Muslim men in the west, investigate before it's too late !!

Submitted by Nanni (United Kingdom), May 21, 2010 at 11:44

Dear Ladies in Love, If you meet a lovely, respectful, caring, good looking North African man, be very careful. My advise is very simple. Ask them for their real name. If they give you an abbreviated name or westernized name, insist on their real name. If they are vague, you already have a problem. Once you have this, do a little search on the Electoral Roll in the UK or similar online people search services. It might cost you a few quid/dollars but I'm sure it will be well worth it in the end. Don't tell them that you are "spying" on them. You are not, you are just informing yourself, seeing they come in your life without a background you can draw information from, such as family, friends, friends of friends, colleagues. This way you will find out if they are married/divorced, how long they have been in your country, if they have children, if they are as old/young they say they are, where they live, if they own the house, etc.

I investigated someone from Algeria who didn't give me his real name, but after a bit of internet searching, I found his true name. He actually had been married. He told me he hadn't. When confronted he told me he "forgot all about it". When I said I knew he lived with her at this address for 5 years, he got so nasty, it was like a different person. The poor soul honestly believed that all women are stupid and easy to fool. Not this one. And nor will YOU be. Take my advise. Don't be afraid to feel like a snoop, you have a right to know who you are dealing with. Investigate before it's too late. One site I used is http://www.lookuppeople.co.uk, costs £10.00, there are other and more in dept ones too, like findermonkey.co.uk. I don't work for these companies, these are just the ones I used. All the best, Nanni

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