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egyptian menReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by angeleyes (United Kingdom), Jun 7, 2014 at 04:40 I have been reading these threads for over a year and sometimes I wonder if its older women who can bear being dumped by their younger lover be it foreign or your own culture... harsh I know but its sad and true. No one likes being taken for a ride and as I say many on this sound the same apart from those who have had horrific consequences from theirs and finances, ways of living were all abused. All men and women can be crazy its just a case of keeping your wits and head above whats being said and done.. and yes sometimes reading things on the internet can be good but also too much as there are thousands that are not that way and gives others a bad name. Heres my story... June last year after being cheated and abused by my ex boyfriend who is British as me, I set up an account on that stupid site Badoo to find out why and how long he been on this site for, in that time I had many messages too.. I was chatting to someone whom at the time I had no idea he was from Egypt as his profile said Southampton, which is apparently where he was living with an ex wife some years before.. In our conversation he siad he worked in a hotel etc Ok I thought is possible.. some days later he asked for my skype addy, then he started saying nice things that all women want to hear, once he said " Im falling in love with you " I stepped back... this was mainly due to the hurt I had just gone through with the ex and really was not ready for anything else... he skyped every night, some days and this went on for months, then in conversations he would say stuff that I was reading in between the lines wasnt quite right somewhere.... for instance he would say his friend has a lady friend but he wants to be with the other one. After living in Britain for 10 years and going home for about a year he went back to his job in the hotel he was at a yr earlier, but 2 weeks before he came over he told me that he was speaking of himself as there was a lady he was close to who wants to be with him but he wants to be with me, again that was somethig else to make me step back another yard.... I said to him I would meet him but cannot say if anything more as I wasnt ready. then I noticed on his pictures another lady had made comments below which looked as if he was close to her too... I contacted her and she believed he was coming over in the august to be with her ... thats when everything was placed together in my head. So by August that was three of us that he was supposed to want. In the July he came over for a week to sirt his job out and came to see me for two days and im not sure where he was the other 5, and also he was supposed to go and see another but she was cancelled. All I would get from him was she is a good friend but I have to be gentle with the ither as she may commit suicide etc.. The lady that was cancelled sent me all the emails/skype they were doing from the march till august, while he was doing the same to me from the june to sugust, unfortunatey it didnt bother me as much as it did the the one as I had no intention of taking it further. Also on skype I would notice the friends number increase to be told this year that he has 10 accounts. So he has hundreds of people, he would call from home, internet cafes, tell me he couldnt call one night as had to go to a hospital as friend there etc..... he has pursued this till last month when he told me a few truths as he knew he was getting nowhere with me... it tunes out that he had a third child with the women he was apparently divorced from who is now 8 months.. which I never believed as he lived in the same house. He then said to me that I could stay at one of his flats if I decide to go to Egypt for a holiday in august. I said No why would I stay right next door to you where its not fair on your wife, he said what does that matter... but he never ever mentioned they were still married or had a relationship etc.... From august last year to april he been here and I not met up with him once, yet he calls.... still saying things like he wants me and to get married one day etc, we would argue as i could see what he was doing and I know I should have cut contact but wanted to see the level he would go to... In april he said his dad was ill and had to go back and he still in Egypt now but I ignore any messaged or calls. And still his contacts are increasing on skype... You see if you have an idea from the start get rid, if not then you know you could be entering into a danger zone.. I remained friedns just to se the level but not once did I fall for his charm and Im still single as Im still not ready for anything,, Unfortunately men from all over the world are as bad as the next, its just finding that special someone , it goes the same for women but I think some women tend to fall quicker hence they get hurt. 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