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in response to reader comment: Iraqi man - comment from Straight talk Luigi

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Dec 20, 2012 at 21:32

Is there a way to upload a photo?

There is not currently a feature for that. You can link to external websites, however.

Are you a man or a woman? Just curious.

A man.

I would like to know however what makes you think I am much older? You mentioned it was obvious from the "Get Go".

Because almost all the stories on here about women who are 35 and older. The posting pattern on here is very similar. As I mentioned earlier, I grew up with the internet and have been blogging for well over a decade. I can tell by what people say and how they write. Call it a hunch mixed with experience.

I wish there was a way to upload a photo of us both so you could see for yourself. I am older, but it has never mattered to him.

And I wish you could see that is said on to women on here all the time. I've had older women from Latin America and Russia tell me the same thing.

I keep reading the posts here and I am beginning to think for every bad story, there is also a site with very good stories

That's come up in previous discussion on here. There isn't going to be a big site with lots of good stories because people who are in good romantic relationships do not need to defend their partner on-line. It's even occurred to me that people who do this may even be defending their relationship at the exact same time their partner is cheating on them. In the case of international men from places Iraq, Most Iraqi Muslim men will marry Iraqi women.

By the way, have you ever seen one of the men described on here defend his relationship with a Western woman 20 years older than him?

I am hoping to fall into the good story category. It is a real shame that there are so many horrible stories on this site but being older I am a little more cautious than most.

Being cautious may not get you anywhere. There's a difference between being cautious and poking holes your date, figuratively speaking, but that usually happens on the first few dates. You're still doing this because you don't have enough information and though you like to say that (perhaps provocatively) that what he says is better, the reality is that you don't trust him.

At some point, you will need to make a decision, and the problem with on-line dating is that you don't have enough information. If you did, you wouldn't be on here. Your hope by questioning all this advice is to exhaust your doubts and maybe even find information you're not getting from him.

That is why this relationship is a waste of time.

I have since spoke to my Iraqi man, whose name is Hussein, about a lot of the conversation and posts.

I figured that, and his response, of course, is predictable:

It does sadden him and he is adamant that the percentage of bad people gives all middle eastern men a bad name.

You have to take that with a grain of salt. Most of the good Middle Eastern men are with good, compatible Middle Eastern women. That's what happens on planet earth: people will date and marry other people who look and think like them. It also means the success of the relationship has a better chance.

Besides, women tend to write off ALL men for a while once they've had a really bad experience. It's normal, and it does reflect on here. That really can't be stopped by me.

This forum is not a litmus test for all Muslim men, rather, it is a test for men who seek to lie and scam women on-line or while they are on vacation (holiday).

He did tell me something new, his mom is Shia and she married a Sunni. Hussein also shared with me that his cousin, who was married last April, was Sunni and married a Shia. He also has many friends both Shia and Sunni.

Stop right there. Why did he say that? Because you told him we said it is odd in Iraq to have mixed Shia/Sunni families?

That's real convenient.

Hussein is not a very religious man,

Your impression of this also concerns me. The fact that a man takes a break from his religion to have sex or mess around does not he's about to give up wholesale just for you.

Furthermore, some religious men expect their wife (or wives) to be as perfectly religious as possible and dole out all the homemaker chores while he acts modern and has nights out on the town.

At the very least, this won't be as simple and easy as you are trying to convince me that it is.

and it was only a few years ago that he learned the difference between Shia and Sunni. he still doesn't understand where the opinions come from

Oh, just from people and women who've almost exactly where you've been completely scammed and lied to.

and said that life is Iraq is like most places..You have the very religious and the not so religious and all try to live in peace and keep harmony.

That's splitting hairs now. You shouldn't have to use Iraq's cultural & political landscape to justify this relationship.

There was a comment I received that men in Iraq would not have girl friends because men are not allowed to date. Quite the contrary, and he even showed me video from Iraq of mostly college girls and guys dating.

I'd say that video, assuming it was what he told you it was, is not representative of what Muslim scholars and those in power in the Middle East have envisioned. It's not as uncommon as you think, and despite the reputation of conservative religious nations you can still find sex and party if you know where to look, not that I would recommend it.

For you, Guest, that wouldn't help you in legal dispute over there. The fact some teenage kids in the Third World mess around when the powers in national government that be aren't looking is a pretty weak justification that things over in the Middle East aren't as unfair as we think.

Just remember that when you go there or move there or do businesses there, it's not sexed-up college kids who running the place.

I'm really not sure where a lot of the people on this site get their information from,

Try years of personal experience and in my case nearly two decades of watching the internet evolve and devolve. I myself had nearly a decade of off and on internet dating including investigations.

You wouldn't believe the stuff I've found over the years: Photos stolen from Hawaiian models used as dating profile pics to cases where it even seemed like men were talking to me instead of women.

I've lived with Middle Eastern men more than most women on this site, maybe even more so than some of the married ones.

but I would be more apt to believe someone that lives in Iraq than what most Americans are fed about the middle east.

That someone could be lying to you about a lot of things. Besides, this isn't even about Iraq and the Middle East. It's about you and a relationship with an Iraqi man.

We as U.S. citizens must know that the news only tells us what they want us to believe, which has been going on for decades, vietnam is a good example of that. I believe all over the world, not just the middle east, that their can be "nominal" muslims or non-practicing Muslims and that the faith itself is not to the extreme side of conservative that western media would have us believe, BUT I believe there are an extreme few that would gladly give the media those few seconds of video to allow that view to continue. Like any religion or group (shia/sunni) not all muslims (or christians) think alike.

Now you're reaching. Western media and Muslim sects have nothing to do with you and this man.

No ideology is above critique. I think a lot of people on this blog confuse ideology with the individual.

We don't, and this blog has very little to do with Islamic theology. Those who want to make this about race, religion or ethnic origin fail every time because it is just a distraction.

This blog is about dating scammers and liars, which have no bearing on culture, race, gender or religion. You could take your story or most any of the others on here and replace man with woman and Hussein with Susy-Q and Iraq with Russia or South America and it would make no difference.

So, with what I have said so far, do you still see warning signs?

Yes, and even more so now. I can see that you've taken considerable time to respond to me and that you are now talking about global issues and judging Muslims instead of your relationship.

Seen it all before one too many times.

Hardly. just someone like myself trying to make sense of everything when there really isn't any.

The reason you can't make sense is because you don't have enough information and you're not getting what you need from your partner. And to large extent, you think you can find that on here.

I can can assure you the age thing doesn't enter the equation and I was not keeping it from the group,

It does enter into the equation and would even if you dated a younger guy down the street. In nearly every relationship described on this board, the woman is older. How many solid relationships do you know where an international man and a woman 10-20 years his senior is flourishing?

just didn't think it was an issue.

It would even be an issue if you were dating a 32 year-old American male, because he has not lived most of his life as an adult. You have, and the difference here is very stark.

The women he dated before were also older. guess he just likes older women.

Older, single women with kids are sought after on-line and while they are on vacation (holiday). I am a man, and for some men, those characteristics are like a bleeding seal to a shark, especially on the internet.

but I will take your advice as I am always guarded when it comes to younger men wanting to date me. flattered as i may be, I still can't get used to it.

That's because your feminine instincts, to their credit, won't let you. That is why women on here who say "well I'll marry my man and take a chance" with a nervous laugh are never really sure. Others will defend their relationship through clenched teeth insisting that what they have is so great and wonderful.

Even women who are married do this, and make no mistake, marriage is not the finish line. In a lot of cases, all a marriage does is form a legal contract involves the state and other people have to step in and clean up the mess afterwards---just like two college kids who play house, split up and the courts or an arbitrator like Judge Judy decides who gets what, and the courts will concern themselves much less than I will with the relationship drama that is consistently bleated about on this board.

Scammers and liars can take months, even years to reveal their full colours, and one thing a lot of them have in common is they are very patient.

In one case, an Idaho man married a Russian girl. He went out of his way to make her feel welcome: got her contacts in the local community who culturally relate and everything. She repaid by waiting for legal documentation, and once she had a valid US driver's license, she was gone.

I do like defending him because I think what he has to say has been far more worthy than some of the advice I have gotten on this site.

That's because he tells you exactly what you want to hear and your feelings are obviously biased. The advice on this site isn't supposed to be fun or romantically stimulating. It's about the truth.

I wonder what is more fun for you now---defending him or talking to him.

Do you think that he spends a lot or even a little time defending you?

and what has happened to a lot of women and middle eastern men. but I also believe that not everyone is like this.

The people "who are not like this" don't really need the internet to find international love.

Just google sites and plenty come up about wonderful relationships with muslim and non muslims.

I did. Where are these sites? The only one I find is this one a few scattered forums that don't bother to go into the detail or have the experiences on here. I don't see people bragging about relationships of any kind.

In fact, other than this site, I've only seen it happen on myspace between college kids and teenagers.

People who are in such wonderful relationships do not need to defend them or validate them with strangers on-line.

I really wonder, Guest, how much time you are taking to respond to those posts. As much as you say that what your man says is better, you sure seem to spend a lot of time thinking about this site.


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2wire transfer [121 words]JessieSep 4, 2016 23:56231946
12Knowing Muslim/Asian Couples & Validating Your Relationship Using Other People [510 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiSep 5, 2016 01:10231946
7Bumper Sticker Excuses [142 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiSep 5, 2016 01:16231946
13Do you see how empty and hollow this water dipper is? [79 words]LisaSep 5, 2016 05:17231946
8for Cynthia [274 words]JessieSep 5, 2016 21:47231946
9Turning Forum From "Negative" to "Positive:" Why It Won't Work [199 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiSep 7, 2016 04:12231946
10reply to sticker excuses [168 words]jessieSep 7, 2016 12:48231946
5reply to Straight-talk-luguie regarding asian/muslum couples [971 words]JessieSep 7, 2016 16:51231946
10Reply to Straight-talk-Luigi [112 words]JessieSep 8, 2016 17:24231946
1647 years old with 2 children and the morrocan is young [521 words]coconutSep 8, 2016 19:33231946
2You said it best Luigi [23 words]UnbelievableSep 9, 2016 02:48231946
11I said I was not replying to you anymore Jessie but I am once more [102 words]CynthiaSep 9, 2016 17:39231946
11Yep [341 words]ShömiSep 9, 2016 18:26231946
13Ha Ha Lisa [69 words]AliSep 10, 2016 12:11231946
14REPLY TO SHOMI AND COCONUT [836 words]JessieSep 10, 2016 12:30231946
9i dont have to disclosed anything Lisa [47 words]jessieSep 10, 2016 13:59231946
4Shomi [46 words]SiobhanSep 10, 2016 17:25231946
6well said coconut [104 words]candy appleSep 11, 2016 12:57231946
7Muslims are not allowed to marry Buddhist [85 words]DaryaSep 11, 2016 23:12231946
3Muslim can only marry Christian and Jewish women [47 words]KikaSep 14, 2016 11:04231946
3He's not religious Darya [177 words]JessieSep 14, 2016 14:38231946
4Regarding dowry [187 words]jessieSep 15, 2016 17:13231946
3will be my last comment to you cynthia [177 words]jessieSep 15, 2016 17:33231946
2yeah i know for Kika [100 words]jessieSep 15, 2016 18:23231946
12Compulsive liar! [842 words]RachaelAug 29, 2016 07:58231932
8I'm saddened to read your story Rachel [289 words]CynthiaAug 30, 2016 17:20231932
10Re: Rachael [69 words]ObserverAug 30, 2016 22:02231932
4replied to Rachel compulsive Niar [126 words]JessieAug 31, 2016 10:05231932
3replied to Rachel [57 words]jessieAug 31, 2016 10:08231932
5Reply to Cynthia [97 words]RachaelSep 1, 2016 04:32231932
3Reply to Observer [32 words]RachaelSep 1, 2016 04:40231932
4For RAchel [379 words]JessieSep 1, 2016 18:21231932
9fool for thinking you are different [271 words]coconutSep 2, 2016 09:34231932
2Reply to Rachel [37 words]CynthiaSep 3, 2016 15:20231932
22Replied to coconut [124 words]JessieSep 5, 2016 18:39231932
6Moroccan "Romeo" [31 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiSep 7, 2016 04:15231932
7he can talk to anyone he want reply to luigi [44 words]jessieSep 9, 2016 16:48231932
2I'm sorry [88 words]lostSep 13, 2016 12:49231932
3For lost [38 words]RachaelSep 14, 2016 10:20231932
2Look What I Found [43 words]SiobhanSep 14, 2016 16:57231932
2Thanks Siobhan [17 words]CynthiaSep 15, 2016 01:25231932
15Don't give feed back [292 words]UnbelievableAug 28, 2016 10:53231879
5replied to Unbelievable.. dont give feed back!! [269 words]JessieAug 30, 2016 15:33231879
4replied to Unbelievable [83 words]JessieAug 30, 2016 18:07231879
12You are totally off track [40 words]UnbelievableSep 1, 2016 09:32231879
6Thanks for Sharing, Unbelievable: Reasons for Responses [132 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiSep 7, 2016 04:25231879
4Reply to Unbelievable dont give feedback [245 words]JessieSep 8, 2016 22:53231879
8I agree Luigi but.... [100 words]UnbelievableSep 9, 2016 03:01231879
7Jessie you don't like others to talk down to you but this is exactly what you do to others [294 words]UnbelievableSep 10, 2016 07:13231879
15I want to clarify my responses [444 words]CynthiaAug 26, 2016 11:41231786
5yes [59 words]moAug 29, 2016 05:49231786
3Replied to Cynthia asked me why i come to this forum [525 words]JessieAug 29, 2016 17:46231786
2Moe [4 words]CynthiaAug 30, 2016 18:21231786
5replied to MO [58 words]jessieAug 31, 2016 11:29231786
11I don't like drama [87 words]UnbelievableSep 1, 2016 10:16231786
6Unbelievable plese share! [49 words]saraSep 2, 2016 00:31231786
1unbelievable I agree with you. [39 words]KikaSep 2, 2016 11:47231786
3Dear Unbelievable [136 words]SiobhanSep 3, 2016 01:45231786
Sorry I misspelled your name Mo [11 words]CynthiaSep 3, 2016 03:41231786
3I will Sara [33 words]UnbelievableSep 3, 2016 15:48231786
4for drama queen unbelivable [131 words]JessieSep 4, 2016 03:55231786
10I think Siobhan is right it's a Muslim guy [103 words]CynthiaSep 4, 2016 06:50231786
11Reply to Siobhan [106 words]CynthiaSep 4, 2016 09:34231786
2You made me laugh Kika [11 words]UnbelievableSep 4, 2016 13:02231786
5Dear Siobhan [57 words]UnbelievableSep 4, 2016 13:19231786
2drama queen [109 words]JessieSep 4, 2016 23:07231786
3for cynthia [241 words]jessieSep 4, 2016 23:46231786
6A lot of people speak different languages [46 words]CynthiaSep 5, 2016 02:25231786
5I would not be surprised [114 words]UnbelievableSep 5, 2016 11:07231786
6logic sense [102 words]jessieSep 5, 2016 23:25231786
5Get Over It [42 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiSep 7, 2016 04:19231786
6I still think not all are scammers [28 words]JessieSep 7, 2016 17:55231786
5Indian name? [15 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedSep 7, 2016 19:57231786
6Yes, Jordana Ghannam-Ahmed [25 words]SiobhanSep 9, 2016 03:21231786
3reply to get over it [9 words]jessieSep 9, 2016 15:55231786
2Yes it's Irish [10 words]UnbelievableSep 10, 2016 06:52231786
7Dear Cynthia [120 words]SiobhanSep 10, 2016 17:50231786
3Thank you Siobhan [51 words]CynthiaSep 11, 2016 18:39231786
Siobhan [46 words]VirajSep 27, 2016 21:36231786
5My Turkish Romeo [775 words]NatalieAug 23, 2016 18:08231659
6replied to turkist romeo [169 words]JessieAug 24, 2016 09:48231659
5Turks/arabs and Egypt circumcision [600 words]observerAug 24, 2016 17:47231659
3Love yourself more and be careful [340 words]LanaAug 24, 2016 19:27231659
9To Jessie [165 words]HopeAug 26, 2016 14:09231659
3My Moroccan Romeo (part 2) by Jessie [700 words]JessieAug 27, 2016 13:24231659
2Response re:circumcision [897 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedAug 27, 2016 23:01231659
3It's not for me to give a good answer Natalie [124 words]MLIDAug 28, 2016 15:45231659
4replied to Hope [234 words]JessieAug 28, 2016 22:11231659
9Thank you Jordana [684 words]DaryaAug 29, 2016 13:28231659
5I'm very sorry about your pain Darya [34 words]CynthiaAug 30, 2016 18:30231659
1Since you're going to be living there for a while [99 words]CynthiaAug 30, 2016 18:42231659
1Thanks Cynthia [16 words]DaryaSep 2, 2016 01:08231659
2Just my opinion [156 words]SoonToBeExpatAug 23, 2016 15:35231649
6Did my Mohamed tell on himself? [236 words]Hurting HeartAug 20, 2016 21:05231542
2Replied to did mohamed tell on himself [128 words]jessie (canada)Aug 23, 2016 09:50231542
7another scammer [144 words]observerAug 23, 2016 14:05231542
2Replied to Does my mohamed told on himself [105 words]JessieAug 23, 2016 23:15231542
2To Jessie [14 words]SoonToBeExpatAug 24, 2016 12:16231542
1Mohamed done told on himself [21 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedAug 27, 2016 23:05231542
6Red Flags and Uncertainty [60 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiAug 28, 2016 17:26231542
1Run, fast & far [33 words]MoAug 29, 2016 05:18231542
6A Moroccan woman (my wife) took my son (an Indian citizen) by fraud and is not ready to return [237 words]SunnyAug 20, 2016 13:52231535
2welcome to morocco [94 words]observerAug 23, 2016 14:11231535
5Your moroccan wife left with your child and does not want to return [218 words]Elisabeth DakakAug 23, 2016 16:54231535
1response to A Moroccan woman (my wife) took my son [142 words]JessieAug 24, 2016 13:53231535
4I have spent time trying to help you find answers [90 words]CynthiaAug 24, 2016 15:23231535
4Advice [43 words]PreciousAug 25, 2016 17:07231535

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