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Turkish Men are not all bad men.Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Kellyh (United Kingdom), Jan 25, 2015 at 16:54 I have known my Turkish boyfriend for many years as we work not far from each other and when I ended my previous relationship I sort of shut off from men, but this man who I had known gor a while was a good friend and he just stood out from the crowd one day and noticed how lovely sweet thoughtful and caring his approach to me was. This went on for some time thinking he cant be interested in me as I was feeling low and fed uo, bare in mind he wasn't told anything about my brake down of a previous relationship. We went out for a drink one evening after talking snd exchanged mobile numbers, and I have not yet regretted it yet. He is a wonderful man caring thoughtful and very appreciated in his manner, he cant fo enough gor me and have had to say ti him I know its the turkish way looking after my every need, but he doesn't need to buy expensive presents gift etc, I am not eith him for what he has or hasn't got, I am with him because I want to be with him, I have never experienced anything like it in a relationship its fantastic and must say alway getting better. I have said for our relationship to work well we have to have comprises in the relationship a bit of the English and turkish way, it really does help if you want to be eith a turkish man lije I fo you have to imbrace the culture and work with him, learn the language which I have started to do with his help, leaning about the food which is so much better then English good. Understanding what he expects from you and vice versa, he has been very honest with me from the beginning of our relationship and vice versa. We have learned a lot from each other and I know he respects me and I respect him. We are planning a trip yo turkey to meet his mum and brother in Istanbul and I am very much looking forward to going to turkey as I have never been and skso yo see his family. My man is 4 years older which mskes no difference to me I am so lucky to have meer this sweet caring man who I adore care about eith all my heart, he feels that I have bought him luck as his x wife remarried and has not seen his daughter for 3 years and he said to me that ge loves me and misses me when we are not together, we have only been seeing esch other gor a few months but see ezch other everyday snd spend most of the weekends together apart ftom when I have my daughter and he sees his. We are getting closer and feeling getting deeper and I really like tgat when he talks about things he has included me in his plans for the future, really respect that, I am 47 this year and have two children aged 28 and 14 blue eyes and has recently highlighted my hair as he asked if I would consider have dome blonde put in it, I was going to do ut anyway do why not and if its pleases him aswell shows I am willing to do things, and he is 51 thus year been leaving and working in london gir oast 25 years and has a British passport as well as a turkish one he has a 14 year old daughter who he has just started to see again but has always maintained money for her keep to his xwife. I really hope that this relationship goes the full distance and I have been reading a lot of the messages on here abd all soubd very worrying. I am still keeping an ooen mind and nit lettings my heart rule my head and being careful but as my sexy man said to me one day there are lots of turkish men he knows that cheat in there wifes snd girlfriends and he can't stand yo watch this stupid behaviour, he said to me I am honest man whats mine is your if you wsnt money its on the table if you need my credit card yiu csn have it if you want yo use the car there you go just take ehat you need, as mist turkish me hide what they have and csn be very tight and treat women badly but I am nit one of them, with this and how things are going in our relationship I really respect his attitude but would not taje advantage of his generosity. I know I have put a lots on this message but there are some genuine turkish men who do want a proper relationship other than just using English women. He has made me feel so very special and love him for that and being a great man in my life Thanks for listening Kellyx Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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