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Teenagish Drama; Qatari Man, Facebook, American Woman, DatingReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Dec 1, 2014 at 16:41 Ana: Why are you even talking to this man if you know it's going to end badly (and believe me it will!) What you are describing with all of this block/unblock nonsense----that's really the sort of thing that American high schoolers do in their dating relationships. Is that REALLY the level you want to associate at in your late 20s? You really don't need this drama, Ana, and you can do better. Don't pull the "I'm warning you and it's too late for me" card. This need not be some kind of eternal punishment. So put down the computer, and get out with some real people! You can do better than him! I also dated Yemeni American for 2 years, and he lied about everything. I found out he had a wife back in Yemen. He also lied about his age. I'm 28 and he is 44. He kept telling me ,"You don't look 28. You look much younger". Well, I won't dispute the fact that women on here look nice. But maybe he tells all the girls that! He is 16 years older than me and I'm not young enough for him!!! He wants a 20 year old. They are all like that. This is the guy who grew up in the US, English is his first language. He is "americanized" and still went to Yemen and married someone there. They all do that. There is no hope for them... Well, Ana, I'm sure they'd like someone younger, but as you can clearly see from the majority of the stories, they want someone naive and willing first and foremost, and if that is someone nearly 2x their age, that won't stop them! I wonder if this man is currently telling women in their 40s, 50s and 60s that they "look younger", too. Have you considered that, Ana? But because I'm an idiot, No one is an idiot, but frankly, you are acting like one. You know this is wrong, and it won't work, yet here we are…… I'm now involved with a guy from Qatar and I'm head over heels in love with him. It's an addiction which I'm trying to overcome. I block him and then unblock him.. It's a vicious circle. So, this is an on-line relationship. And no, Ana, you're not "in love" with him. You just like to talking to this guy on-line. It's time to block him for good and to close down all of these social networking profiles if you're addicted. Basically, if you're dating an Arab, you'll always be alone on the weekends and holidays. They ALWAYS put their friends first. Friends? Is that what he told you? Would you believe it if that was his time with other women, Ana? They don't understand dating. Dating is actually frowned upon in Islam. They would never apologize first, EVER. Well, Ana, to quote Isis "Islam is very much a man's world". And to top it all off, if you think you love him, he knows it and he doesn't care, he has no incentive whatsoever to extend you ANY courtesy. You're still talking to him, Ana! He's not worried about YOU leaving! He's got you in the palm of his hand! Just like someone on here said, they're constantly looking for someone better. I see mine is talking to girls on snapchat and recently he refused to add me on FB. Ana, you really need to stay away from people like that. Some people will join social networking/dating sites and just collect people. I could see that going on for YEARS for some people. Also of note in cases like this is these are women who will add most anyone. I once knew of a European man who added a bunch of girls (and only girls) to his myspace. I tested it out by sending out requests to some of these women. Every single one added me, and one even wanted to have an affair with me after she was married. He also refused to discuss why he doesn't want to add me. I know why... It's because he keeps adding random girls on FB That's exactly right! He knows you have a problem with it, and so he won't add you! And guess what, Ana? You SHOULD have a BIG problem with it! Which is why you need to ditch him! Really Ana, DITCH this man! Block him and move on! If you have trouble with that, then it's time to close down your social networking accounts and get out in the real world and fun with REAL people. Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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