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Talking from my experienceReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Heartbroken (United States), May 19, 2015 at 11:47 It is possible that what thosw women said is true. I will talk from my experience with an Arab man, he cheated on me 3(those where the times I found out) I would always try to find excuses for it and my biggest one was that he did that because I didn't give him sex or a normal relationship. His brother however had girlfriends that gave him sex but I saw him kissibg, hugging, and holding hands with other girls and he also had more thab that with them while he had his official girlfriend. It was the most outrageous thing I had ever seen, but I didn't think that mine would cheat on me too later on since he would say that he loved and that his brother did those things because he didn't love them nor his girlfriend.But from that time on I began havibg trust issues because I couldn't trust the people aroun dc him and as Arab that was he didn't want to bring me around the "guys" and as Muslim he couldn't be having relationships so we had to keep it lowkey. I was so innocent. In about 3 months he told me that he wanted me to be his wife, he asked me to marry him but we were so young and doing that was going to be going against his family but he was willing to back at that time So we had to wait to have a financially good position. Long story short after:7yrs,3cheatings caught, multiple breakups and get back together, drama, and him doing everything to get me back but last time I didn't fall for his lies and him offerring me the world after finding out that I was in a relationship but he was never alone let me tell you, with one hand he was offering me the world and with the other he was helping his mistress what I call it because he doesn't even call her girlfriend, he says he has only had one girlfriend and one love and that it's me, he still says he loves me with all his heart and that he will always do but guess what....he went to his country and got engaged pretty much he is already married to a stranger.I love him more than I want and I seriously thought that we could save this Before he left I expressed it to him. There was love there was passion like no other but he was still having sex with others and that shattered my heart and mind into pieces I hated him so much, it was so painful finding out, I never wanted to see him again, I had to get away and move away from him,I thought I was pregnant but he didn't care he left anyway and never said a thing abt it, he just says he misses me and loves me and wants sex. The love feelings came back but I refuse to even see him and humiliate myself like that, reducing me from the love of his life, his future wife to the woman who he just has sex with. Dear Brittany, you are still in time of saving yourself a bunch of heartache and troubles but if yoy decide to continue then pay attention and since he is so open minded and even if he is not, don't go over there by yourself please .If this is what a man that I have known all my life and we both have very strong feelings about eachother and I been good living like a Muslim without the Muslim title, and he admits that I'm so different than other girls that I'm the perfect girl, well time has passed I'm not a girl anymore but it's as if I was, if this is what this person does to me even after taking me to his dad and to him mom for them to meet me to see me and then he comes and does this to me?! It's unforgivable. Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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