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What middle east men think of womenReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Donna (United States), Sep 18, 2014 at 09:09 Having family, distant cousins in Jordan and having been cheated and lied to by the Palestinian man in Jordan I can tell you exactly what they think of all, not just white women, except arab women they call us barbie dolls(their term not mine), in the context of plastic and fake. They see all But arab women as they see in movies, easy , sexually promiscuous. They watch porn and think this is the perfect way to treat women. This is not just USA ,Australian,Canadian, European,Japanese, Phillipino and Indian women, they think this of all women outside their culture.I also know he once told me that men from his area of the middle east are more man than any other country and he truly believes he is perfection. He always told me muslim men treated women better than any other. Glad now that I researched. I have heard these men talking myself, this is why my family made me cover completely when there blonde/blue eyed to protect me. After knowing of all his cheating and lying,he was still unaware I knew at that time. I was on skype with him after over 3 weeks with pneumonia and this man was sweet talking me telling me how beautiful I was, My eyes ,face ,neck swollen, nose red and raw,and running and voice almost gone I looked like death warmed over, yet this sweet talker was saying I was beautiful, lady of his dreams hurry and come to him be his wife he was tired of living without me.I wanted so badly to ask him do you need glasses. When he got off he went straight to the one in Canada. She wrote me a message on skype while on with him he told her he had just that moment come in from the lab, how he could barely get through the day without constant thoughts of her. So I copied and pasted the exact same words he had written to me earlier. He got off with her in less than 10 min. telling her he had computer work to do at home. She then called my skype and told me that she would play this and here I will not write her description for approx 6 months before she disappeared. Then the lady from Indiana messaged us both he was online with her,she is one of the married ones," when was she coming to him to marry him"?,he was saying to that one the same he said to all of us. He stayed on with her 7 minutes. They all plan to play his game on him now, I just want him out of my life permanently.The man that outed him to me said he has about 43 photos on his computer of different girls all ages from 14 through 50s all countries and that he sees this as an achievement that makes him feel manly.This man also told me he does record those women that "play" with him online and shows all men he knows. I have never partaken of that behavior and never would have. With me he always talked family, future home, children, always told me even when we have babies remember he comes first always. When do these boys in men's bodies, middle aged he says he is 41 grow up or do they ever? I know not all muslim men are like him, good ones are not online playing, and he never asked me for any money but he did ask me about my houses and my finances. Today they said they are on face book I am not and never plan to be.I actually was playing an online game(Perfect World) when met him but would not skype with him for about a year at all. He was there constantly then so sweet , until he knew he had won me over.Then he( told me) not asked me to delete that game and that he was doing likewise and I was never to play there again and neither would he ever. He is still there, its where he picked up 8 of the females and the rest was facebook.This guy his words to me " I swear to you on my word as a MUSLIM I am not cheating on you and never would, I love you, just you and only you for life. Then the months of just a few minutes here and there because according to him working 14-16hrs day at the lab and on Fridays forced by his older brother to fix a computer program his older brother had created and failed at. He began during this period to talk harshly of his friends and some of his family members, immediate family almost as if jealous of his brothers. Then he began to put down USA, Canada and Australia. He works in a lab daily working with pregnant women yet he didnt know that the man not the woman determined the gender of a child (about 8th grade biology). Does he even really work in a lab? How old is he really?Never saw anything with his name on it? If ever serious why didnt he show these things. Why did I just take his word for everthing when he had to see with me? Be careful ladies he rings my phone constantly but has nothing to do with love I am just the only one they say to leave him instead of the other way around, the lady from Canada said he is soooo different since April 1st, angry says he doesnt say it but is easy to read in him. Also none of them was given his home number or his cell phone he did give these to me. He told them he had lost his and had not replaced it yet, rings my house phone every day from it. I do not and will not answer. I don't understand what does he get from these actions? What can a 41yr old man possibly have in common with underage girls. What could he possibly talk to them about, their jr high school, school day? Ladies the good muslim men aren't online unless business, the ones on with all of us are just like the one that proclaimed love to me. Each of us feel, dream, fear, achieve and fail but we deserve to be respected, loved, and treated with simple basic human rights not like we are toys for scammers like this. Each of us are different not to be classed together as barbie dolls, each so unique and beautiful in our own way. BUT BY NO MEANS DID I LOOK BEAUTIFUL WITH PNEUMONIA AS HE SAID I DID. Lets watch those words spoken to us always, watch eye contact when things are said or if they look away. What real man would say he came before his own children? Submitting....
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