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Run for the hills my dearReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Dayse (United States), Nov 6, 2014 at 01:04 I dont want to be harsh, but I cant say it in a more "sweet" way: USE YOUR COMMON SENSE. Tell me this, if you go to a bar and meet someone there, and after few weeks this person wants to marry/engage with you, would you do it???? I think hardly you would. So why is ok with a guy on the computer. You see what you have is a misconception of his country where you think every women is so oppressed cover to her knees, whom live to be a housewife and for a "modern" guy would be dreading to marry such women. I know Pakistan, I know Pakistanis very well and there you can find lots of modern women, not all in Islamic attire but in some "western" clothes as well, lots of women does goes college, have carreer ,etc...so I ask you why this guy whom is surrounded by all types of Muslim females, still want a women farrrrrrrrr away?!!! Also even though Pakistan has his modern side, the traditions still lingers there, a NEVER MARRIED MAN with No KIDS, would HARDLY will have a family Ok for him to marry someone that cant spread his seeds... If he was a guy that was already married had kids, close in age with you, than I would give the doubts, but sweet heart the signs of a Visa Hunter is as bright as the lights in Vegas. Yeah, he dont ask you for things, but hey he makes sure that his voice very well, as your said, so honey you are setting yourself up, yes of course he is caring, attentive and romantic, how you expect him to trick females in getting him a Air plane ticket and all those fees for an Green card application, regardless if he comes under visitor Visa or fiancee Visa, the fees and paperwork for him to stay will be same, and who will have to pay for Uncle Sam,yep YOU! And off course he will say he will never leave you, is ok that you are way older than him, is ok that he never will have kids of his own( with you, because he can have a wife back home already or get one behind your back when he visiting home without you because of some "urgent matter") Is once again is all common sense, we live in a open society, right? Not a lot taboos when it comes to love, yet tell me how many older,divorced women , that cant have kids are married to young, never married no kids guys?! Not a lot, and yet even in our liberal society, still those sort of marriages cause lots of looks of disaprovemment including from families so you can imagine in a more traditional family centered society where having kids is as important as the marriage itself this kind of very little changes of being approved. Im sure your relationship is hiding from his parents, his family, and probably you dont even know the full name of his parents, yea as I said run for the hills. And if you continue to entice this delusion of no he loves me, he will have no rights to cry or complain, when he comes, uses you, gets his paper and divorce you using the same attributes to accept you or worse force you to accept( since you will be very married and too involved sentimentally with him) to accept him to marry an young, virgin girl, whom his either will make to come to move to your house or send YOUR MONEY to give her house, clothes, etc all the best in life. So Honey be real, and get out of this sinking ship before is too late. PS.: And yes he will get very angry with the slight mention of you questioning or dare to think that he wants you for VISA, he is not stupid, of course he would not say that he sees you at the golden ticket to the American dream. Or you think he will tell you:" yeah I think you are old, and definitely not worth me because you're a Kafir( infidel, Non-believer ,western person, non-Muslim, or Muslims from western)and I just send little gifts to trick you, and yes I want my own kids that I will do it when I use you to establish myself, so marry me and bring me to America" nor Visa Hunters have it written in the forehead ?! So yeah he will be very cunning with a false pride of Im Pakistani and I do not need go to US.... Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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