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Thank you LuigiReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Donna (United States), Sep 23, 2014 at 03:13 Yes I did finally change my home phones yesterday and have cut every chance of him or his family from contacting me again. I don't know really what he got from all of this, and he never talked sexual with me or ever tried to get me to. He did begin to insult me, my blonde/blue and my pale complexion and I was too thin. If I wasn't available to him on skype when he said he was so angry and would call the house phone or cell phone and tell me to get there right now. He never asked me for money but he did want to see the houses my parents left me and wanted to know about my finances. How could I have fallen for this man's lines? Yes he seemed so sweet, so compassionate at first. When he realized I had fallen for him, he started showing the real him. I kept thinking I was doing something wrong. He was 41 yrs old he said, and every time I thought how childish he acted, I thought to myself it must be me, he is too old to really be that person. I really believed this man, we would talk up to 9 hrs a day even after I had a long exhausting day at work. When I would tell him I was tired he would simply say but I need you with me right now. Yes I was stupid. We did talk medical since this was supposedly his field also, I was surprised at the lack of simple knowledge. I never even saw anything with even his name on it, I simply believed. The trips to Jordan to see my family when he was supposed to come and didn't, I don't regret. Even though distant cousins, with both my parents gone now it was nice to spend the time with them. When I would return to the USA he would contact me again with excuses. He also used to call me naive because I wait for marriage, and I even covered my hair when on skype with him. I wanted his respect above all, but now realize with what his brother told me and the things the others sent me I was his game. I wished I had never saw or heard what he said and did with the others, but no way he can talk his way out of that filth. He demeans himself and his family and has shown in no uncertain terms he has no morals and no honor and is by no definition a man. A man's age yes he looks over 50 easily I always thought he was just tired, but games such as these he plays on females are hurtful, immature and childish. The 14yr old broke my heart. The married ones should have been with their husbands instead of online with another man. Maybe I do see things too black and white, but I will live my life with my morals intact and try to be better with each passing day. I to this day I don't know what he gained and he did let me talk to his family, but how do I know for sure they were who he said they were now, he lied so very much. Thank you Luigi for listening, I have no trust left in me, and wish I could go back to that time when I did still have trust. He made me doubt myself in every way. He even went so far as to tell me not to talk to any males at all that they would come after me for money. Now I see this is how he valued me all along. Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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