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Jordanian man - how I found out who I am!

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Submitted by Alona (Croatia), Jan 2, 2013 at 12:48

Hello to everyone!

I am so glad I found this web site while searching and turning internet upside down in hope to find some answers about the situation I found myself in.

Prior to making this comment I want to share with you, I spent TWO MONTHS dedicated into reading and informing myself about Islamic culture, I started to read Quran, I searched for statistic data, I have seen more than 100 youtube videos on women rights in Islam, I talked to my Palestinian friends, to my Turkish friends, my family and I was constantly thinking and observing my brainstorming process.

What I have found while doing it was not only the answer about what to do in my particular situation, but it was also something more important - a whole NEW PERSPECTIVE ABOUT MYSELF and my psyche profile. That revelation shocked me, even though I knew I had problems, but this was the first time in my life I actually admited it to myself.

I wish every women in my situation to do the same.

So here's my story, in short, because my point here IS NOT what I have been through, but what I found out about myself!

I am European, 25 years old, with a master degree in Economics, with VERY attractive appearance and body every women would wish, fluent in English and German, have traveled three continents, worked in multicultural environment and very open minded young women.

I met my prince charming on a very first night I came to USA where I stayed for three months which I spend working on one environment project. I wasn't EVEN THINKING about having anything with him since he was a Muslim from Jordan, appeared much older than me and I was just buying a slice of pizza in a pizzeria he was working at. During that small talk we had I said where I'm from and where I'm working at. we had a pleasant conversations, he offered me help if I ever need anything and wrote down his email. At the end he didn't want me to pay.

Couple days later he popped out in front of my office asking if I need anything. I smiled and ignored him. A week after that, he called to my office asking me if I would accept if he send me a lunch. I said whatever and he did. After a while he started email me, soon we were texting all the time. Then we started dating. He told me he has been living in USA for 14 years and I asked him if he's married. He said he is, to American women and only for the papers. He was also in a relationship with an American-Spanish women who gave him a child and after three years ran away from him afraid he would steal that child from her.

After a while, we started a nice romantic relationship. I have never felt like that before. He treated me like a princess asking me EVERY SINGLE DAY how I'm doing or if I need anything. He bought me a lot of things, spent a lot of his time with me, fed me so many many times.

So you see. He didn't force me to do anything I DIDN'T WANT. He told me the truth about his situation right away and straight to my face. I knew there' s no future with a man who isn't free. But lack of knowledge about his culture and religion and the way he treated me, all those beautiful things he started saying to me, how beautiful I am, how he'll never disappoint me, how sexy i am, how smart I am. some intriguing veil of mystery he had combined with the fact he's not a free man and the whole relationship based on so many differences among two of us – THAT'S what really turned me on!

So tell me why would such a combination, SUCH A COMBINATION be attractive to any women with my description?

As the time of my returning to Europe was closer and closer I started to feel I have to end that 'no future thing' and I wanted to, but he was the one who came out with an idea he'll come to Europe to visit me. He made that promise and kept reminding me of it several times. I smiled and said I don't believe him. And I didn't. At the beginning.

So I came home. I have to mention that he was a gentleman till the very end. He took me to the airport and kissed me goodbye reminding me one more time about promise he made.

I thought that promise won't ring somewhere back, back, deep in my head and soon I'll be myself again, awoken and on my own life path. I was SO WRONG. As time was passing by, that promise and those words started to grow and grow drumming louder and louder and after a while, I found myself in desperate waiting and wishing him to come SO BADLY, thinking about future we might have and building a fairy tale scenario in my poisoned mind. And while I was doing it, at the same time, he stooped writing me so often, he stopped asking how I'm doing and every time I asked if he's working on his visa he seemed to me like he's retracting.

I found myself in an poisoned circle of examination. I was examining what we had, what we might have, who was he. I started to read, to inform myself... and the most important – I STARTED TO QUESTION WHO AM I?

I read an article made by a woman, who was working with western women who had problems with their Muslim husbands.

One part of that article LITERALLY opened my eyes:

'As a professional counselor, I find that women vulnerable to charming Arab men, (and they can be SO charming), are, almost 100 percent, woman from dysfunctional families, with low self-esteem. And they have limited ability to see options for their futures. I would URGE women to seek help for recovery from past family dysfunction before marriage. Many have been sexually abused as children or teenagers. I believe that their psychological/emotional needs, deep seated, make them vulnerable to Islamic men, and unsure of a relationship with Jesus Christ as the living God of love and power and forgiveness. I see many American women with what I label, "The mid-forties and unmarried panic."

I lost my father who was killed in a war when I was only 7 years old. I was the one who was playing in a backyard of my grandparent's house when neighbour seated me in his lap touching my genitals. I am the one whose mother has children with 3 different man and she has never married to any of them. I am the one whose sister ended up pregnant when she was 18, I am the one whose brother made a child when he was a teenager, I am the one whose other brother also made a child to his girlfriend and they made an abortion couple of months ago. I am the one who had never, never lived in a healthy family environment. I am the one who was always looking at my mother who was so desperate without a man's protection. I am the one who was always emotionally vulnerable to men with problems and no matter how well educated, smart, intelligent and open minded I am, still I am the one who has a big, big, deep emotional gap with no clear picture of a man who can and will protect me one day.

Can you imagine what a shocking revelation it was?

So my dear ladies, ask yourself who you are and what your problems are. Search. Ask. Inform yourself. And ask yourself what kind of future do you want! Time is running, will you ever forgive yourself if you spend so many years in a relationship with a WRONG MAN?

Being here and spending time on this forum is a GREAT start. If you are here – there is a doubt, isn't it?

If you wonder what happened with my situation after I figured out how unstable I am, I'll tell you.

I took my phone and erased ALL messages I kept just to read and remind myself from time to time on those beautiful words he said once. ALL. I erased all pictures of him I had. ALL. I also erased all the songs we were listening together. I gave things he bought me to my friends. And when I did all those things, I set down and did the very last thing I had to do. And the hardest thing, trust me. I wrote an email, short but straight, in which I said I don't want to see him, there's no need for him to come and I think the best would be if we remember our time spent together as a romantic relationship, beautiful for both sides. After I sent it, I deleted ALL emails we have ever sent to each other. He never responded. Even if he was, I wouldn't reply.

I felt such, SUCH a big relief. Like there was a little devil on my right shoulder and I've just shaked it off.

I AM SO THANKFUL FOR THIS EXPERIENCE. I started to believe that God sometimes gives us signs and option to choose in order to find out about ourselves and make right decisions.

I have better things in my life to do. First to work on myself and my self esteem. As a new year's decision, I decided to set an appointment with psychologist.

I have to try harder to stick to MY GOALS IN MY LIFE. I have to be focused on myself and on my career. If I won't care about myself, who will? I'll end up in a line with all those miserable and used women all around the world.

I hope you learned from my experience. I surely did and I feel good!

I wish you luck!


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14My ability to love has been taken away [133 words]SheilaJan 7, 2018 07:17241786
8True love for 2018 [247 words]ItranJan 15, 2018 14:03241786
4You are doing just fine. [91 words]BaudhayanaJan 16, 2018 07:05241786
12me too Sheila [454 words]ChelseaJan 19, 2018 14:45241786
7Love [50 words]LinaJan 19, 2018 15:31241786
2Thank you [45 words]SheilaJan 20, 2018 08:55241786
12Sixth Sense [412 words]SherryJan 20, 2018 18:03241786
5How did you hack ? [15 words]ItranJan 24, 2018 12:35241786
7Learn his religion [168 words]LinaJan 25, 2018 19:04241786
9gigolos use for money. [13 words]LeannJan 27, 2018 04:20241786
10Arab men [119 words]SherryJan 29, 2018 12:28241786
4Me too [6 words]OlgaJan 31, 2018 21:57241786
10Hypocrisy [300 words]LinaFeb 1, 2018 14:54241786
6Hack [89 words]SherryFeb 5, 2018 01:53241786
1Sheila can you help me ? [43 words]ItranFeb 5, 2018 15:57241786
2You mean Sherry [14 words]jessica (canada)Feb 9, 2018 18:59241786
Yes sorry Sherry not Sheila [13 words]ItranFeb 12, 2018 15:28241786
8I agree Sherry [138 words]SheilaFeb 12, 2018 17:42241786
5AGREED. TOO FAR FOR MY TASTE [33 words]Candy AppleFeb 13, 2018 21:27241786
4I agree with you,Sheila!Hello All!!! [310 words]Lana(USA)Feb 13, 2018 21:45241786
16Beware of Moroccan snakes [115 words]NikkiJan 7, 2018 02:53241784
4Happy to note you are free. [31 words]LotusJan 9, 2018 07:36241784
3sorry you had to go through this [38 words]ChelseaJan 11, 2018 19:33241784
3Response to lotus [108 words]NikkiJan 15, 2018 02:35241784
5I want to read and comment [6 words]
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10Ladies,please stop loving bad (for your well being )men!!!! [194 words]Lana (USA)Dec 14, 2017 13:36241567
10I am exactly where you are.... [118 words]ChelseaDec 21, 2017 18:16241567
20WARNING [71 words]CherylDec 11, 2017 21:54241540
8Very true [55 words]LinaDec 13, 2017 18:17241540
8I hope everyone will heed your warning. [118 words]ChelseaDec 13, 2017 22:37241540
13True [112 words]SabDec 17, 2017 15:50241540
16Oh really. [102 words]Candy AppleDec 26, 2017 22:31241540
14warning [398 words]sadDec 28, 2017 19:29241540
7Be very careful [127 words]Moroccan newsJan 2, 2018 08:45241540
13You are so confused [340 words]ChelseaJan 5, 2018 00:18241540
16Damn right [83 words]SabJan 5, 2018 15:45241540
6Amen to that Chelsea [38 words]SheilaJan 7, 2018 07:22241540
6Reply to Sab [93 words]SheilaJan 7, 2018 07:28241540
7Not prideful. Sick of working for countries that hate us [66 words]ChelseaJan 8, 2018 16:48241540
3Candy Apple [27 words]SiobhanJan 11, 2018 16:07241540
7You should have been thinking first... [64 words]SabJan 12, 2018 07:44241540
6Really? [149 words]SabJan 15, 2018 03:56241540
8Stop judging the entire country [188 words]SheilaJan 15, 2018 04:27241540
5A post I read [70 words]SheilaJan 15, 2018 04:55241540
6No problem with Europe [213 words]Candy AppleJan 17, 2018 17:13241540
3Sab it right you got played for money [74 words]LisaFeb 3, 2018 09:13241540
8I need someone to guide me [603 words]MontseDec 7, 2017 16:47241488
11Where are you now? [224 words]ChelseaDec 13, 2017 22:22241488
3talk to an immigration attorney [107 words]WillowDec 14, 2017 20:26241488
4Sounds confusing... [41 words]SabDec 17, 2017 15:39241488
1Yes I was wondering the same [196 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedDec 19, 2017 22:29241488
Did Anyone Help You? [41 words]YtDec 21, 2017 10:31241488
1Did Anyone Help You? [41 words]YtDec 22, 2017 12:12241488
1Get your green card and then RUN [18 words]MaryDec 25, 2017 11:26241488
7Or be a woman of honor and ... [50 words]PrashantDec 31, 2017 09:09241488
7Sad isn't it? [75 words]LotusJan 9, 2018 07:43241488
3reply to somebody to giude me. [108 words]AndrewJan 21, 2018 06:05241488
2A Portrait of Mysogynistic Behavior [72 words]TasiaApr 28, 2018 22:25241488
16Can anybody please give me some advice about egyptian man? [640 words]LiannaDec 3, 2017 19:53241463
10Beach resorts [124 words]LinaDec 4, 2017 05:38241463
8YES [8 words]ChelseaDec 4, 2017 21:05241463
10Any advice Egyptian men [14 words]deannaDec 8, 2017 07:12241463
11Yep [88 words]SabDec 9, 2017 18:26241463
13Advice re: Egyptian Man [680 words]Jordana Ghannam-Ahmed, EgyptDec 10, 2017 00:49241463
8Be strong [334 words]ItranDec 11, 2017 18:02241463
10Scam [340 words]Sofia magdyDec 13, 2017 19:53241463
5VERY True [255 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedDec 19, 2017 22:44241463
1did go to egypt [360 words]LiannaDec 28, 2017 08:15241463
10No, no, no [140 words]LinaJan 2, 2018 06:13241463
11Run ..Run..Run [944 words]SherryJan 2, 2018 10:44241463
3Really? [61 words]SabJan 5, 2018 15:54241463
1Egyptian mam [25 words]Weronika NastalyJan 7, 2018 14:16241463
4advise from arab Christian [20 words]jerusalemmasterJan 19, 2018 06:58241463
6The referenced story [53 words]AHMED OSMANJan 31, 2018 19:30241463
9Money issues [135 words]SherryMar 2, 2018 18:11241463

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