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Doing right?Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Donna (United States), Feb 1, 2015 at 10:43 Yes you were right to block him and I hope you keep him that way this time. We all have been through this on and off thing they do. To them we are toys, not real, no feelings and they see us as beneath them. To stop speaking to you for even a day means he can and does live his life without thought of you as mine did without me all the times he disappeared for days at a time. I left the one that played me and have no regrets leaving him in any way. He was poison. He never asked me for money but did ask me about my finances almost daily and did tell me all he wanted to do and build after marriage with the inheritance my parents had left me. His brother told me this was not allowed in the Muslim religion to use a lady's inheritance, but aboud had it all planned out to do just this. He even said his friend reynard,reyard,renard, he spelled it in all these ways, had taken his wifes dowry(muslim wife) from her and invested it into the US stock market at his urging. He said women were not capable of financial responsibility. If we are not why are these men targeting us? Trying to get money from us? Trying to get us to support them? Trying to use us to get to our country. If they hate our countries so much why all the effort to come here? If they hate westerners so much why are they trying to be one? No you simply cared for a person that did not obviously care about you in any way as we all did. Being a caring person is not stupid just makes us gullable in many ways. Read what star wrote this is the way honestly their women see those men, they have no qualms lying to the men just as they know the men lie to everyone, they are raised where this is just accepted. They simply look for the best provider and ask a large dowry because they know these men will leave and divorce as they age or become disabled and many just go to younger and younger. There are good ones that don't behave in this manner, but they are not on the computer meeting women to scam they are leading full and productive lives in real.I have read divorce is low almost unheard of in arab countries on here, this is not true. Even abouds own father had divorced before, communication problems was the reason that was quoted. He then married his own 1st cousin, 17 yrs old after he divorced his first wife. None of the 8 children from that second marriage are married even though ages range 54-26. They had even said it had almost reached the 50% mark in his country in 2013-2014. Here in he West think, a lot of the divorces are also muslim men doing it,as are many of the fatherless children that are abandoned by these men, just read on here alone the number. For all you know he could be married now or like the one I knew involved with many women online at the same time. The one that targeted me used the names Aboud,abed,abood,abdel,mohammed,mohammud,samer,reyad,renard,ameen,amin,latif,yosef,mahmood,sharif,and many many more targeting over 40 females that so far been found. Every time he left them thinking he found a better target, always trying to string them along at the same time incase the new didn't work out with excuses of work as he did with me. These women and his own brother saved me from this monster.Think of yourself as saved from a life of hell not as a fool. You are not a fool for his deceit, stay a caring person don't let this person take that from you. As for seeing his house, mine contacted me from businesses, houses, even on the road, take nothing said or shown to you as fact. His brother even said aboud had pretended to be his sister suha in the game perfect world just to get game stuff from unsuspecting men in the game. I wish I had known all of this long ago I wasted 3 yrs on a liar and scammer. If a person will do this for stuff in a online game think how far they will go to scam for real stuff. If a person is asking you for any money they are not interested in YOU in any way. He knew you depended upon yourself yet he would have seen you do without just to give to him. I pray you will keep this person without a soul from your life, for to be able to play people in the manner they do, they have none. God would in no way approve of any one in a religion regardless of what that religion is to treat another in this manner. He created all of us, he gives and takes from us what he wishes and only he has this right. Stay sweet, stay caring, but most of all please just stay safe. Also don't fall for the hababi thing , meaning for a male object of affection my beloved or in slang my darling. Habibti, habibati are the feminine forms. They say this almost as much as westerners say hello.The men hold each others hands in pubic kiss each other but these same men will scowl at a married man holding his own wifes hand. Star was accurate in every way with the none feeling, none emotional way they live with one another. These men are targeting us because we use all our senses, including emotional whereas they do not. These emotions can be harmful yes making us these imbeciles targets, but they are also what makes us giving, caring, real people. Look what these boys of man age are trying to escape an emotionless barren land of their own making, why are they not making the effort in their own part of the world to make things better instead of coming to other countries hurting people, abandoning women and children, and creating the same exact situations in other countries that they said they were fleeing from that they had to escape just to recreate it exactly in the new country to which they come. Also if a man is always telling you your beautiful then this is what he values, if you were in a fire, any kind of accident the day after marrying someone like that what do you think he would do? I thought I was truly loved, I'm not beautiful and avoid men that talk of physical beauty, but I'm not ugly either, I'm simply a average human being with flaws as everyone has, but I'm a good lady with morals, good work ethic, treat people like I would want to be treated. I didn't deserve what that boy 41-56 he has used all these ages with women, whichever he is at the present time did to me. None of us deserve that, not lady nor do men. I was taught by my parents to find love, that a man is not his looks, job, nor wallet but he is heart,soul,and mind.The people targeted by these individuals are only seen as looks, job, and wallets and country in which we reside. Reflect on all the times he disappeared, all the lies, how he expects you to stil be there when he has the urge to talk to you. You and I and the others here are simply as toys a child sits on a shelf until an urge to play with it strikes again. I have read about people writing about these males looks the one I fell for was not attractive in physical but was to me because I cared for him.I would get so mad when all my friends called him ugly to me he was never until I saw the videos of him the others sent to me. I still when think of those feel ill, that could have been the hell I lived because that was the real him. Online predator,cheater,liar,scammer, gigolo. Neither of us lost anything, we have been saved from a hell with these men finding out when we did. Don't give away your hard earned money to scammers they have the ability to work just as you and I do. The family of the man the that targeted me ages according to him of him and his siblings 26-54, 6 of these adults had no job and did not look for work instead letting a father in his 80's still work and support all of them. Even when aboud was asked to take out trash or get water up which was once a week they had to ask repeatedly, because he was on the computer, and this request was from him mother.They could work make their own money just as you and I do, don't ever send. You are not a fool! Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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