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I hope my story inspires you to become more aware!Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Marie (United States), Dec 13, 2014 at 03:30 I have talked to muslim guys before but theres one that stands out from all the rest. I met a muslim guy from Algeria on a international pen pal site. We talked for 4 months but it felt like it waI s longer because he filled my head up with all kinds of lies. I will share my story with you. We started talking on a international pen pal site. He was good lookig and close to my age. He wanted to play off like he was a sweet and innocent guy. I did not think it was a bad idea to talk to him but I was wrong. We would talk for hours everyday. The only thing I did not like talking with him was religion. After I told him I was Christain he sent me verses from the Quran which I refuse to read but I ended up overlooking that which I should of not that was wrong of me. One day I told him I was sad because this Tuinsian guy that supposedly wanted a relationship with me wanted another girl. He told me he was sorry and that I could have a relationship with him. I thought that was strange but overlooked it. He started to share bad things that happen in his life and wanted me to share mine bad stories too. He told me we would have a great life together and be happy together. We told each other we loved one another. One day he told that he would kill himself and that really freaked me out! I ended up finding out he had secret accounts going by a false name and using information. He was also talkig to other girls. I finally worked up the courage to tell him and try to end things with him. He started going crazy saying he was going to kill himself and to let him delete these accounts. I gave him another chance. He did delete his accounts but he did not change. He still added random girls and talked to them and would only stop if I told him too. He would make up stories about having to go to the military for a few days and how one of him got deathly sick and all of a sudden made a miraculous recovery. He would not talked to me for a few days and tell me he was either busy, sick, or had an injury and would try to butter me up by telling me how much he loved me and missed me. Also telling me we would get married. I am sure the times he went out with his friends his was with other girls. He lied to me saying he was avoiding girls for me. He would tell me if I exercised I would be prettier. He even asked me one time how much I weighed! Tried to tell me not to eat much and that I did not need certain food or drinks. He told me we would marry and that after we married he would prefer to me to not wear make up and told me I need to try new hairsytles for my hair. would get mad at me if I questioned him about these girls he considered close friends because they would act a little too close and he would say I was only accusing him because I did not trust him and I wanted to leave him. There was times we would login to his account and think that I did no know. He would try to get me to believe in his religion by sending me videos which I refuse to watch. If me and him would fight he would say everything is my fault. If I went out with my friends he wanted me to talk to him but if he went out with his friends he did not want to talk. He would tell meI did not need my friends because they were bad. He told me it was embarassing to decorate a room with crosses that represent Jesus. He Tried to prove me wrong about my faith (he could not prove me wrong). In between all of those bad things. He told me would would have a great time when we would meet and he would do anything for me to come to Algeria. There was times he would say he wanted to live in US but then changed it to Algeria. He woud want to talk about kids but then did not want to talk about kids. He told me to block him one time when he got mad at me but when I did he came back crying telling me he loved me and he could not stay away from me. He was trying to fill my head up with lies that he loved me. I finally got on the internet and read the truth about Islam. ... I am glad God got me out of the situation I was in with him. I really think this guy was dangerous. Girls think twice about getting to a relationship with a muslim guy and do not let my experience happen to you! Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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