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5 yr-pain / Don't lose faith in GodReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by brokenhearted no more (Philippines), Feb 15, 2015 at 22:43 First of all, I am not a native english speaker, so please bear with me. I've been through the same situation. Met an egyptian man on 2010, I was naive, fell in love with mohamed. He was a liar and because I truly loved him I always justified his lies and forgave him eventhough he didn't ask for forgiveness. He was a pathological liar and I always were the one to beg him everytime we fight because I really wanted to work things out with him. He calls me names and told me I was stupid. He treated me badly, it frustrates me to write it because I couldn't describe how bad it was. I was blind and a fool and I believed that I should be a martyr for love . My health declined on those years I was in false relationship with him. On 2013 he got engaged with another girl(muslim) eventhough we were still on, he didn't give me any explanation and refused to talk to me. it hurts so bad, I am thankful I didn't commit suicide. I just got to know about his engagament through facebook, 2 weeks before that he told me he was going to work offshore so he could not talk to me on the following days. I was a fool for wasting my time and energy on him. He treated me badly but I tend to forget all of that once he tell me he loves me which was a big big lie. It's 2015 now but I sometimes still cry when I think of that betrayal he did to me. But I am thankful to God that he saved me from more pain and didn't let me fall on more pain in the hands of mohamed. I believe God permitted that thing to happen to me because he wanted me to know better. Now, I know better. Before I didn't even read the Bible and almost believe that muslim liar to deceive me about his religion. But on those three years of relationship with him my curiosity about religion grew and I got to know the real Islam and the real christianity. I know not all muslims are bad people but most of them are, they look at non-muslims as inferior to them, their values are different from us. As I say I am not completely healed yet but I am much better now than when I was in a relationship with him. If you are a christian, please read the Bible and understand that God is not Allah. Our God is a loving father, yes, I am aware of the Old Testament that God appeared to be cruel there but understand carefully and you'll see that the Jewish and Christian God is a god that works for a good purpose, he permits bad things to happen not to destroy us but to build us. Allah on the otherhand promotes injustice. Sorry if I seem to give you a church sermon but believe that those muslims act like that because of their values and their values came from islam. Last month, my ex and his fiancée broke their engagament. I am tempted to contact him, but no, I am not putting myself on another heartbreak and give him a chance to insult me and disrespect me more. I know better now. I was faithful to him but I was wrong to give my faithfulness to a man. I should have given it to God first. If ever I will love again, I'll still be faithful but I would make sure that it is for the right man. Don't lose your faith in God, you may not hear him, you may not feel him around, but he is around, and he is speaking on you through the experiences he is giving you not to destroy you but to teach you and build you. All those years I was in relationship with that man I always prayed to God every night to never let us be apart and protect our love. I prayed thousand times for me and mohamed to be forever and be faithful to each other, but God knows better. On my 23rd birthday on 2013, after days of not hearing anything from mohamed and him not remembering my birthday, I prayed to God differently, I prayed to God to free me from the pain I was feeling, I told him I trust him for my life and I will accept if he take mohamed away from me if it is his will, I ask him to give me strength to make it through. The next day, after the day of my birthday, mohamed got engaged with another woman, I know it was not God's fault, no, it wasn't my fault for praying that way. Mohamed had that in his mind even before I prayed for that. I knew God prepared me for a great heartbreak. God assured me that it is his will for me not to settle for a man like that. God put that prayer on my heart. We were hurt but we are fortunate that we didn't end up with that kind of men. So smile and give the love you had for him to God and to people who are there for you and to yourself. 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