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PLEASE LEARN FROM THIS LADY!!! I don't care how handsome, nice, in love you are!!!Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Ceil (older & wiser) Italian from Dearborn MI (United States), Jul 25, 2015 at 08:36 I'm Italian-American. Born in the '60's. I grew up in Dearborn MI. My high school was predominantly Italian, some Greeks & other Mediterranean heritage people and, a large growing population of Muslims from various countries, at the time mostly Lebanese. Today, Dearborn is practically under Sharia! Even Moslem woman I grew up with now cover their head because there is so much pressure there. My sister is a Dearborn Schools teacher. And She's heard and seen it all!! I was a belly dancer and have traveled to many Middle Eastern countries & North Africa but NOT ALONE! With other Entertainers from those regions. Like the lady who wrote the original post....I grew up strict Italian. Always properly covered and not promiscuous! I was never alone except in my bedroom & bath!!! Not even left in a rented bouse alone because they always said: "we know our people!" We stayed in Greece for long periods where I was able to walk down the street to the beach 2 blocks alone & that was it! But always warned not to talk to any man alone!! When I was in my early 20's I looked 16. When I was dressed as a belly dancer with make up, I looked like a different person! We worked at a fabulous Greek/Aran night club that was under a giant tent. There was a Morrican Mother & Beautiful daughters who danced together as a troop. One night, they were mysteriously gone! The next day I was informed the one member of the Lebanese band was having a relationship with one of the girls. When she wouldn't sleep with him, he pushed her through a plate glass window! I learned good conversatiinal Arabic skills and used to help my sister with Parent teacher night because many didn't speak English. (But that was Elementary School) The one thing I noticed: The mothers always LOOKED HAGGARD AND TIRED! The father's had Tans, and looked healthier! I had a young neighbor girl named Waffa. She got married when she was 14. She was a slave to her inlaw family! I SAW IT EVERY DAY! In the winter, every morning early, it was her job to clear the ice and warm 7 cars! Her husband, after a few years of marriage had an Islamic marriage to a woman I went to high schools with! Waffa and her two boys were left alone while he spent nights with the other wife. She would occasionally bring me grapes leaves and cry and tell me how she was treated by her ugly inlawa! Let me inform you now ladies: Dearborn Mi HAS HONOR KILLINGS that are covered up!! Some of them WERE my sisters students! The owner of our favorite Restaurant was taken into custody years ago for supporting Hamas! He was married but sleeping with one of my sister's students (16) she committed suicide! My sister saw her downward spiral and tried talking to the girl reason!! Look ladies, we were brought up to respect ALL people! I'm not on this board because I have anything against Muslims, I KNOW & UNDERSTAND the Muslim Psyche & mentality! Please forgive me for saying the truth: Muslim men are raised to become NARCISSIST! So, do yourselves a big favor and read/youtube and learn for yourselves what a Narcissist is and how they operate! Clue: That's how this Turkish guy got the nice Italian girl to do everything for him, his business & his family & treated her badly till she literally lost her soul & couldn't even look someone in the eye! It can take years to a lifetime to heal from this with diligent work and staying alone! You see, YOUR ACCOUNTABLE, HE'S NOT! My sister sees ALL the families that are getting public aid & food stamps yet are very weathy in Gold, can afford luxuries most cant. Can afford for the husband to go back to, Yeman, Lebanon etc....for months while his family of many children suffer! And typically he comes back with a beautiful younger wife whom he spends his money and all his time with and pays to put her up in a separate apartment! It's his right under Islam! I don't care how strongly you feel attracted. How wonderful he treats you etc. Be sure, IT WILL ALL CHANG! He will live off YOUR money and credit cards and as he gets closer and closer to treating you like dirt and breaking up for the final time or (like this lady) his mother turns vicious on you, as that's how Narcissist operate! His mother will face wrath if she's not complying! Very, very few have successfully married long term! I'm in my 50's. I've seen a lot. Lived in many places! Never, ever put yourself in an ugly situation that is hard for anyone on the outside to help you! It's not worth loosing your health, self esteem, income and spending years messed up! Hold onto yourself! I don't care how confident, competent or strong you are, A Muslim man will take you all the way down! And you'll end up looking like a Hag and struggle to ever be on your feet again! Sorry for the length of my reply. I know the consequences and if just one girl can be saved from the suffering they cannot forsee I'll be happy for them to have a good future! Lastly & more importantly: THERE IS NO OTHER NAME IN HEAVEN THERE BY MEN (WOMEN) CAN BE SAVED! Please don't give Jesus Christ and your Salvation up! We live in trying times. Christs return is very near. Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". 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