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CarefulReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Donna (United States), Sep 13, 2014 at 17:37 The man that professed love for me also was Amman, Jordan. In his 40s and always spoke of all the men in Amman that made fun of women that spoke of sexual things online with them. Even some of his friends, one a married man with a very pregnant wife, his friend would play a woman online he told me with his wife out of site of skype listening to every word her husband spoke to this woman.They wanted a way out of Jordan through this woman. He told me his outrage and embarrassment over what his friends were doing. He is over 10yrs my senior. I will admit I was lonely and vunerable when met him. I believed every word he spoke to me. Turns out he was charming many many females besides me, aged from minors up through 50s and some of them married women. In my early 20s myself when I fell for him, feel stupid now.I don't know how but these women somehow found out about me one of the married ones sent me 23 emails he had sent to her saying in email the exact words he used to me daily. She was older than he was and when I forwarded these emails to him and asked him what was going on he told me all of those emails were forged and she had children and NO muslim man will ever raise another mans child nor is adoption in their religion and he called her a ***** because she was married and talking to him by email and messenger. Again I believed him. He did that ignore me thing every time I asked him about his contridictions in things he said to me would disappear for approx 3 days each time he was caught. I always ended up saying I was sorry for upsetting him, knowing I had done nothing wrong. He has been emailing many many women the whole time and online of camera with them also. The first lady apparently didn't just forward the emails but let the others she had found know how to contact me.I received videos of him with 5 females online proposing marriage to them also and many many other names he had done the same to. He had told me he loved me and only me and because of my beliefs on no physical before marriage I was the perfect wife for him. He also said a muslim man is not allowed by religion to be on camera with any female except that one he wishes to marry. In Jordan men get away with even rape of females look it up. The female is always blamed by law and there are females imprisoned there to protect them from honor killings from their family. Look up the case of the 14yr old kidnapped held for 3 days raped repeatedly then when the police found them she was forced to marry her kidnapper who was already married this was in July of 14. He got away with it because he married her. The men commit crimes of violence against women and get off scott free.Adultery is supposed to be punishable by death there, yet the man that kidnapped and raped that child was also married, He was not punished for kidnapping, rape or adultery. Women even older women get cat calls on the streets. There are good honest muslim men this I know. How do I know, this mans own brother warned me of his brothers cheating and lying. I was told by the man that I had fallen in love with that women are protected there they are not. Rape victims are offered two choices, marry your rapist, or if the family can get someone to marry you, or honor killing. So in other words live a life of hell with your rapist in terror or die. His brother is a good muslim man, he warned me away from his brother. These women sending me this information then his own brother warning me saved me. Also know that this man told me that many muslim men pay women in USA and Canada 10,000 marry them and get citizenship but all of those divorce and marry good virgin muslim women their mothers choose for them. He said he did not want to be in the USA so that was not his reason for wanting me. The mother goes and interviews prospective brides before the son ever speaks to her. I believe that most of his family are honorable people, I believe now he just got thrills hurting women from countries other than his own. The divorce rate there is higher than the USA now. I spoke to a lady who was from his family by phone and she had no ideal I had ever been to Jordan before. This call alone told me he lied and strung me along for what purpose I can not know. He had lied to his family and if they ever met me they would realize how much he lied to them. Lying to other women and me is one thing but to the mom and dad that put the roof over his head and feed and support him. I will be grateful to these women that sent me the information forever but most of all to his own brother who warned me away from him. Not all are bad, I just think it is the bad ones targeting online. Even after I told ths man I knew all, he still had the nerve to call me and and ask me was I coming to marry him. Petty of me but I answered Sure I Am and hung up. Several calls come in still but numbers are hidden, these I don't answer since this only started after I cut him out of my life. I was so broken hearted but even with what he did to me and all the others I will know that there are good in every walk of life and every religion. In my 20s I will only worry about my career now. He took every bit of trust I had out of me. After his brother warned me away from his brother, I researched very very well. Only about 2% of what this man had said to me was true. I will go back to Jordan again but only to visit and would never marry any man from there now knowing what I know. Even knowing there are good ones there. The queen is working hard there to get laws for rape victims and equal rights. But so far it has been voted down, and of course these votes were from men. Wonder how they would have voted or what would have happened if the rape victim had been one of their children. They would probably say it could never happen to their daughter but this child was kidnapped for 3 days before police found them. There are 100s of rapes there on the books, but most of them are not reported or even told to the family because of fear. Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". 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