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HELP! Engaged to a Moroccan

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Submitted by DIDI (Morocco), May 27, 2019 at 00:02

Ok, so while searching for advice on Moroccan men, I came across this site. And reading all of the tragic stories now has me suspicious.. which I should've been anyway, but never would have imagined how deep this ran. NOW, I'm confused and need advice.

Ok, so I'm an American, early 30s. Was on vacation in Europe when I met a Moroccan guy in Italy. Of course, hit it off, they are so gorgeous! He doesn't speak English, luckily we both speak some Italian. So, we exchanged numbers and talked. He initially didn't know I was American, I didn't share this right away. Honestly I didn't realize he wasn't European as he has a very fair complexion. He of course laid on the charm heavily, we chatted while I was there. I broke the news a week later I was leaving and that I was actually American. He broke it off saying he was looking for someone local and doubt his family would approve of an American, this is when he advised me of him being Moroccan, Arabic, and Muslim.

I accepted, got back to the US. but couldn't stop thinking about him. So I called him and asked why he had turned me down just bc I was an American. He explained culture differences, perceptions of Americans, etc. I said we should at least try bc things were going well, my family isn't racist, and love could conquer all. He said he'd talk it over with his family and if they were ok, we could continue. Of course a couple days later, he called and said family would like to eventually meet me, but was ok with the relationship.

So we chatted by video. He called me all the time, even when he was at work. I fell head over feet! Then he loss his job. Again, he called it off saying a man with no job isn't worth marrying. Me being me, called the next day saying I was still interested. Yes I know, stupid of me. He explained he was an illegal immigrant and was not likely to find work so easily. He said I was better off moving on and he was better off searching for a European lady to marry so he wouldn't be on the streets.

Again, I stupidly called him back and said love conquers all and believe we met for a reason. I offered him cash, he refused. I offered to pay for an apartment, he refused. He said he was a man and didn't need anything. So he was homeless for a few months, we talked anytime he could work a little and pay for his cell minutes and could charge the phone. Winter time roles around and he's sleeping outside and gets really ill, he has to be admitted to the hospital. He was so ill he couldn't even speak hardly, so the doctor asked who he wanted to call to help translate, and he said me. So here I was sitting in my office chatting with an Italian doctor who said he's got to get off the streets. I told him I was finding him a place and that was that, I cared for him. I didn't know what the future held, but I was paying rent for a couple months so he could get on his feet. He refused to let rent him a full apartment bc it was too expensive, so he got a room on airbnb for cheap and asked if I could send a little money for food. He was barely eating once a day. So he again called it off bc he felt like I saw him as charity and wouldn't respect him bc he didn't work. And he assumed I must be desperate or a whore to be with a man like him bc women in Morocco paid him no mind bc he was from a poor family.

I'm sure this is part of their scam. But I fell for it. Told him I was a Godly woman, didn't see him as charity, just like helping him bc that is love in America. He seemed amazed by this. He was 40, gorgeous, and never married bc he was poor. He assumed he'd have to wait to find a woman interested, but felt that Allah must've loved him alot bc he sent me. So he asked if I was interested in marriage and kids, I said yes. So he asked if I wanted to live in the US. I said yes. So he invited me to come visit Italy again. So I came for a 2 week visit and rented a cheap place for us. We had a great time, except a couple hiccups. He revealed his jealousy... and proceeded to tell me what I could no longer wear, no longer go, and deleted 90% of my FB pics. Ok, I let it slide bc I knew it was coming with a muslim guy. I video chatted with his entire family, they all seemed to approve. They seemed particularly happy that I was not white and thought we'd make great looking babies. That's when the pressure started. They wanted us married and working on a baby. Why the rush I ask him? He said bc he was already 40 and needed to settle down. He said some of the family was initially hesitant but got on board when the realized I was not white and thought I looked pretty enough to fit in? (?)

So we looked into the fiance visa.. wait times was a year, he said too long for him to be without papers. So he suggested I temporarily move to Europe and we work on 1-2 year residency there, then move to the US later. Ok, that sounded like a good idea as I had wanted to take a couple years break from the mundane corporate life in the US. So I did, after a few hiccups, I got a short term visa to stay but not to work. Which he seems ok with, as long as he can work. So here's where things turn...

We're 2 months away from our planned wedding and some things are bothering me. First off, he has a very bad temper. He warned me, but I wasn't prepared for this. He did slap me 2x already, which the 2nd time I slapped him back. He hasn't done it sense but he was so angry when I slapped him back, we had a huge fight that lasted all night, included him calling it quits, and screaming half the night how he didn't love me anyway just wanted a green card. Mind you, he and I decided to stop using birth control and let it happen naturally if we got pregnant bc he all of a sudden wanted a baby bc the family was pushing it. In this fight he says he only wanted the baby so it would look good for immigration! I couldn't believe the kind, loving, but stubborn man I'd come to love was so hateful! The look in his eyes was so mean but almost comical, he was definitely trying to hurt me. He said he knew he could not trust me, that I wasn't even marriage material and planned on leaving soon as he got his papers bc he'd never love me or the kid, we were just a stepping stone. He said he'd tried to call it quits but I begged him to come back so he did so he could get the visa. I tried to be tough and act like it didn't bother me, so I said fine, tomorrow I'll be leaving back to the US.

So I grabbed a blanket and went to sleep on the couch. His brother called me like normal to chat. As soon as he saw my face he knew something was wrong. I told him what he'd said and that we were done. His brother tells me that he is saying that only to hurt me bc he's upset and treats everyone that way. But deep down he has a good heart and will calm down and apologize tomorrow. I was like how could someone say such hurtful things and I broke down in tears. He overheard my breakdown and came out of the bedroom and instantly started apologizing for saying things he didn't mean. That he was just so hurt that I'd slapped him back he wanted to really hurt me. He said he wouldn't allow me to sleep on the couch and he'd leave that night if I wanted him too. I was so confused, I just fell asleep with him holding em. He apologized and I forgave him. He has not hit me anymore, we talked how this was a very bad thing in Western culture and a man who loves a woman doesn't hit her. He agreed and catches himself. He has loss his temper 2 other times at night which I have to really work to calm him down. The last couple times he packed his stuff and left,only to come back an hour later and apologize. Reminding me he told me from the beginning he has a temper and when he's mad he says hurtful things. And yes, I've seem him treat his family like this too. They seem to be used to it and just let it slide.

So here we are, I just found out I am pregnant last week. He's so happy. The wedding date is set. I went to visit his family in Morocco last month and stayed for 4 weeks. They were all nice... too nice in fact it felt fake. Today he told me he was really, really sorry for how he's treated me and that he wants to work on this. He did ask for me to start covering my body once we're married like traditional Muslim women. He said after we are married, he wants to move (he has a job offer), and for us to start fresh away from family and friends. He said he hasn't been the best person to me, but wants to be the best husband and father. He said he's been very stressed due to how he was raised and trying to balance that with who he wants to be. He said he just wants me and him and our baby to start fresh and not let anyone else interfere or have any say so. He asked that I not discuss our plans or problems with anyone in his or my family bc he doesn't want anyone having a say so, this is our life.

What do you all think, is this all part of the scam? Do you think when he's angry he's truthful? Think maybe he was scamming but wants to change? Help, I'm so confused. I've accused him of scamming, he threw a fit. He reminded me he'd never asked for anything until he was desperate. He is asking me not to work. He wanted to start a family right away. And he called it off many times. He also advised me that if I wanted to wait for him to get established before marriage, he would be ok with that bc he wasn't a scammer. Sure papers to the US would be good but just to visit, he didn't think we could afford to live there now without both of us working and that was out of the question. So what do ya'll think? Anyone have a similar experience?


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8Flashing lights [32 words]AmalJun 6, 2019 09:25250473
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14I want to add also Jessica [246 words]SMHMar 21, 2019 09:52247925
1I was just replying back to you SMH [146 words]jessica (canada)Mar 22, 2019 18:59247925
2Im not trying to convince anybody SMH [250 words]jessica (canada)Mar 22, 2019 19:16247925
13Hey Jessica [164 words]ChelseaMar 26, 2019 00:39247925
6Very true. [163 words]BazoongaMar 26, 2019 08:02247925
4Not true at all [126 words]AsiyahMar 27, 2019 06:00247925
5Well,here is the explanation. [253 words]BazoongaMar 27, 2019 20:34247925
4Hey Chelsea [595 words]Jessica (Canada)Mar 28, 2019 01:59247925
2Bazoonga [53 words]AsiyahMar 29, 2019 05:45247925
15Enlighten us our dear Asiyah about Syrian young men in the lands of the Kuffar! [168 words]dhimmi no moreMar 29, 2019 09:31247925
5Good to hear from you and that was a very good post [85 words]ChelseaMar 29, 2019 22:51247925
8Man you nailed it. [59 words]ChelseaMar 29, 2019 23:06247925
7They may lack courage or may be complicit. [154 words]PrashantApr 1, 2019 19:52247925
11Directions To A western woman To make Her Mena man happy [188 words]EmoticonFeb 14, 2019 18:19247739
Wife [18 words]OrangeMar 23, 2019 17:10247739
11Reply to Orange - Being his wife [260 words]EmoticonMar 26, 2019 06:12247739
Hello Emoticon [58 words]AsiyahMar 27, 2019 06:14247739
4Hello Asiyah [162 words]EmoticonMar 28, 2019 04:58247739
6Understandable and perfectly fine. [87 words]BazoongaMar 28, 2019 05:32247739
7Our dear Asiyah is a "genius" No I'm not kidding! [121 words]dhimmi no moreMar 28, 2019 09:30247739
1Dhimmi more you are pathetic. Emoticon... [175 words]AsiyahMar 29, 2019 06:23247739
5Our dear Asiyah (sic) Sheikh google صلى الله عليه وسلم and his Kafir-phobia! Oh and now he is posting in Italian! مشاء الله [177 words]dhimmi no moreMar 29, 2019 14:58247739
4Dear readers: I do not believe our dear Asiyah or his cockamamie posts! [70 words]dhimmi no moreMar 29, 2019 15:11247739
4Our dear Asya aka Asiyah is a careless reader and writer and the word "revert" and the Arabic word اسلم [95 words]dhimmi no moreMar 30, 2019 10:41247739
8Thank you Bazoonga [267 words]EmoticonApr 1, 2019 17:26247739
10Ciao Asiyah [337 words]EmoticonApr 1, 2019 18:11247739
3Hello there. [85 words]BazoongaApr 2, 2019 20:13247739
2Si sono italiana [493 words]EmoticonApr 3, 2019 04:53247739
2I have Turkish boyfriend [224 words]EllaApr 3, 2019 05:28247739
9No, don't trust him and run! [124 words]EmoticonApr 4, 2019 05:22247739
3Nice to read these words [137 words]EmoticonApr 4, 2019 05:41247739
9Another Muslim lover but same beaten up questions. [133 words]PrashantApr 4, 2019 21:14247739
10Dear Asiyah, please think again! [168 words]EmoticonApr 6, 2019 01:39247739
15Run. Alone or loneliness [288 words]ChelseaApr 6, 2019 19:07247739
3Ma di che stai parlando [309 words]AsiyahApr 7, 2019 04:57247739
2Trusting Him [37 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiApr 7, 2019 15:42247739
9Turkish boyfriend [222 words]EllaApr 7, 2019 22:29247739
12To Ella [170 words]Hey EllaApr 8, 2019 04:40247739
12Of course, of course [174 words]EmoticonApr 8, 2019 05:09247739
10Dear Chelsea [70 words]EmoticonApr 8, 2019 05:16247739
11Our dear Asiyah is back! I wonder why! [47 words]dhimmi no moreApr 8, 2019 06:29247739
2Emoticon [104 words]AsiyahApr 11, 2019 12:48247739
1Do not trust him Ella [46 words]JessicaApr 12, 2019 03:00247739
10Never leave a mena men inheritance [29 words]AnnetteFeb 12, 2019 17:13247700
3Girls, don't waste your life [31 words]voice of mindFeb 15, 2019 09:15247700
2He came back [155 words]AsiyahFeb 5, 2019 05:47247540
12In my opinion... [77 words]voice of mindFeb 10, 2019 08:10247540
he doesnt needs the paper [132 words]AsiyahFeb 14, 2019 05:31247540
14Something in his mind [35 words]JeffFeb 14, 2019 21:45247540
24Questions for our dear Asiyah from Greece! [231 words]dhimmi no moreFeb 15, 2019 06:37247540
13Read and think before you decide [89 words]Voice of mindFeb 15, 2019 09:02247540
20Run!!!! [66 words]Lana(USA)Feb 15, 2019 10:03247540
12Teaching our dear Asiyah Arabic! The Arabic word al-NikaH is a vulgar word for sex! [240 words]dhimmi no moreFeb 16, 2019 09:39247540
4Film recommendation: Killing women is like killing a sparrow [233 words]jessica (canada)Feb 16, 2019 15:00247540
I don't know [48 words]AsiyahFeb 18, 2019 07:20247540
14Don't listen to his lies!!!!You can do better!!! [172 words]Lana(USA)Feb 19, 2019 16:14247540
9Played for Money [12 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiFeb 23, 2019 11:53247540
9Asiyah: You are being Scammed. [43 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiFeb 24, 2019 00:17247540
2Actually I don't have money [216 words]AsiyahFeb 26, 2019 04:27247540
6The worst scenario [103 words]voice of mindFeb 26, 2019 13:18247540
7Trying to Figure it Out [110 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiMar 17, 2019 22:19247540
5Breaking it off [33 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiMar 17, 2019 22:26247540
Everything is going great [100 words]AsiyahMar 21, 2019 06:01247540
6I would think long and hard about marriage [78 words]ChelseaMar 22, 2019 20:46247540
9Teaching our dear Asiyah Arabic! You need to stick to Urdu darling! [104 words]dhimmi no moreMar 23, 2019 10:11247540
4Let us now after the marriage [57 words]voice of mindMar 23, 2019 16:28247540
4There is no P in the Arabic alphabet [26 words]ChelseaMar 26, 2019 00:49247540
2Bothering me no more [40 words]AsiyahMar 26, 2019 05:58247540
5Our dear Asiyah (sic) getting some help from Sheikh google صلى الله عليه وسلم [248 words]dhimmi no moreMar 26, 2019 14:39247540
1Our dear Asiyah needs to stick to Urdu! [43 words]dhimmi no moreMar 26, 2019 14:49247540
5Teaching our dear Asiyah Arabic! And a little linguistic trap! So is it ان شاء الله or انشاء الله I'm waiting [154 words]dhimmi no moreMar 27, 2019 07:29247540
3Marriage and 'reverting to Islam" [74 words]BazoongaMar 28, 2019 07:39247540
1Dear Bazoonga, [213 words]AsiyahMar 29, 2019 06:43247540
2Our dear Asiyah needs to stick to Urdu! [225 words]dhimmi no moreMar 29, 2019 15:39247540
4HONESTLY I don't think your relationship is OK [67 words]JessicaMar 31, 2019 21:03247540
4Our dear Asiyah (sic) disagrees with her Allah who says that Islam is the religion of the Hijazi Arabs only! [94 words]dhimmi no moreApr 2, 2019 11:08247540
23Feeling so used [403 words]SaraJan 21, 2019 10:22247269
18To Sara [244 words]HopeJan 21, 2019 15:53247269
9So sorry for your pain [168 words]SherryJan 21, 2019 18:57247269
10Also [49 words]LinaJan 22, 2019 04:12247269
13Thank you guys [71 words]SaraJan 22, 2019 16:16247269
17Consider yourself blessed [330 words]Lana(USA)Jan 23, 2019 00:36247269
12Lucky Escape [39 words]Stop U.K. Marriage FraudJan 31, 2019 12:32247269
15Packages [242 words]LinaFeb 8, 2019 16:11247269
5One thing to do to move on [44 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiMar 17, 2019 22:23247269
2Sorry, Sara :( [162 words]RobinMay 21, 2019 15:38247269
10Islamist's impudence make me feel humble [195 words]
w/response from Daniel Pipes
PrashantJan 4, 2019 21:39246968
1A banned book. [36 words]BazoongaJan 19, 2019 07:38246968
5Targeting women that have certain careers [35 words]SherryFeb 3, 2019 01:28246968
8Yes,Sherry ,you're right! [142 words]LANA (USA)Feb 4, 2019 17:13246968
2targeting women with certain careers [46 words]toogieMay 2, 2019 15:42246968
14check book [44 words]CaralynDec 27, 2018 10:03246798
8FB page to post MENA comments pictures on [68 words]SherryDec 29, 2018 15:37246798

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