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I am so scared for my daughterReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Renae (Australia), Aug 15, 2014 at 20:17 My eldest daughter is dating a muslim, and he has already created a huge problem with my daughters very close relationships including me and our family and has seperated us. He openly lied to me and has made power plays and each time he says to my daughter that he never meant anything by this, and we are misunderstanding him and making him look bad, etc. My daughter didnt tell me at first that she was dating him because she said as I work with women who have sifered from domestic Violence and who have been sexually assaulted I would be racist against his region (Muslim). I have first hand experience at sexual and physical violence perpetrated against women from different men of different believe, but I will say that the most violent I have seen over the past few years and the most horrendous way in which treats women less than animals and men who have stated that women are less than dogs and that are our Mulsim clients and their husbands, and families. Having women believe that after their rape it is their fault because they made the men beat and violate them. Women have a right to be safe and happy, just as men do all over the world irespective of race or religion. This is a basic HUMAN RIGHT. A few months ago I met the boyfriend for the first time since the beginning of their courtship of 7 months and he seemed so very nice and silver tongued. He ran into me at the supermarlet one week later and said he would love to help me shop. I had explained that I was planning a special surprise family dinner that I was buying things for the dinner just for my daughters and I and I told him all about how excited I was and how much the girls like this sort of thing. When we finished shopping and he walked me to my car and hugged me I left and proceeded to drive home. When I walked in with the groceries my daughter was in the bathroom getting ready to go out, I asked her what she was doing and she stated that her bf 'Rami' had just called her and made dinner reservations at her favourite restaurant to surprise her. I said to her that I had just ran into him and the shops and I had planed a nice surprise dinner and movie night for just us girls and that I had told him what I had planned. She said that it was a misunderstanding and she called him, he said I didnt say this and it she didnt want to go as I must not want her to go out with him. I denied this as it was a blatant lie and said she could do whatevere she wanted but to remember that I loved her and that she was my daughter. After this he kept saying and doing things with my daughter and now she is staying with him 4-5 nights per week and she hardly talks to me and is hardly home. She is distance as well fomr her sisters and her niece. I dont know what to do as he is controlling her, what she says, does and even ddtating what she can and cannot eat. I dont know what to do and and desperate to get my daughter back before they get married, He is pushing so hard to get married and become part of his family. She is with them this week and at his sisters wedding. Please I need some help. Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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