Submitted by susan eroglu (United Kingdom), Jan 11, 2019 at 21:17
Id also like to add that I now know he slept with a Russian tourist whilst working as a masseur whilst we were engaged to be married!His reply was "well who were you?You werent my wife!
I replied you told me you loved & missed me every day!! He replied "love means like".
Its shocking as he was also keeping in touch with ex's right up till we were married.He was friend requesting women he didnt know on facebook also was flirting,flattering & offering massages to my fellow worker behind my back! I hate to believe it but its obvious now I was used for a visa!!Its why he went mad discovering I was having his daughter as this complicated his plans to leave!He nagged me repeatedly to have an abortion & I just couldnt believe it! I had a very lonely pregnancy. She was a miracle as I was told id never have children.Luckily I didnt give in & have her aborted cos shes lovely.EVEN months after she was born,he would STILL say that I should have had her aborted!!!When the police took out an injunction on him for death threats & emotional abuse against just ME,he told everyone I stopped him from seeing his daughter! At court he was repeatedly told he could see his daughter but he never saw her for 18months!After injunction he simply" dropped" his now new weekend girlfriend as we were back in his life(for him to see my daughter)I did feel sorry for the dropped girlfriend of 18months as she loved him but he was cyber/dating site trying to meet others all during their relationship as I saw the evidence.His reply was "well she wasnt my bloody wife,if I want to be wuth others I can! She was not a forever partner in my mind anyway!"COLD & RUTHLESS!
Then for 3 years behind my back he was on sex hook up sites,porn,dating sites & tried his best to meet up with & had sex with one Jan 2018 but just 3 days before he rang me,saying I love you & miss you! Then valentines day he gives me roses whilst ENDLESSLY searching women on facebook & dating sites!!! He finally got caught Aug 2018 & everything hed been doing was exposed!IF he hadnt got caught like a rat he is,he would STILL be doing it now.We are now divorcing as I simply just could never trust him hes blackened my name to so many people who simply think hes lovely!!!!Cos they dont EVEN KNOW THE REAL HIM!I have police report,injunction & all facebook date site info to prove everything ive said!
So ladies listen!!!DONT just innocently trust &-believe just because they may be so loving with words that of course its love! In my case everybody said it was for a visa but I refused to accept that until NOW I CAN SEE THE BIG PICTURE! I am a Christian & dis obeyed God by marrying a Turkish muslim &-it was HELL!
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