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Passive Aggressive Amateur Psychologist

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Submitted by Natalia (United States), Dec 16, 2019 at 05:12

Not going to respond directly

SO YOU WOULD RATHER BE PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE? TYPICAL TRAIT OF THE NARCISSIST WHO USED YOU.

to the armchair psychologist cum schizotypal psychopath

SO ADVISING WOMEN TO ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR ALLOWING THEMSELVES TO BE USED IS PSYCHOPATHY. I SEE.

but if we're talking psychology you will see that humans are by nature very trusting.To trust is a very human trait and it in no way points to mental illness.

IT MAY VERY WELL POINT TO MENTAL ILLNESS, OR LOW SELF-ESTEEM, OR - DUE TO THE AGE OF MOST OF THE WOMEN HERE, AND THE LEVEL OF ABUSE THEY HAVE TOLERATED FROM THESE MEN, IT'S PROBABLE MOST OF THEM HAVE BEEN VICTIMS OF PRIOR OR EVEN LIFE LONG ABUSE - THAT REQUIRES MENTAL HEALTH COUNSELING.

We trust politicians when they're full of sh*t because we as a race have limited options. We trust pilots not to crash the plane into the middle of the sea. No one and I mean no one knows what's going on in another person's head. As of now, no one can confirm whether heaven exists or not and what it looks like (besides some spice-smoking hippie on an Asian island perhaps). Women - and men - lay up next to their spouses for decades wishing they were with someone else. Truth is, nothing is certain and the best anyone can do is educate and protect themselves. Protect yourself too much and trust me you'll become a hermit. It's dog eat dog out there.

STILL MAKING EXCUSES...NOT HELPING ANYONE.

Quite simply, having emotion makes us... in a word... human.

BUT ALLOWING YOUR EMOTIONS TO OVERRIDE LOGIC, AND ULTIMATELY BRING HARM UPON ONE'S SELF - CAN BE DETRIMENTAL (SEE STORIES HERE).

A lot of regular people (I mean ones that aren't psychopathic) do think with their hearts

IMPOSSIBLE. YOU FEEL W/ YOUR HEART, YOU THINK W/ YOUR BRAIN. AMAZING HOW MOST WOMEN STILL DO NOT GET THIS. MYERS BRIGGS IS RIGHT...

The very fact that he/she/it

PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE, HIDDEN ANGER B/C OF YOUR COGNITIVE DISSONANCE MAKES IT TOO PAINFUL TO ADMIT I'M RIGHT & IT'S ULTIMATELY YOUR FAULT FOR BEING USED BY A MAN.

is now accusing us of having mental health issues confirms my beliefs that it's indeed a sociopath that's now attempting to GASLIGHT us.

MOST OF THE WOMEN HERE HAVE LOW SELF-ESTEEM, SOME WERE/ARE HOMELESS, & I WILL BET MANY HAVE BEEN VICTIMS OF PRIOR OR LIFE LONG ABUSE - THAT REQUIRES MENTAL HEALTH COUNSELING. GAS LIGHTING IS WHEN A PERSON MAKES A SANE PERSON QUESTION THEIR OWN SANITY AND OR MENTAL HEALTH - MANY OF THE WOMEN HERE DO NEED TO QUESTION THEIR MENTAL HEALTH.

This personality is psychopathic and they are known for being emotional vampires, which is why I'm choosing not to respond to it. He/she may not even be aware of the fact, in which case I'm sure this blog has been enlightening, and hopefully will give that extra push to seek help. Baby steps... ;-)

I SUGGEST YOU BABY STEP YOUR WAY TO LEARNING TO BE A SELF AWARE, RESPONSIBLE, DIRECT NOT INDIRECT ADULT WOMAN. AND ACKNOWLEDGE THE PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR YOU ENGAGE IN HERE, IS A TRAIT OF THE NARCISSIST WHO USED YOU.

think about it

Submitting....

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