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I have also noticed hypocricyReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Lara Serbian girl (Serbia), Oct 13, 2013 at 17:00 And what else... Women and men dont seat at the same table for example in the front of their houses. It is normal for them to drink tea in the front of house, on the street, in the front of shops on the pavement of some not busy street. And as I was again in Alanya this year, and I was invited to drink tea with some hotel workers, in the front of hotel, I accepted. Women were near and were taking care about children, I suppose wife, and mother in low, at cetera... Those women were forbiden to speak with me. They mustnt speak with unknown people. Even if you lost your way and ask for help, they would not help you...And that child was cycling a little bicycle for children and approached to me.. Then he wanted to pass across my feet.. I couldnt believe how impolite that child was. Then he showed me his tongue... We can say that he was just child, but I think his mother supported that act, because that wasnt the first time child showed rudeness.. And those poor women were simply jealous... They were not treated as I was for those 10 days for all their lives.. I was princess, and they covered, silent shadows.. Ok if someone likes that, but for example I would die second day if someone tried to cover my head.. I really like Alanya, and I really felt safe there. I didnt have any bad experiance. Some guys wanted to speak, but they were students, tourists and many of them younger than me, so they showed their attention, but were not stubborn, if me and my friend girl wanted to be alone... About hypocrisy.. Yes it is very emerged. For example, Alanya is place where many people from neighbour villages work. In Turkey women are mostly housewifes, not all but mostly...I couldnt believe but they told me in villages they keep tradition. And one man who worked in hotel told me that I would be punished in his village because I am 30 and not married.. It means I didnt want to accept man and punishment is death. I was shocked... Those guys are really handsome, but they are really young and as they told me they didnt have any girls in their lives... I kept saying that I am just interested in speaking, and I didnt need love, or boyfriend. Also I was repeating that I am old for them, and they should try to find the same age girls.. Anyway.. I went out with one guy from there... I invited him for a beer at the caffe opposite hotel... After that his friend told me I led him to the hell..He was good before that, never visited place like that... bla, bla.. And he could have ordered juice like me.. not beer.. Another shock... Another day he wanted me to lead him again to that place... :D He got spoiled very fastly.. Then, his brother, cook of the same hotel, showed his feelings for me.. But if I was in some company he would ignore me.. Not even showing that we know each other?! For me it is not sin if you say hello! And if there were no people around he would telling me that he is in love, that he wants to get marry, my child.. bla, bla.. I was laughing... He was 22, without any experiance, but he asked me to show him, to sleep with him because I had men in my life... So it was also interesting for me to learn that after me, nothing is the same.. Even tradition.. I am kidding, but really how it is possible to be so nice, clean, without experiance waiting for the first girl in his life, wife, and than to forget about all of that when he met me.. I felt as a devil... :D As I realised that I am between two brothers. I expected that younger saw me first, and that he has adventige, but another shock! I belonged to the older. They made agreement, and younger was running away from me...I know younger liked me, but he didnt even want to speak with me.. Of course.. When I came back home, on fb both were chatting with me at the same time, saying that they will come very soon to visit me.. Of course they didnt speak about me between themselves... Anyway, sometimes you can see that they suffer because they are not free. And if some of them stands out, parents, and neighbourhood, and family, and all around would judge them. After my experiance with Turksih guy, what I have already written here, I started to feel sorry because they are not happy with their tradition, or are artificially happy, and also to be proud of women's rights in our countries!!! That deserves respect! :) Submitting....
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