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Leave him,Lauren!

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Submitted by Lana(USA) (United States), Nov 7, 2019 at 23:29

Hello Lauren

It is great that you are using your head and thinking clearly.
Just leave him-this is a dead end road.
He does not cares about you, as a person, and with time-the more you got sucked in and fall more and more in love, the more manipulative he will become.
He is playing mental games with you:"closer-farther"-he is love-bombing you, then-becomes cold and distant,it is a technique that most manipulators use in order to attach you to him and then-get what he wants/needs from you.
All MENA men are like that.

Do not waste your time and effort,leave him for his compatriot ladies to figure him out .

Here is my story:
I could not figure this out myself either,for quite a while....Red a lot of articles on Narcissism,and was trying to figure out of how come that behaving so bad -makes us ,ladies,to stick with them and ignore all those red flags of their disrespect to our feelings and needs...and then it hit me :
As soon as they figure out our weaknesses,they try to feed us with their sweet talk and tell us what we want to hear.
But then-their actions do not match their words -and this makes our heads to spin around, validating our own sanity: "If it feels so good to be around him,then why it feels so bad ,when he is not treating us with respect and his actions do not follow his words ?"
Then-"if it feels so bad to be affected by his bad behavior, rude comments ,and disrespect- why are we still together? Why it is so hard to get out of this dead end relationship?" Doesn't make any sense!!!And this whirlwind goes on and on in your head ,making you feel miserable and more involved, thinking of him and trying to figure him out.(Congratulations-you are now brainwashed!)
That is when the manipulation starts!
As soon as they put those "hooks " in your mind, they are sure that they have you attached emotionally and entitled to do with you whatever they please, using the silent treatment in alternation with sweet talk and affection-just to get what they want from you THEIR WAY, not yours,completely ignoring what you feel like or what your needs are. This dissonance between his words and his actions/ his behavior makes you feel miserable, but somehow addicted to him.

Once it was very snowy day ,it was beautiful!!!
We had a heavy snowfall but very slow one.
The snow was pouring in large chunks and setting on a tree branches,it was sunny and looked like everything was glowing,it was dreamy and amazing outside....and he asked me with his sweet talk to come and see him ,using all those romantic words,saying how beautiful the snow is and how nice it would be to have someone as beautiful and as soft ,to have near now ,and how much he misses me...etc.
The roads were bad and I had my car spinning on my way to him...but I was able to make it safe home ,praying for my safety all the way...we saw each other...had a good time...it felt like Paradise,but.....when I left his place,he never bothered to check ,if I made it home safely ,or if I am ok.
He SIMPLY DID NOT CARE AT ALL!!!
Caring for someone besides himself was not in his plans.It did not click in his selfish brain ,that at least,he should pretend to be polite and call or text me -to see if I made it safe home.Not even that....
That showed me a lot about him and his true intentions.
Guess what?
He was dare enough to call me a few days later saying how bad he missed me(more likely because it did not work out with one of his other multiple girls,he has in his pocket ,and rotates time to time to see who is available )and how nice it would be to have us -him and me,together again.
But I made up my mind and said to myself:"you lost me in a snowstorm"...
I opened the door and looked at him foe one last time,and then-I made my very first step into a brand new sunny,white shiny day!
The day without him...the life without him!
Into a white day, like an unwritten new page of my life. I felt like a bag of bricks fell off my shoulders.
It was a point of no return, after which he no longer existed to me!!!

Blocked him everywhere I could, chopped off my waist long black hair, he used to like, and brush with his fingers,changed the color of it ,and trashed all the clothes, I used to wear while with him,got myself a new car, wiping him completely off my life like he never existed!!!!
I lived somehow without him, before we met and I will live just fine after-without him!!!!
I changed a lot!
He may not recognize me if we accidentally bump into each other on the street!!!
How stupid and naive it was for me to believe that I am the "only one " he has! How naive are those other girls ,believing that they are "the one " for him!!!!Do not they smell my perfume in his bed or don't they see my hair on his pillows,or my hair pins in his place. Do not they feel that he has "another woman",don't they guess it by the way he behaves around them?
Looking at his phone all the time, every 15 minutes,as if he expects call or a text,he does not wants you to know about ,covering it from you so that you can not see the details?
Or asking you for how long are you staying ,as if he was afraid that the other lady may walk in when you are still there???? Disgusting !!!!
It is important to stand up for our values,no matter what, and do not accept disrespectful behavior by any means.
"Modest man",indeed!!!(That is how he is known among his friends and relatives.) He needs a crowd to boost his ego ,or to bring you down, so that he can feel better about himself.
Because in reality he is a LOSER-the fact that he hides even from himself.
Those boys need to learn that there are plenty of the other good,decent and caring men out there, and they -are not the last men in the world to cling to.
The reason they do it-is to remind you about him as soon as you started to mend yourself, and to see if you still into him.
Like nothing happened.It is another way to manipulate you and your emotions.Because he does not care if you hurt or not,as to him you are only an object with no feelings and if you have something that he may benefit from,he will try to take advantage of you again one way or another.
No he did not change!Trust me!
PLEASE STAY NO CONTACT,EVEN IF IT HURTS AS HELL ,AND FEELS LIKE YOU ARE GOING TO FALL APART-YOU WILL NOT!!!!
He wants to have you back just to use you again ,and then -dump you,to show that he is in charge of when to break up this so-called "relationship" and it is his decision,not yours!
SO BETTER BE THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY,than one who got dumped.
I wrote it in my posts earlier, that mine did contacted me again,he even dared to mention God, and wanted to hoover me back,saying of how much he missed me and that he went to his country and brought me a present,and so on....I did not bother to respond,so that the next day he wrote:"Dismissed".(Like I ever care at all))))For him-option "second chance"-was successfully disabled!))) He was dismisses a while ago,like he never,ever existed.
Too bad we can not write in front of our hearts"please wipe your feet" before you enter it,like some rugs say at the house entrance. So we should not let someone lousy to crawl back into our life again.
And that showed me how "much he missed me and loved me".He did not realized that I dismissed him a while ago and is laughing at his so predictable and immature manipulative behavior.
Love is a verb,it is a will to give and not to take from the loved one.
If you do not see it in his actions and not words then he is an illusion in your head of how things could be but never was,and-trust me-never will be. So-let go of this illusion and move on.
Let that clown out of your life,let him perform for somebody else.
Stay strong and if you are writing the story of your life,do not ever let anybody else to hold your pen,or dictate of how it should be!!!
Make yourself your priority,splurge some money on new wardrobe,go to spa or travel to a new place,read some good books,learn new skill(painting for instance),respect yourself and guard yourself from those losers,and never settle for less,stand up for your values no matter who it is.We do not need anyone's approval to be ourselves.We are perfect the way we are ,"God makes no mistakes ".)
I think that some people were sent our way to teach us something about ourselves and to become a better person with clear boundaries and core values,and with clear knowledge of what we are looking for in a relationship.
Sorry,did not mean to vent here, but...
Yes, he still tries every which way he can,t o get my attention,"dancing on a wire" even after I blocked him everywhere,this weasel still manages to change his phone number to contact me. He dared to text me that he was in his country and came back, he remembered me and brought me a decoration, so that I have to come to see him to pick it up. Really????Not even planning ahead for a date at certain time at certain place in advance,but just saying" here is my number,you can call when you can."
Really????
Do I have to ???? And then I ask myself-what for?So he can use me again??
Did he bring anything good to my life?-NO.
Did he made any effort to earn my trust or to know me better as a person?-NO!
Did he make any effort to prove that he is serious about me?-NO!!!
Do I want to spend my old age, guessing if he will cheat on me, or as soon as I got sick, fat or ugly with age, circumstances and time-he will drop me for someone better?-NO!!!
Did I get any respect ? NO!!!
So why in the hell I would want to have someone around,
when I would have to question every single word or action of him???
When I needed help-he was always busy.
I was freezing in my car in a winter having flat tire, asking for help...
I was sick,he never called to find out of how I feel,or wished me to get well soon, but demanded to see me as soon as I am better (???)
Could he, at least once, try to be polite?-NO.His crown will fall off!!!
I can do better without him!

P.S.What is past is past...Fall with it's falling leaves teaches us to let go of something that is dead,so that something new will have a place to come and stay.
Just like the dead leaves falling off the tree branches, so that the new ones will grow in Spring.....

I am VERY happily married now- to a wonderful, caring and genuine man from my own culture!!!! So the "last laugh"- IS ON ME.

Hope that helps!!!
Stay strong and stand your grounds!!!

Hugs
Lana

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5YES NATALIE SUFFERED EXTREME MENTAL ILLNESS RAY [214 words]jessica (canada)Dec 23, 2019 19:05256704
5WHO HAVE THE TIME ONLY A POOR LONELY SOUL [76 words]JessicaDec 24, 2019 00:20256704
45Robin - Fascinating Stories on This Forum & I Wish You All Well - But Denial & Hypocrisy Rampant Among Many Users Here [242 words]NataliaDec 20, 2019 19:49256703
2I Hope This Helps Someone [23 words]RobinDec 20, 2019 10:47256691
15The ideal woman [366 words]LinaDec 20, 2019 19:37256691
20Muslim Indonesian culture [424 words]Jo WaDec 23, 2019 14:47256691
9Seasons greetings [42 words]LinaDec 23, 2019 17:20256691
4Agree Lina [152 words]SheilaDec 29, 2019 13:47256691
8Chelsea [311 words]NataliaDec 19, 2019 17:15256677
8NATALIE..THIS IS YOUR ANSWER AGAIN [169 words]JessicaDec 21, 2019 01:39256677
9JESSICA [403 words]NataliaDec 19, 2019 17:02256674
6LEAR HOW TO READ NATALIE. GO BACK TO SCHOOL [207 words]jessica (canada)Dec 20, 2019 18:38256674
3REPLIES TO NATALIE [196 words]jessica (canada)Dec 20, 2019 19:05256674
5Falsely assumption Natalie troll [230 words]JessicaDec 21, 2019 01:25256674
22OH NATALIE [380 words]jessica (canada)Dec 21, 2019 13:21256674
7GO BACK TO YOUR FIRST AND SECOND POSTS NATALIE [207 words]jessica (canada)Dec 21, 2019 13:36256674
5I WILL ANSWER YOU AGAIN NATALIE [158 words]jessica (canada)Dec 21, 2019 14:07256674
6Lana [314 words]NataliaDec 19, 2019 17:01256673
15Hey Guys [184 words]RobinDec 18, 2019 16:47256651
6Nice Try Robin But - [55 words]NataliaDec 19, 2019 17:22256651
7I learned a lot from Robert and you are right. [21 words]ChelseaDec 19, 2019 17:32256651
5REPLIES 2 [340 words]NATALIADec 18, 2019 16:44256650
2YOU STILL DIDNT ANSWER ME. [170 words]jessica (canada)Dec 19, 2019 18:27256650
5REPLIES [403 words]NATALIADec 18, 2019 03:06256640
9Arguing with insane person- is going down to her level! [272 words]Lana (USA)Dec 19, 2019 06:20256640
10I'm going to answer you [263 words]JessicaDec 19, 2019 08:21256640
11Petty cat fights [24 words]AnnieDec 20, 2019 08:17256640
6EXACTLY ANNIE [75 words]jessica (canada)Dec 20, 2019 18:12256640
6ALL OF YOU [429 words]NataliaDec 17, 2019 16:14256619
12Arguing with insane person-is like spitting against the wind! [55 words]RAYDec 18, 2019 17:07256619
3LEARN HOW TO READ AGAIN NATALIE TROLL [69 words]jessica (canada)Dec 18, 2019 18:53256619
11I changed my mind about leaving because you are so entertaining [338 words]ChelseaDec 18, 2019 19:33256619
4Ad Hominem Attack [92 words]NataliaDec 19, 2019 20:16256619
2OH NATALIE [63 words]jessica (canada)Dec 20, 2019 18:30256619
7Pakistani man [407 words]MariDec 16, 2019 11:36256584
14Best to leave that [219 words]ChelseaDec 16, 2019 16:46256584
4Pakistani men [116 words]LinaDec 17, 2019 17:57256584
4Pakistan [31 words]Jo WaDec 18, 2019 16:10256584
6Lies [198 words]MariDec 27, 2019 21:27256584
5Chelsea [111 words]MariDec 27, 2019 21:37256584
3Google [120 words]MariDec 27, 2019 21:41256584
5Your family is right Mari [130 words]JessicaDec 29, 2019 20:25256584
4Kick Him to the Curb [114 words]RobinDec 30, 2019 16:36256584
3Pakistani man [71 words]MariDec 16, 2019 11:25256583
8Dont waste your time [180 words]jessica (canada)Dec 16, 2019 19:14256583
4Illusions [153 words]MariDec 27, 2019 21:32256583
2Uncertainty with Pakistani Man [51 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiJan 5, 2020 21:15256583
19Best wishes to all this season... [234 words]ChelseaDec 16, 2019 09:38256582
7Thank you, Chelsea [70 words]RobinDec 16, 2019 14:47256582
8Chelsea,sorry to see you leaving !!! [53 words]Lana(USA)Dec 16, 2019 17:16256582
10Onwards and up [185 words]LinaDec 16, 2019 19:31256582
2Very Interesting and Informative [26 words]RobinDec 18, 2019 11:40256582
4Lina - Incorrect Comment [186 words]NataliaDec 23, 2019 11:15256582
7Hi Chelsea [112 words]SheilaDec 29, 2019 13:35256582
4Hey Shelia [67 words]ChelseaJan 1, 2020 17:44256582
5Passive Aggressive Amateur Psychologist [541 words]NataliaDec 16, 2019 05:12256581
20A DAMAGE PERSON (POOR LONELY SOUL) [514 words]JessicaDec 16, 2019 23:57256581
8Answer me poor old lonely soul [319 words]JessicaDec 17, 2019 23:37256581
5mental health couseling NATALIE [338 words]jessica (canada)Dec 18, 2019 19:35256581
156It's Been Almost a Month - [351 words]NataliaDec 13, 2019 09:57256492
26Answering Natalia [195 words]RobinDec 14, 2019 11:41256492
21Oh Lord !!Natalia [112 words]LillyDec 14, 2019 15:21256492
38Myers Briggs testing - McClatchy News [152 words]ChelseaDec 15, 2019 11:47256492
4Not Quite... [174 words]NataliaDec 15, 2019 16:16256492
4Read Much? [168 words]NataliaDec 15, 2019 16:19256492
4Answering Robin [240 words]NataliaDec 15, 2019 16:26256492
84 words [47 words]JessicaDec 15, 2019 20:52256492
11Response to Lilly [109 words]JessicaDec 15, 2019 21:14256492
24Natalia's verbal diarrhea, constipated mind !!! [277 words]Lana(USA)Dec 15, 2019 23:32256492
11Good..very good..if it keeps those rats away. .I will keep on cussing [36 words]ChelseaDec 16, 2019 14:26256492
3Lanausa [291 words]NataliaDec 16, 2019 14:45256492
9The second amendment??? [44 words]ChelseaDec 16, 2019 14:52256492
12Did you see it Robin?? Jowatalia's MAJOR mistake in the response to you. [256 words]ChelseaDec 16, 2019 16:26256492
6Natalia [41 words]RobinDec 16, 2019 17:00256492
4Well said Robin [51 words]jessica (canada)Dec 16, 2019 17:49256492
6ARENT YOU AMERICAN WOMAN [95 words]jessica (canada)Dec 16, 2019 17:55256492
8Excellent advice Jowatalia Excellent!! [50 words]ChelseaDec 16, 2019 18:12256492
9This is the bahavour of Narcissists/Psychopath/Sociopath [265 words]jessica (canada)Dec 16, 2019 18:21256492
8Another Unanswered Question [27 words]RobinDec 16, 2019 20:28256492
7I'm Sorry, Natalia :( [86 words]RobinDec 17, 2019 10:39256492
18You made me laugh!!! [106 words]Lana(USA)Dec 17, 2019 14:30256492
4Good Catch, Chelsea [376 words]RobinDec 17, 2019 16:42256492
4The answers [15 words]JessicaDec 17, 2019 21:17256492
2Amen [2 words]JessicaDec 17, 2019 21:24256492
12Narcissistic [18 words]TerriDec 18, 2019 02:27256492
6THAT'S RIGHT TERRI [64 words]jessica (canada)Dec 18, 2019 19:10256492
4Right Over Your Head [147 words]NataliaDec 19, 2019 11:08256492
4Right Over Your Head [251 words]NataliaDec 19, 2019 11:44256492
3ISNT IT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT YOURSELF [134 words]NATALIEDec 21, 2019 14:15256492
2RESPONSE TO NATALIE/JESSICA (CANADA) (SAME PERSON) [172 words]NataliaDec 22, 2019 17:26256492
3Narcissistic Reply/Terri [57 words]NataliaDec 23, 2019 15:37256492
1Natalie United states/Natalie Canada is the same person now that I realized [497 words]JessicaDec 23, 2019 23:34256492
2THIS IS JESSICA NOT NATALIE I JUST SEE IT NOW THE NAME BEEN A MISTAKE [109 words]JessicaDec 23, 2019 23:54256492
8Confused [369 words]LouDec 13, 2019 08:12256490
8Answer to Lou [167 words]RobinDec 14, 2019 12:02256490
Huh? [41 words]MilliDec 14, 2019 16:05256490
4You Should - [54 words]NataliaDec 15, 2019 20:24256490
2To milli [76 words]LouDec 19, 2019 08:00256490
2Go get mental health counseling [46 words]JessicaDec 20, 2019 22:32256490
6Jo Wa, Response [82 words]NataliaDec 10, 2019 20:27256445
6Another Helpful Article, If You're Interested [34 words]RobinDec 6, 2019 11:01256372
19Interesting text and also... [142 words]LinaDec 6, 2019 16:39256372
16Armchair psychologist [366 words]LinaDec 14, 2019 07:29256372
6Milli could be the sane person as Natalie [19 words]JessicaDec 15, 2019 20:28256372
6You are right Jessica. This forum is screwed [73 words]ChelseaDec 16, 2019 15:57256372
4Islam [331 words]NataliaDec 6, 2019 10:55256371
14Natalia [45 words]AnnieDec 6, 2019 17:00256371
8Natalia (I forgot to mention) [16 words]AnnieDec 6, 2019 17:02256371

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