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response to KimberlyReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Donna (United States), Oct 25, 2014 at 18:15 Hi, no one can answer what another wants from you. You must have had some serious questions in your mind and heart to have found this site though. Mine was opposite from yours strung me along for over 3 years said he was 14 yrs my senior. Now he is targeting my best friend saying to her that he is mid 50's and has 3 children according to him, he even uses a different name with her. She heard his voice often over skype when I did not use headphones but he never saw or heard her. She recoginized his voice right away and she had seen all the photos and videos he had sent to me of him and family. With her he claims his oldest nephew 19 and his two twin sisters in their 20s are his children. Egypt I do not know about, whatever the man I fell for was, he was palestinine from Jordan. Do not trust what you are told, as I did. This person's 39 yr old brother finally told me the truth after an accident he had, that scared him badly. First and foremost if he is muslim they are not allowed by their religion to be online on camera with any female unless the intent is marriage, but mine was with numerous females anyway even online sex videos, and even one 14 yr old that he gave sex advice to. I last spoke to the person that fooled me for so long, april 1, and he has since contacted 7 of my friends trying to reach me. Think first how did you meet him and did he ask you quickly to come to him there. If you are financially stable as I am, this too they will target. I can understand this as they have little to nothing there and even in Jordan and I was willing to support the family of the man I fell in love with. Turned out I was one of many( 1 of 43) he had on spect always looking for the greener grass or simply got a sick sense of achievement from this, before deciding I guess. He even swore as a muslim I was the one and only. I took myself out of the number when the other ladies found and contacted me sending me emails and some videos I wish to this day I had never seen or heard. I will see these images and hear these sounds he made in my mind forever. In one, the married lady mentioned to him my name, said she heard rumors he was to marry me. He denied knowing me except as friend yet for over 3 years we had skyped up to 9 hours a day with his claims of undying love. She then informed him she would speak with me, he then told her all they had done would go public on internet if she did. She sent all to me and then told the others how to contact me. I doubt you will be his only online also. The only I know of egyptian men is what I have read here. Please read all well as far back as you can, you will see this is not a recent thing happening. Please be safe whatever your decision and protect yourself. Even with me having relatives in Jordan this man did this to me. Some of these men think that online conquest is just simply enjoyable and what they think of all but arab women is horrible. What they think of arab women, according to the man that targeted me and now my best friend, is that they are dumb ( which they are not, simply not allowed the freedom to speak) and simply for breeding and cleaning and cooking, as servants.)which according to him is why he fell in love with me because I could speak to him on an intelligent level. I was stupid and naive to ever have swallowed one word of his sweet talk and he could sweet talk. When in Jordan last we sat in a room about 10 females visiting and when the men are not around the women speak their true feelings three in that room sported bruises almost all said they feared their husbands more than loved. Only one used the word love but then said of course she cares about him he is the father of her children.Most there that I have met say they prefer not to marry at all than to live like that but most say their families will pressure them into marriage. The lady this person married may not have wanted to marry him either but he may still be married to her since muslim men are allowed 4 wives. In Islam it is the man that is to provide for the family but I have also seen this is not always followed either many men have put their wives and children to begging in Jordan while they dont work at all. Go to the newpaper articles from the part of Egypt he wants you to come to and read read read everything down to the smallest detail and even all the types of marriage contracts there are. If you marry a muslim man he has 100% control over you in everything. My prayers are with you, I hope you make the best choice for you. For me I don't even consider anyone at all after what this person put me through. Donna Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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