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They're dysfunctional

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Submitted by Lina (United Kingdom), Oct 7, 2018 at 08:57

Realise that it's not your fault, and there's nothing you can do to change a man's ways. You will not change him, he's set in stone unless he has an epiphany of sorts.

I've been trying to figure it all out and I can conclude that these men are just dysfunctional. They aren't raised on unconditional love, they're raised under very severe conditions. They're taught that love can only be given if the woman obeys, so essentially it's a master/slave relationship! Just like how you'd treat a household pet. You can "love" a pet, feed it and punish it accordingly.

If you're into 50 Shades then by all means go for it. Some women are into that kind of thing, but remember there's a difference between doing it with a wealthy Arab man and one of the low lives we speak of on here.

The women in their households are repressed and can actually egg these men on with their own self-loathing. They often have Stockholm syndrome. Their only joys in life are comfort eating and going to the beauty salon to impress their tyrannical husbands. Spend time with a repressed woman and you'll see what I mean - they are often very bitter and hateful towards women that have more liberties than they have. So imagine what they're saying about us.

So, even if a man is half decent... he'll be surrounded by all these delusional females and emotionally retarded male peers whose wives hate them, supporting and encouraging his disrespectful behaviour.

And another thing, don't assume that their own women have it any better. Yes, they have everything paid for, just as you'd pay a servant to fulfil their duties.

On the flipside, it can depend on a man's upbringing. A number of men aren't raised in this way, and are raised by strong men AND women who teach their children to respect one another - but sadly these types of men are usually married, and aren't fishing online and in holiday resorts for prey.

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