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My storyReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Feeling foolish (United Kingdom), Aug 13, 2014 at 14:44 Well here goes........ My story began just over 18 months ago I met an Egyptian man here in London and fell straight for his charms within a few months he said he had chosen to return to Egypt, but I later found out that he had been told he had to leave as his visa had not been renewed. He invited me to go over a few weeks later which I did but when I arrived he was nowhere to be found he finally surfaced 2 days later all smiles ummm...... I stayed the week and left with some beautiful memories along with some hurt at how I was treated to begin with. He asked me to return and he wanted us to live together with my son and go into business together he said he would pay for the flat and we would build the business together I took my half of the money £10000 and he said he had his half. When I got there he took my passport and the money. Great big red flag... I tried to make the best of this feeling but after 2 weeks we were asked to leave the flat as he had not paid for it they gave us 24 hours notice we had nowhere to go, he then turned it on me and said it was all my fault that I was negative and he wanted out. Then came the violence towards me and the aggression was something I had never believed possible from any human being. I had nothing so I made him with the help of his friend who was very good to us to give me some money book us a flight home and put us up in a hotel until we could leave. He was so cold it was like he had switched a switch and everything was turned around to be my fault. I left feeling completely broken and destroyed I felt I couldn't breath , eat, sleep or think straight. We come home and then after a month he comes back trying to sweet talk me then he comes out saying he needs £5000 as he has nothing ......... I said NO NO NO I then found out I was pregnant and he wanted rid calling me a bitch a liar ....... I have returned to Egypt many times since as I will not be shut out of somewhere I love. I thankfully have not heard from him since December 2013 but I know he try's tracks my movements through mutual friends. I hope I never ever hear from him again. Then comes the next part ...... When I went to Egypt in February and I had a great week with my son. When I was there another Egyptian man made a play for me I know what u r thinking but he was lovely towards me and I was due to return 4 weeks later for my last trip before the baby was due. This guy said he wanted to spend time with me and my son when we returned and arranged a villa for us all I said was I could not afford very much and he just said don't worry it will be fine. He even offered to take the child as his own as he knew the father had left us high and dry. When we arrived he collected us from the airport and took us to the hotel where we were staying until we left for the villa 2 days later we left for hurgharda we spent a great week there then we went to Luxor where we stayed in his friends hotel and had the most beautiful time. He took us to meet his family and we visited them for meals and even took his mum to the doctors together and they were lovely to us. I then returned home to have the baby sadly the baby had huge complications and didn't make it he was amazing to me through out all of this but obviously he could only manage that via calls and texts. After the drama was over he asked me to return which I did for 4 weeks not all as smooth as the time before. Now I have explained the history these are my concerns. 1; although he arranged the villa I paid for 90% of everything else. 2: I came across a Facebook message on his timeline 2 days after being together in the villa from an Egyptian girl saying she loves him and cannot live without him, when challenged he said he didn't know her but I have since discovered he in fact does know her as I asked a mutual friend about her but thought he could get away with lying to me about it ummmm....... 3; he has also lied to me about past relationships and saying they were one night stands when clearly he has history with these women it's all over his Facebook 4; we have taken a flat together but I have paid for everything. 5; I uncovered on his phone pornographic material which he lied to my face stating that it wasn't him but it was only him and I using his phone. 6; he also deleted message from an Egyptian woman and when challenged he said it was his sister in law... If so why delete them ???? 7; he is trying to get me to get money out of my ex husband for our future as I got much less from my divorce than my husband is worth. 8: he has only worked 3 weeks in the past 4 months....... 4 weeks ago he found out that i had been asking people about his past and unearthing the extent of his inability to tell the truth, for this I was put I. The corner for a week and he hardly spoke to me but then I saw he had a lovely new Italian girl on his facebook who put on his timeline how much he would miss him. I had a conversation with him where he basically said what I had shared with him a total of £7,000 so far is not enough we need more to grow... I have stopped sending any money to him since this. I know some of you are thinking what an idiot this woman is but I am building it up ready to fire but would appreciate other peoples advice on how to play the game next. I need to be very clever here and collect everything that's owed to me . Any advice would be appreciated. Submitting....
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