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Submitted by Chelsea, Aug 29, 2019 at 17:27

Imagine risking your life to travel overseas not knowing the culture they were raised in and how dangerous it could be. They don't tell you what to expect.

Imagine going overseas and GETTING MARRIED only to find that during your engagement period...all the women he was courting online WHILE BEING ENGAGED TO HIM.

Imagine the hurt you will feel when the day comes that you are in a strange country and you find out his intentions were not what he made you believe that they were.

Imagine coming back to your country and starting proceedings which are very expensive only to find him ONLINE AGAIN with a keffeyah terror style on and you knew nothing of it.

Imagine all that you had been told and put your hope in was going to be wonderful just to get to him to have him ship you off with instructions to HELP him get residency.

Imagine when you wake up one day and realize that HE LIED about the immigration process.

Imagine that you were sucked into a contract with an immigration attorney which took you 2 years to pay off when you were told it would be only 2 months because you had married him.

Imagine not knowing anything about the immigration process and that you have to pay another $1000 form a year after he arrives on temporary status.

Imagine having to watch your power ripped away from you where you are so beaten down mentally and emotionally that you just give in.

Imagine that when you are a sponsor that you would be held responsible for them if they used any benefits from our government even if they leave you and marry their arranged cousin. You signed a contract with the government to do so.

Imagine having to change your life and work harder than ever because the family overseas needs your hard earned cash.

Imagine him getting citizenship at your expense only to bring his family to your country.

Imagine being trapped in an abusive relationship the rest of your life.

Or imagine that after you have been used for their gain...they dump you and marry the cousin that was arranged for them.

It is better to hurt now rather than later. At least your life in your country is still in your control mentally, and financially.

About the Quran....They are taught it in school. It is like the Bible is to Christians. They are raised differently from you. You are the infidel...an animal to be used and enslaved....even if you are of high moral character...if you are American....you are dirty. Always will be.

If you are a divorcee or even a widow, they don't want anyone to know that. Even if it was way in your past...they will tell you not to tell their family that. Imagine being shamed and feeling shamed because you are a woman that divorced or older or past child rearing age. It is all your fault even if it wasn't.

I have said it time and time again. Read Daniel Pipes stories and watch Robert Spencer. Robert Spencer is American and his family are from the Middle East. Mr. Spencer wanted to know about his roots and began to study. He is on you=tube. He goes to the colleges in the US to educate college students on this Ideology of Islam. He knows the Quran well. It really helped me to understand what kind of monster I was dealing with. It had to be ended.

I don't want to see any of you ladies hurt by continuing to associate with these fakes. Cut your losses now instead of later. As Prince sang in his song. Don't go chasing waterfalls. Stick to the rivers and the streams that you are used to. Best wishes. Be strong ladies and men too.

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