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I also lived in DUBAIReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by mamnooMichelle (United States), Jan 24, 2015 at 03:16 I too am writing to warn others! Until NOW, I ONLY dated or had boyfriends from the middle east. What these women are sharing is true. I'm a US citizen & I'm not stupid & I'm NOT ugly. ...NOT that I'm a jerk, but DON'T be fooled by my story that i must be ugly or something to FINALLY realize that Muslim men are NOT who they FIRST act like. Feel free to find me on Facebook,Michell. MMamnoojameel. I have ALWAYS been a follower of Christ, & those I dated in the States were on my terms! This is my country & I have rights. I was treated VERY well by the Arabs or Persian Muslims I dated....one here in the States that I got engaged too changed after we live together, but I still knew his verbal abuse was NOT going to control me.....in the end of ALL my relations that emded, I thought well, what's the difference if it didn't workout, maybe it would have ended anyway if they were American. I was so caught up with the charm, gifts, giving of their time to me....& no American guys were this romantic. ....so I didn't care when others said it was their race, culture or RELIGION inside them that eventually surfaced as to me ALWAYS being the one to end it! I'm independent & VERY OUT SPOKEN, I'd even tell them, DON'T think you can treat me like the womem back home! But, my last relationship taught me what I never could learn otherwise & I'm Thankful to the LORD for PROTECTING ME in the end! As with my other relationships it was beautiful the first year & half.... we planned to marry & openly share in our religious beliefs. I was adamant that wemust be TOGETHER to do this! I spent several months is DUBAI, UAE already & saw the real culture, NOT the tourist parts & hated it! I told him I was only returning FOR. HIM because I couldn't stand the laws there. ..... well ladies this behavior is brought up in them...I was ignored in public, outs against the law to hold hands, DON'T even think about kissing in public & if your caught living together your going to jail! At every public beach & mall etc. these laws are posted! I got food poisoning when I was there, among other allergic reactions, I had to go to the emergency room & he blamed me & igmored me the entire 4 hours we were at the hospital doing tests even on the way home, he REFUSED to SPEAK to ME.! Not ONLY that, but EVERYTHING, I mean EVERYTHING including sitting at the hospital is segregated.....it's. Against the law to sit with your husband, let alone anyone of the opposite sex! These men are raised to think they are better than women, Muslimmen DON'T NEED. Your permission to marry another. .....they want you for THEIR needs, yours don't matter.. .if you do marry a Muslim guy, you too will be abused one way or another. I could go on & on about what I feel the LORD protected me from because after my second visit...EVERYTHING CHANGED ! He left me at apartment ALONE ALL day several times knowing I couldn't go out in public, left me with NO food just a can of tuna & half a bottle of water, while he was with friends, at the gym or the mall....once I was sick vomiting from NOTHING to eat.....he lied about coming then ignored me completely for over a day blamin me callin me a drama queen! He used RELIGION to get close to me & said he'd NEVER be like any Muslim that was bad, but in the end, it was worse only because I gave my heart to someone who DIDN'T appreciate me! Who hurt me & called me horrible things like a corpse! WTF? He abused my TRUST & abused me mentally! ..... Thankfully THROUGH deep deep PRAYER I saw this before we married & I KNOW it's. ALL due to a Father in Heaven that loves me & TRULY wants me to have. HAPPINESS. GOD bless anyone reading this & who is struggling for answers! In JESUS name, Amen! Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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