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in response to reader comment: Iraqi man - comment from Straight talk Luigi

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Dec 20, 2012 at 21:32

Is there a way to upload a photo?

There is not currently a feature for that. You can link to external websites, however.

Are you a man or a woman? Just curious.

A man.

I would like to know however what makes you think I am much older? You mentioned it was obvious from the "Get Go".

Because almost all the stories on here about women who are 35 and older. The posting pattern on here is very similar. As I mentioned earlier, I grew up with the internet and have been blogging for well over a decade. I can tell by what people say and how they write. Call it a hunch mixed with experience.

I wish there was a way to upload a photo of us both so you could see for yourself. I am older, but it has never mattered to him.

And I wish you could see that is said on to women on here all the time. I've had older women from Latin America and Russia tell me the same thing.

I keep reading the posts here and I am beginning to think for every bad story, there is also a site with very good stories

That's come up in previous discussion on here. There isn't going to be a big site with lots of good stories because people who are in good romantic relationships do not need to defend their partner on-line. It's even occurred to me that people who do this may even be defending their relationship at the exact same time their partner is cheating on them. In the case of international men from places Iraq, Most Iraqi Muslim men will marry Iraqi women.

By the way, have you ever seen one of the men described on here defend his relationship with a Western woman 20 years older than him?

I am hoping to fall into the good story category. It is a real shame that there are so many horrible stories on this site but being older I am a little more cautious than most.

Being cautious may not get you anywhere. There's a difference between being cautious and poking holes your date, figuratively speaking, but that usually happens on the first few dates. You're still doing this because you don't have enough information and though you like to say that (perhaps provocatively) that what he says is better, the reality is that you don't trust him.

At some point, you will need to make a decision, and the problem with on-line dating is that you don't have enough information. If you did, you wouldn't be on here. Your hope by questioning all this advice is to exhaust your doubts and maybe even find information you're not getting from him.

That is why this relationship is a waste of time.

I have since spoke to my Iraqi man, whose name is Hussein, about a lot of the conversation and posts.

I figured that, and his response, of course, is predictable:

It does sadden him and he is adamant that the percentage of bad people gives all middle eastern men a bad name.

You have to take that with a grain of salt. Most of the good Middle Eastern men are with good, compatible Middle Eastern women. That's what happens on planet earth: people will date and marry other people who look and think like them. It also means the success of the relationship has a better chance.

Besides, women tend to write off ALL men for a while once they've had a really bad experience. It's normal, and it does reflect on here. That really can't be stopped by me.

This forum is not a litmus test for all Muslim men, rather, it is a test for men who seek to lie and scam women on-line or while they are on vacation (holiday).

He did tell me something new, his mom is Shia and she married a Sunni. Hussein also shared with me that his cousin, who was married last April, was Sunni and married a Shia. He also has many friends both Shia and Sunni.

Stop right there. Why did he say that? Because you told him we said it is odd in Iraq to have mixed Shia/Sunni families?

That's real convenient.

Hussein is not a very religious man,

Your impression of this also concerns me. The fact that a man takes a break from his religion to have sex or mess around does not he's about to give up wholesale just for you.

Furthermore, some religious men expect their wife (or wives) to be as perfectly religious as possible and dole out all the homemaker chores while he acts modern and has nights out on the town.

At the very least, this won't be as simple and easy as you are trying to convince me that it is.

and it was only a few years ago that he learned the difference between Shia and Sunni. he still doesn't understand where the opinions come from

Oh, just from people and women who've almost exactly where you've been completely scammed and lied to.

and said that life is Iraq is like most places..You have the very religious and the not so religious and all try to live in peace and keep harmony.

That's splitting hairs now. You shouldn't have to use Iraq's cultural & political landscape to justify this relationship.

There was a comment I received that men in Iraq would not have girl friends because men are not allowed to date. Quite the contrary, and he even showed me video from Iraq of mostly college girls and guys dating.

I'd say that video, assuming it was what he told you it was, is not representative of what Muslim scholars and those in power in the Middle East have envisioned. It's not as uncommon as you think, and despite the reputation of conservative religious nations you can still find sex and party if you know where to look, not that I would recommend it.

For you, Guest, that wouldn't help you in legal dispute over there. The fact some teenage kids in the Third World mess around when the powers in national government that be aren't looking is a pretty weak justification that things over in the Middle East aren't as unfair as we think.

Just remember that when you go there or move there or do businesses there, it's not sexed-up college kids who running the place.

I'm really not sure where a lot of the people on this site get their information from,

Try years of personal experience and in my case nearly two decades of watching the internet evolve and devolve. I myself had nearly a decade of off and on internet dating including investigations.

You wouldn't believe the stuff I've found over the years: Photos stolen from Hawaiian models used as dating profile pics to cases where it even seemed like men were talking to me instead of women.

I've lived with Middle Eastern men more than most women on this site, maybe even more so than some of the married ones.

but I would be more apt to believe someone that lives in Iraq than what most Americans are fed about the middle east.

That someone could be lying to you about a lot of things. Besides, this isn't even about Iraq and the Middle East. It's about you and a relationship with an Iraqi man.

We as U.S. citizens must know that the news only tells us what they want us to believe, which has been going on for decades, vietnam is a good example of that. I believe all over the world, not just the middle east, that their can be "nominal" muslims or non-practicing Muslims and that the faith itself is not to the extreme side of conservative that western media would have us believe, BUT I believe there are an extreme few that would gladly give the media those few seconds of video to allow that view to continue. Like any religion or group (shia/sunni) not all muslims (or christians) think alike.

Now you're reaching. Western media and Muslim sects have nothing to do with you and this man.

No ideology is above critique. I think a lot of people on this blog confuse ideology with the individual.

We don't, and this blog has very little to do with Islamic theology. Those who want to make this about race, religion or ethnic origin fail every time because it is just a distraction.

This blog is about dating scammers and liars, which have no bearing on culture, race, gender or religion. You could take your story or most any of the others on here and replace man with woman and Hussein with Susy-Q and Iraq with Russia or South America and it would make no difference.

So, with what I have said so far, do you still see warning signs?

Yes, and even more so now. I can see that you've taken considerable time to respond to me and that you are now talking about global issues and judging Muslims instead of your relationship.

Seen it all before one too many times.

Hardly. just someone like myself trying to make sense of everything when there really isn't any.

The reason you can't make sense is because you don't have enough information and you're not getting what you need from your partner. And to large extent, you think you can find that on here.

I can can assure you the age thing doesn't enter the equation and I was not keeping it from the group,

It does enter into the equation and would even if you dated a younger guy down the street. In nearly every relationship described on this board, the woman is older. How many solid relationships do you know where an international man and a woman 10-20 years his senior is flourishing?

just didn't think it was an issue.

It would even be an issue if you were dating a 32 year-old American male, because he has not lived most of his life as an adult. You have, and the difference here is very stark.

The women he dated before were also older. guess he just likes older women.

Older, single women with kids are sought after on-line and while they are on vacation (holiday). I am a man, and for some men, those characteristics are like a bleeding seal to a shark, especially on the internet.

but I will take your advice as I am always guarded when it comes to younger men wanting to date me. flattered as i may be, I still can't get used to it.

That's because your feminine instincts, to their credit, won't let you. That is why women on here who say "well I'll marry my man and take a chance" with a nervous laugh are never really sure. Others will defend their relationship through clenched teeth insisting that what they have is so great and wonderful.

Even women who are married do this, and make no mistake, marriage is not the finish line. In a lot of cases, all a marriage does is form a legal contract involves the state and other people have to step in and clean up the mess afterwards---just like two college kids who play house, split up and the courts or an arbitrator like Judge Judy decides who gets what, and the courts will concern themselves much less than I will with the relationship drama that is consistently bleated about on this board.

Scammers and liars can take months, even years to reveal their full colours, and one thing a lot of them have in common is they are very patient.

In one case, an Idaho man married a Russian girl. He went out of his way to make her feel welcome: got her contacts in the local community who culturally relate and everything. She repaid by waiting for legal documentation, and once she had a valid US driver's license, she was gone.

I do like defending him because I think what he has to say has been far more worthy than some of the advice I have gotten on this site.

That's because he tells you exactly what you want to hear and your feelings are obviously biased. The advice on this site isn't supposed to be fun or romantically stimulating. It's about the truth.

I wonder what is more fun for you now---defending him or talking to him.

Do you think that he spends a lot or even a little time defending you?

and what has happened to a lot of women and middle eastern men. but I also believe that not everyone is like this.

The people "who are not like this" don't really need the internet to find international love.

Just google sites and plenty come up about wonderful relationships with muslim and non muslims.

I did. Where are these sites? The only one I find is this one a few scattered forums that don't bother to go into the detail or have the experiences on here. I don't see people bragging about relationships of any kind.

In fact, other than this site, I've only seen it happen on myspace between college kids and teenagers.

People who are in such wonderful relationships do not need to defend them or validate them with strangers on-line.

I really wonder, Guest, how much time you are taking to respond to those posts. As much as you say that what your man says is better, you sure seem to spend a lot of time thinking about this site.


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4Living for the Moment [28 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiMay 22, 2016 20:28229351
5for taking chances [126 words]chumpitaMay 23, 2016 20:41229351
3I'm sorry [34 words]lostMay 25, 2016 14:57229351
7I think he is psycho [124 words]Khaled MagarMay 29, 2016 07:25229351
To Luigi [89 words]LiaJun 5, 2016 16:52229351
6Living for the moment [89 words]CynthiaJun 7, 2016 01:01229351
4To Janna [134 words]Confused no moreJun 20, 2016 09:58229351
2Confused no more [41 words]SiobhanJun 23, 2016 07:38229351
2To siobhan [29 words]Confused no moreJun 26, 2016 16:00229351
9Cheating Arab boyfriend [140 words]CeciliaMay 7, 2016 15:09229336
9I think your friends are right [233 words]CynthiaMay 9, 2016 08:48229336
7BEware be aware [86 words]Maryam MurshedMay 11, 2016 22:21229336
3Totally disagree on meeting the mother [378 words]MandyMay 19, 2016 20:12229336
1Mandy [97 words]LiaMay 22, 2016 12:41229336
3Time to Move On---Saudi Boyfriend [35 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiMay 22, 2016 20:37229336
7To Lia [401 words]HopeMay 23, 2016 04:10229336
Lia Sweden [224 words]MandyMay 23, 2016 13:41229336
4Cecilia I am sorry may i am rude in my response but these bad behavior from men we think are Muslims but the are not true Muslim [149 words]mohammadJun 11, 2016 08:53229336
1Hi Mohammad [66 words]CeciliaJun 19, 2016 05:13229336
1Don't ever waste even a second to leave him [18 words]WishJun 27, 2016 14:15229336
3Be careful [154 words]AnnMay 6, 2016 16:14229307
5SCAM! [122 words]annonymousMay 14, 2016 23:16229307
2Be careful [126 words]AnnMay 18, 2016 17:16229307
3Watch him [102 words]SusanMay 30, 2016 06:30229307
6Do I have reason to be worried [185 words]Not SureApr 22, 2016 01:02229101
4Do I have reason to be worried? [91 words]angelina07Apr 23, 2016 10:33229101
13To Not Sure [246 words]HopeApr 23, 2016 15:48229101
9Not Sure [466 words]HurtingApr 24, 2016 12:41229101
7a wide net [25 words]imadeitoutaliveApr 24, 2016 17:26229101
9Please I need support from others who know [314 words]Not SureApr 27, 2016 09:57229101
7To Not Sure [249 words]HopeMay 1, 2016 03:27229101
3for Not Sure [19 words]SiobhanMay 1, 2016 04:48229101
6Not sure your life is more important [283 words]CynthiaMay 1, 2016 15:18229101
7To Not Sure [44 words]CleoMay 1, 2016 20:14229101
5To not sure [192 words]BebeMay 3, 2016 16:40229101
10I'm feeling better without him [237 words]Not SureMay 4, 2016 21:22229101
2BE strong [35 words]SueMay 5, 2016 01:15229101
7To Not Sure, please love yourself [218 words]ShömiMay 5, 2016 18:16229101
3Take time to know him better in real life [107 words]laiMay 7, 2016 10:46229101
2Tell your friend to run Sue [102 words]Not SureMay 7, 2016 11:00229101
3Thank you Shomi [65 words]Not SureMay 7, 2016 11:06229101
4Congratulations dear [25 words]StarMay 11, 2016 18:23229101
9things are not what they seem [157 words]Maryam MurshedMay 11, 2016 22:32229101
3hope is right [47 words]annonymousMay 14, 2016 23:21229101
6Everything commented on here is true [214 words]Not SureMay 15, 2016 10:21229101
4To Not Sure [256 words]HopeMay 16, 2016 14:49229101
3In response to Not Sure [332 words]ShömiMay 18, 2016 17:05229101
Not sure United States mail me [170 words]MandyMay 19, 2016 20:23229101
4I agree [116 words]Not SureMay 20, 2016 16:52229101
2leave, there are options [67 words]maryqueenofAKMay 21, 2016 20:50229101
not sure [73 words]LiaMay 22, 2016 13:04229101
3Not Worth the Drama [32 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiMay 22, 2016 20:34229101
You are not alone x [1461 words]ZoeMay 22, 2016 21:29229101
43be careful [1027 words]
w/response from Daniel Pipes
imadeitoutaliveApr 11, 2016 22:51228893
11I feel for you [236 words]BebeApr 12, 2016 16:19228893
10Hello imadeitoutalive [98 words]CynthiaApr 12, 2016 16:30228893
7To "be careful " [56 words]DariaApr 12, 2016 23:42228893
8For imadeitoutalive [78 words]SiobhanApr 16, 2016 22:08228893
4imadeitoutalive you're my inspiration [156 words]HurtingApr 24, 2016 12:50228893
4i feel better every day [216 words]imadeitoutaliveApr 24, 2016 18:00228893
7To IMadeItOutAlive [261 words]HopeApr 26, 2016 10:08228893
3im soo sorry it happened to me too! [251 words]annonymousMay 14, 2016 23:50228893
5Very bad experience with Algerian guy [214 words]LondonMay 21, 2016 23:44228893
egyptian men [85 words]ERIKAJun 2, 2016 08:33228893
1response to imadeitoutalive [527 words]FrancescaJun 19, 2016 01:03228893
14Moroccan Guy [333 words]OpheliaMar 30, 2016 06:44228641
7Fast "I Love You" And Taking Fun Trip --Listen to your BRAIN..... [195 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiApr 4, 2016 02:11228641
12Moroccan guy [118 words]CynthiaApr 4, 2016 07:34228641
27What happens next [1025 words]ShömiApr 4, 2016 08:37228641
8Moroccan Guy [29 words]JApr 4, 2016 09:52228641
5Omg... [46 words]AliceApr 4, 2016 13:41228641
23Answer to Ophelia "Moroccan guy". Why to be careful, and what happens in his mind [690 words]MonteApr 6, 2016 10:27228641
14This was good advice in 2011 [213 words]To OpheliaApr 7, 2016 05:55228641
6Narcissistic Personality Disorder [150 words]AliceApr 8, 2016 04:59228641
8he is a pathetic liar [65 words]ahmed elbakryApr 9, 2016 10:06228641
3Thank you.. [355 words]OpheliaApr 10, 2016 06:44228641
5For Shomi [175 words]OpheliaApr 10, 2016 06:54228641
3To Monte [101 words]OpheliaApr 10, 2016 07:13228641
7I would not risk it Ophelia [120 words]imadeitoutaliveApr 12, 2016 10:52228641
2I would not risk it Ophelia [120 words]imadeitoutaliveApr 12, 2016 10:52228641
4Hello Ophelia [24 words]CynthiaApr 12, 2016 16:35228641
4Mindset in a scam [251 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiApr 12, 2016 19:13228641
14For Ophelia [570 words]ShömiApr 14, 2016 13:39228641
14Shocked at the amount of prostitution [159 words]AlApr 15, 2016 14:10228641
4To Al [150 words]ShömiApr 21, 2016 22:58228641
11Love rats [278 words]MaritApr 25, 2016 13:32228641
2Moroccan man [49 words]Beverly MiklaszewskiApr 28, 2016 08:47228641
Relationship three years with Mortician Man [650 words]TinaMay 23, 2016 20:35228641
3Relationship three years with Mortician Man [648 words]TinaMay 23, 2016 21:19228641
4Narcissistic Personality Disorder [156 words]AgnieszkaMay 31, 2016 15:40228641
Happy Moroccan relationship [773 words]Stephanie MckenzieJul 16, 2016 20:02228641

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