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Temporary marriages are obscenely hypocritical

Reader comment on item: Misyar – Temporary Marriage in Sunni Islam
in response to reader comment: from a girl's perspective

Submitted by Metha (United States), Oct 30, 2008 at 10:17

This practice is religious hyporcrisy in the highest form. It allows muslims to practice fornication the same as Americans, but without the fabricated religious bubble of protection so that men can feel absolved of the act of fornicating. It is very convenient to be able to wave a magic wand....no priest or minister marries the couple. The man just says " Hey, were married, lets have sex now."

My caucasian sister just allowed this travesty to happen...and it is a perversion of the sanctity and institute of marriage. SHE IS NOT MARRIED IN GODS EYES. She is simply allowing him to fornicate with her, and he is magically still "holy", somewhow, but SHE is not. He gets whatever he wants, whenever he wants and ends it whenever he wants. What does the woman get. She gets to be a a pleasure recepticle??? how nice for you men? Interesting that a MAN came up with this practice...a woman never would...as she gets the short end of the stick.

I do not care what you tell yourselves. You are fornicating. There is no marriage, without a religious minister and witnesses presiding AND without a LEGAL piece of paper saying that in the eyes of the state you are married. It is FALSE. And the inane practice has soiled my sister in the process as well.

Just because a person spins around three times and click their heels together, does not make them married. Also, if his parents knew that this muslim man enetered into a temp marriage with an American girl? Yeah...he also watches porn all the time.....but I guess the praying 5 times a day allows him to continue to watch porn. FYI: I heard ALOT OF MUSLIM MALES LOOK AT PORNOGRAPHY.

Submitting....

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Islamic Nikah [1650 words]
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Mohammad AsgharMay 17, 2022 17:59281384
Judging Misyar-nikah with modern non-Islamic standards [187 words]PrashantMay 19, 2022 18:36281384
1Islamic laws (and apologies for the laws) warp a reader's mind and what Muslims can do about them. [554 words]PrashantMay 20, 2022 04:47281384
1Good Observation About Why Islamic Approach to Marriage is Its Own Reason for Complicating Married Life [55 words]M ToveyMay 20, 2022 19:24281384
2RE: Astonishing documentary about Muta Marriage revealing shocking truths, often suppressed in the mainstream [282 words]ali mohamadSep 26, 2013 14:00210065
Single, independent women can propose and keep Misyar or Muta relationship. [620 words]KKJun 22, 2012 14:58196532
2Misyar [197 words]muslimfellowDec 7, 2011 02:49191504
MISYAR MARRIAGE - WHY OBJECT [44 words]universal interfaceOct 2, 2009 08:04162455
1temporary marriage is sin [141 words]sajjad aliApr 30, 2009 03:55154711
understand the islam [51 words]RazaJul 1, 2010 08:02154711
2Oh sure. Read about Islam (1) [186 words]TedJul 7, 2010 03:16154711
2Read About Islam (2) [115 words]TedJul 7, 2010 03:22154711
Temporary Marriage in Islam [149 words]Khurram JafriNov 25, 2010 16:03154711
3Islamic Mut3a marriage read and laugh [350 words]dhimmi no moreNov 26, 2010 08:51154711
dont mix misyar is not temporary marriage [211 words]hameedJan 5, 2009 06:19146958
1Misyar is bogus [13 words]MehjabeenJan 12, 2010 14:47146958
from a girl's perspective [374 words]khadijahSep 23, 2008 00:46139045
1Temporary marriages are obscenely hypocritical [291 words]MethaOct 30, 2008 10:17139045
Invitation for those who need to know truth [173 words]ManzarAug 21, 2009 13:14139045
From: Posh Smith [764 words]Toshawb L. WilsonDec 12, 2011 01:30139045
IT IS MEETING DEMAND OF LUST [52 words]M.H.SHARIFJul 9, 2008 12:38134712
1Men taking the lower road [33 words]NajmaJun 10, 2008 15:32131678
YOU CANT BLAME A RELIGION by it followers [62 words]AhmedApr 19, 2008 13:54126188
3Misyar is HARAM for Sunni !!! [69 words]AminaApr 8, 2008 07:43125047
Wrong as early as the the title - Misyar IS NOT a temporary mariage [46 words]
w/response from Daniel Pipes
QuasarFeb 2, 2008 18:57119471
2Pathetic.. [73 words]DONVANOct 16, 2007 15:36111617
2lack of knowledge [89 words]AdilSep 7, 2011 04:49111617
missyar marriage [8 words]batlaApr 26, 2007 05:3490701
Halal or Haram [46 words]Bayu SetiaJan 31, 2007 21:1575346
1it doesn't matter... [61 words]donvanOct 18, 2007 14:1675346
'misyar' marriage halal [29 words]Abu ZohaNov 16, 2007 04:0375346
why not [10 words]aliMay 6, 2008 03:5075346
To Donavan [76 words]AdilSep 27, 2011 10:1675346
say again?? [47 words]donvanSep 27, 2011 20:5975346
1Does Islam teaches Muta'a or Misyar ?? [234 words]KhatibAug 2, 2006 09:2351508
we should clean the nonsense [43 words]syed ali kazimJul 24, 2007 05:0151508
1Prove it [83 words]No DhimmiOct 16, 2007 21:2651508
4Nonsense... [90 words]donvanOct 17, 2007 10:4651508
1please read it carefully [421 words]Muhammad Taufiq Sheikh (Pakistan)Nov 21, 2007 05:3451508
1Misiyar marriage [287 words]ThiaganOct 15, 2008 08:3551508
1temporary marriage [34 words]JOHN T DYSONOct 27, 2008 09:1651508
subhan allah [47 words]mohammed ibrar ali (u.k)Jan 29, 2009 21:0551508
concept of muta and nakka [103 words]khawarNov 3, 2009 07:3251508
Mutta Reply [285 words]NadeemDec 27, 2009 02:1251508
Natural human desire [41 words]Virgo2010Mar 10, 2010 13:4451508
Errors in Quran [42 words]AdilSep 27, 2011 10:3251508

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