von's comments to isis

Submitted by American born (United States), Feb 3, 2010 at 16:24

Isis is NOT fooling herself. Isis is one of the few who have maintained her relationship with her husband and is happy. Luigi points out often this board is for WARNING ladies to stay away from Moroccan or Muslim men.
We have just as much right to post how you are over exaggerating "ALL" men act this way. THEY DO NOT!!
There are lots who will have the utmost respect for you. If you area woman who likes to be PAMPERED so to speak and expect this sort of continuous behavior from these men, TRUE, it will not continue past the initial "getting acquainted" engaged, honey-moon months or year, no men usually are 100% like this ALL THE TIME. Some women expect too much. I hear women here on this very board complaining how he will not help her in the house clean, cook, wash. Ok women bash me if you want. I am a woman and I can tell you as an American born bred citizen, my father instilled in the girls how it is your responsibility to take care of the men and the home. You can'[t have it ALL. They are not a PRINCE charming as you dream!! If they help you at all in the home doing these chores BE THANKFUL!!!!!!!! Most of this on this board is mere 'whining" my gosh ladies, "you are the one who sent them money in the first place!" You can't buy love and expect it to last FOREVER! You bankrupted yourselves!! If they have a shady character, then WAKE up, smell the coffee. Most women on here admits they saw shady actions and behavior they just chose not to accept it! Isis and a couple others who have post or posted in the past actually have decent men who does truly care and are willing to commit to the relationships.

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