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Drifting and ALL Western LadiesReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by phoenix ( Canada) (Canada), Dec 12, 2014 at 02:59 First to Drifting : Ffter all the comments and discussions on this forum from women who suffered and some who r still suffering from Egyptians and/or Arab men in General , I think the answer is clear with a Big NO.. Furthermore your Western friends and Muslims in Dubai warned you about dating arab men so... you better take the advice and act rationally rather than emotionally before its too late. -you did mention that he doesnt really care about your problems ( this is already something negative ) -you mentioned his behavior of " looking after you" and possessiveness and obsessiveness, this is already something dangerous , because i can easily tell you and its a proven theory , that this will most probably develop into domestic violence in the future , so dont take it as something very positive at all ( too much love can suffocate the partner ) - he has been living seven years in Dubai , i dont know whether you asked him about his past and previous relationship, married /divorced , if he had gf what was her nationality , what was the reason of breaking up etc... or whether he had never got any gf in his life ...egyptian and 7 years in Dubai well big question mark for me .. dont forget to ask him whether he would marry an egyptian woman who is older than him or only it applies to western women .. - he told you about his faith , of course he promoted islam as the religion of Peace ( :) ) , and respect and women have full rights .. so why dont you tell him about your faith ? ( or maybe he will consider it as a problem and he will not listen to you ) , why dont you ask him in case you will marry him , children wll be raised as muslim , christian , none of the above ? He will take them for vacation to meet his grandparents and leave YOUR children there same like hundreds if not thousands of his compatriots did already ? ( you can see on google how many british and american lost their children after being kidnapped by their Egyptian/arab father ) , ask him more about his faith , wife beating , hijab , marrying other women , because since you are older than him as i understood , sooner or later he will marry another egyptian girl who is much younger than him and VIRGIN , thats what they do and thats what they WANT ( BUT YOU WESTERN WOMEN STILL DONT GET IT ) - Put this in your mind , you might not like it and none of the readers will like it , but i will say 95% if not more of Arab men just use western women for sex ( they call you WHITE WHORES) , they will tell you all words you want to hear and bring you gifts just to go to bed with you . other use you for sex + Visa , and others for sex + visa + money , once all in pocket they will tell you bye bye ...( BUT ALSO YOU WESTERN WOMEN STILL DONT GET IT ) - about being helpful , i think all arabs when they meet a woman during the first period , they show their kindness to impress the lady , if the lady wants something he will jump and bring it , even he might wash your feet , so the lady start comparing their behavior to the behavior of the guys back home , and yeah she will like it ...but she doesnt know the end of the story of course ..because all this behavior is to possess you and YOU SWALLOW THE BAIT ...( BUT ALSO WESTERN WOMEN STILL DONT GET IT ) About Dubai , before i moved to Canada , i lived there for many years , i know each and every corner there and every community , i think the majority of the people on this forum dont know much about that place ..briefly Dubai is a BIG BED , let me tell you how things go there : - Most of the Arabs working are married back home ( sometimes pretend to be divorced) , Syrian , Palestinian , Jordanian ( they are actually Palestionan but have Jordanian citizenship) , Egyptian. Some of those even live with their families in Dubai but cheat on their wives on the first occasion. - Women who run after arab guys usually are Moroccan women , East Euopean (Russian , Ukrainian , Moldova , Kazakhstan ,Uzbekistan ) and philippinne girls because they consider Arab men are more generous than Western men , many of those women are married in secret with Arabs ( Who r already married ..but welcome to Islam you know ) they come to Dubai with low wage so they need a sponsor , and Arabs are the best sponsors ( of course those women will be having other bf in parallel ) . - Philippine girls target also western men , and many British and American guys divorced their pretty wives to go with a philipiine girl ( who also wants to move to Europe or the West ) , and usually they are submissive so many Western Men love this style ( Yes Sir ) ..you see a loooot of incompatible couples in Dubai - Indian men . well those guys always horny , they want to have sex as much as possible before going to India ( after 3 - 4 years working in Dubai ) to marry an Indian girl of course that Mama chose for him and to bring her to Dubai. - Western women in Dubai , well they dont have a great reputation too , at least many of them , i would say from my experience North American women are usually the most conservative compared to the European . British play big shot and hard to get when they are sober , but once drank then no limits ...Arabs and Indian and Iranian target these clubs /bars were British and Irish usually go in order to get an easy sex with women who are totally wasted and cannot stand on their feet ( by the way many western women have been gang raped in Dubai , as well as western women being raped by pakistani taxi drivers on their way home , and in case the girl went to police , she will be put in jail for islamic reasons ( drinking and extra marital relation) ..strange but true google and see ) so for you all ,avoid any relation there , if just for sex its fine , but for long term relationship forget it and trust my words , men cheating women and vice versa , they all come for short term to work there , then they leave ..so what happened in Dubai stays in Dubai ! I lived there , and I wasnt angel at all , i admit i had a wildlife too going from one women to another but luckily i didnt hurt any woman's feeling or broke any woman's heart. I was very clear with each and every woman i met , i told them i am not staying in Dubai and that i will be moving to Canada , so we spending just a good time without building castles in Spain and i avoided any woman whom i felt she is seeking a long term relation just not to leave her with brokenheart .. I do respect Western Women for your honesty and simplicity and good heart but what you dont accept from James ,John , Harry and Kevin why would you accept it from Mohammad , Hussein , Mustafa and Ahmad ???? You fought for your rights as a women in your countries and you got it , even in case of divorce your country give you full rights and even more than men . And about domestic violence , it definitely occurs in every country even the most civilized ones but there is a difference when the law in that country justify it like it does in allll muslim countries without exception simply because islam allows it , In canada for example if I dare slapping/hitting a woman whether wife/gf , i can be sure that i will spend my night in a queen jail and not on my queen bed ! I really i dont know what makes you going to thoese retarted countries and marry those creatures...if Freud was alive , he will tell me SEX Even if you divorce and have kids , he will get the custody rights and of course as a mom you will most propably try to stay near to them , so basically you will be locked in his country for the sake of your children even if you divorce him..lovely isnt it ! i created a new measurment lately called NQ ( Naivety Quotient) , you can also apply it on guys but me as a man i will apply on women because i started getting worried about woman and their way of thinking after reading comments on this forum especially that i am living in Canada and my only option is to marry a Western Lady so for sure i need to measure her NQ through questions related to civilizations , limit of openness , ways of raising kids ) because i think a too liberal woman is not good to me at all . For example , its out of question for me to marry a muslim woman ( since i have christian lebanese background) and i also wouldnt allow my daughter (if i have any ) to marry a muslim no matter what i have to do , she can marry any guy she wants , a jew , a buddhist , atheist anyone she choose but NO Muslim because i know how much she will suffer and what shity religion it is . i dont want to see my grandchildren putting a carpet and praying 5 times a day and worshiping a psycho and pedophile man called Mohamad the prophet and of course memorizing the book of Terrorism ( Qoran) . i mentioned that to say that the role of the mother is very important in raising children , if the wife is too liberal and opened to everything than the daughter/son will be more or less similar , and for me too much liberalism is very close to naivety in many aspects ..therefore an NQ ( naivety quotient ) test is needed before marriage ! :) Goodnight my sweet friends, i will have a small glass of cognac before sleeping because its freezing in Canada at the moment . cheers Submitting....
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