hundred dollars. Chances are the woman would have to pay that because they gotta take care of the family.

After a few more lies and finding him online behind my back...I had had enough. I simply was NOT going to spend my life with a liar, nor would I bring him around my people. He needed to stay where he was.

To the lady that is so smitten with the guy who has no interest....let me tell you that even if you have his phone ...there is no guarantee that he does not have another or did not delete the women off his phone.

I used Mr. Once Was phone while I was in his country. I saw nothing on it. When I was leaving he transferred our pictures from his phone onto my computer. OOPPSS....all photos linked to a program we were using transferred even though HE THOUGHT he had deleted them. Women women women. And NASTY WOMEN at that.

Do NOT RUN after them. Believe me....you do not want that!! For the new lady on here...JUST STOP IT. Welcome to the forum Eli and please respect yourself to drop all that.

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