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My husband leave me because of his jealousy and his sick imaginationReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Karen (Poland), Sep 22, 2015 at 08:03 We both are 31. We are together from when we meet :) it is 3 years and 3 months. He is much jealous of me even if he doesnt have reasons :( he wanted marry me in first meeting :) but things didnt go as we want,we had problems with money (im not working now and im sick) then with my accident. We planned to be married in october 2014, ihad all papers, all translates (it was hard for me to get all this but i made much efforst and i got :) ) but... i had haemorrhagic stroke because of ruptured brain aneyrysm (which i didnt know that i have it untill it rupture 15th september 2014) - it was forbidden for me to fly by plane. Thanks to God,i have no disability, but my husband to not appreciate it how lucky we are that im alive! I cant be stressed but he stresses me a lot all this year :( Firstly i think he didnt believe i cant fly, i look same,so maybe he didnt realized im still sick. Anyway, many times he said that see that i dont want him,dont want come and he is waiting for nothing,that i play of him... but...it was from missing,im sure... I was in morroco 6 times in his home (he has own apartment in family home). We get married in august. I was so happy,finally, after all problems we were wife and husband :)))) But...our happiness didnt take long :( 13 september i was on my brother's wedding.there were 160 guests,it was much much lovely party :) my husband asked me about this,i was talking all,then i wanted show him pictures cuz it better to imagine if you see :) And... he saw me danicing with other man and it start :( He called me bitch and slut and much more bad words...and he said he will divorce me :( I didnt do nothing bad,it normal in my culture to dance with all in wedding! and this man,he is younger,friend of my brother,he has woman with who he live more then 3 years as family in one home,she was there,danicng also. I told him all,but he didnt want hear me:( Im innocent,it was only one dance maybe 2 minutes (it was in beggining of wedding,DJ aranged athis dance after first dance of bride&groom to make guests know eachother, as integration dance - i didnt see nothing bad in this so i danced :( ) I have nothing in common with this man :( and my husband said i slept with him for sure ;( or hug or kissed ;( I didnt!!! nothing as this!! But he not want hear me ;( I asked my mum to talk with him by camera and tell how it was...first he said ok,he forgive me this (but it is nothing to forgive!!!!) but if i do same next time he will divorce me,and he cried and send me kiss by camera and said it fine...but...next day :( next day he back with his insulting words also for my family he said we are bitches family if we change wifes ;( and said he is going to judge to divorce :( and he said that he did this :( and that it cant be stopped ;( i dont know what to do :( i love him so much and i know he loves me too,he loves me im sure of this ;( but he has sick mind :( and is jealous without reason and if he make something in his mind none can make it out :( and now he believes that i betrayed him :( and he prefered to leave me then talk or repair... cuz he feels i make stain on his honour :( He talk to me,open camera for me...but fast he back to same talking that im guilty,that he divorced me and not want me :( We love eachother,how it can be ruined without reason??? ;( Can anybody help? How to talk with him?how to stop this divorcing process?:( he said yesterday if i want i can hire advocate and cuz only he can go to judge. And when i asked for what if u not want me?he said advocate can make this prosess longer and stop to talk again with my husband if he change mind or no. Is it true? and he said: "i will back u by conditions, if the judge will want hear me too with ur advocate " .( We didnt make contract when we married, we married without any conditions). I dont know if he really went to judge ( ithink it cost,but we dont have money...)or just want scare me... I dont know what to do,how to talk to him to hear me,to hear his heart and make out his things from his mind :( I love my husband, i never look to other or thought to be with other! I love him most,i can do all for him. Please anybody can help how to talk to him to make him believe me and stop this divorce :(? Submitting....
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