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I always agree with your response JordanaReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Jessie (Canada), Sep 30, 2016 at 17:51 Hello Jordana, as always you have the best responses and i always loved to read your posts. you take so much time to write everything in your mind. i have always thought maybe you are a writer that's why you write so good and explained everything so clearly..Lots of time i can't even express into words..lol even though i came to Canada when i was young and speaking our own language at home with my parents and my aunts because they don't understand one word of english themselves.. after all English is my third language not second of course i cant write as good as the ladies in this forum most are english their mother tongue.. I can speaks perfectly in person but as soon as it come to writing im far from you..you are perfect. And the fact you are middle eastern woman/muslim and was borned in USA that also make you westerner as well as you mentioned. It's so true when it comes to relationship and marriage wise its better to find a companion in your own country and religions and culture share similarity at everything..even the same food and celebrations and tradition..I once had a Portuguese/Italian boyfriends when i was in High school. he was borned in canada and was his third generation in canada where as me first generation in canada so you see his english are so much better than me.. we dated for over a year and everything was perfect but i find that there are so much different in culture and the up bringing was so different from our Asian way..and we had so much fights and my parents kind of dont like him because he's not asian and him and my parents cant even have a decent conversation as my parents cant speak english at all..lol..as you mentioned you have watched a program from youtube and older woman at age 64 and her toy boy is in his 20's locking hand with each other. i mean any blind eye can see what is coming..not that hes old enough to be his mother but a grandmother as well it's like 40 years difference infact sounds digusting to me..I have read alot of posts in this Forum where women avoid all the RED FLAGS. its all there but these woman seem so blinded by love or these so called dark handsome muslim men..(keep in mind they are not handsome i find that they are so dark and hairy.) but some a quite handsome but not all.. like i said and Luhx also says you cant generalized everything one one religions... you cant say all MENA men are scammers. everyone's bad side do have some their good side.. For example.. my Mohamed (MMD) lol i know for sure he wasn't scamming me.. he's pretty well know me by now.. he know im so hard headed and in fact we are so much similar in character..He never ASKED ME MONEY OR SEND HIM MONEY he had his own shop and he dont want VISA/ CANADIAN CITIZEN EITHER.. he know quite well i will not responsor him to come here and im not going to responsible for him financially for 10 years.. he is so aware of that.. and why does he want to come to canada he can go to France anytime he wants after all his whole family are there. In a way deep down i know he love me very much. he chose me amongst so many women on craig's list..and like he said what brought him to chose me because like he said i dont look my age at all..if im not told him the truth he would still think im 30 or 31 year old..being at 47 and he's 32( only 15 years difference not like we are 20+ years apart. not like the Tusnia boy and the 65 year old woman you have mentioned in youtube)..unless i had a baby at 15 then he could of be my son..haha..So do you think Tina Turner at age 75 and her boyfriend is 45 (30 years different) of jennifer lopez at 47 same age as me and Casper Smart only 26..Or Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher her ex husband younger than her 23 years..so are they all scammers the young toy boy..lol..guess not!! you quote "Not all muslim/middle eastern/north african men are monsters inherently designed to con and romance unsuspecting older western women with money, and not all western women are older, rich, desperate for romance and seeking it from their tunisian pool boy in sousse. ;)"..YOU ARE SO RIGHT JORDANA .. ME AND YOU AND LUHX ALL THINK THE SAME..but not sure about Luigi though..He's so certain all MENA boys are scammers!! Last i knew my Mohamed (MMD) love me more than i love him but in a way i know he cant replace my ex-husband..My husband is far by perfect.. he can do everything for me as being asian women are in charge not men.. Men basically asked their wife and discuss things with his wife everything unllike Muslim (i did explained this to my Mohamed) and he said he tried to change himself as much as possible to be our Asian/canadian culture.. my ex husband would do dishes for me, take care of the girls, do laundry, cooking, cleaning, grocery, clean the bathroom etc. the list goes on.. and Mohamed told me he tried to be like my husband and do everything as much as possible for me (again i dont believe that) it just we been married for 25 years and we grew apart and family issue as well. even though we are divorced he is very much still in my life see my girls almost everyday and sometime brought food for me to eat..Now sounds like we just met and starting dating process..lol..,my chapter with my husband are closed now im concentrate with my Mohamed..deep down i knew mohamed is a good guy. hes unlike those tourist scammers he respected me so much and never once asked me for naked pictures or anything..and im not guy defence like Luigi say about me. haha. i dont need to defence him i need to defence myself. im not rushing into marriage i have said it so many time in here but he want to married me soon but i wait till he come here we will spend alot of time together and i will go to Morocco next year maybe a few months there. see how things are between him and me. to see if we are still capatible. have fun with him take advantage of him after all he's the one that wants me not the other way around..and i dont need to spend one dime for him..like you said Jordana a good muslim man will never allowed a woman spend money on him and this is what he's doing for me.. we do need long period of time spending together if i suspicious anything or found out hes not my dream man and im willingly to go my seperate way No regrets no looking back..you heart have to me tough to handle muslim man as i said before. and i definately can do it..i already know he cant scam me because i wont allowed him too and his sweet words wont softened my heart!! 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